How can I convince my girlfriend to have anal sex?

How can I convince my girlfriend to have anal sex? We never have it before.

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  • you should maybe explain to her why you really want to try it, and listen to her reasons for not wanting it. for you it probably seems great, but she is probably scared it will hurt. I've been with my boyfriend for five years and the topic has of course come up, but I'm not comfortable with trying it just yet. we've started small with like fingers, and when I'm comfortable enough I might let him try it. I've always told him that if it does happen I need to be the one in control of the depth and speed otherwise its a definite no. so explain to your girl that you will be gentle and let her be in control, and start smaller, maybe she'll agree. if she doesnt, you have to respect that