Could this get me pregnant?

I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to cheat. He says he really wants to have sex with me but he cant. I invited him over to hang out the other day and we got to talking about us. He said we couldn't have sex but we could do other stuff. We dry humped each other for awhile and then I asked him to masturbate on me. We got naked and I played with myself while he masturbated. He would rub his dick on the outside of my vagina and slap it down on my clit and it was feeling really good. Then he came and aimed his come all over the outside of my vagina. Then I fingered myself with the cum. I was just wondering if me fingering myself with his come could get me pregnant or not.
Updates:
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Just updating for everyone I did get pregnant but we did end up having sex after this too so I don't know what event caused it. He has left his girlfriend and has moved in with me.
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I am 6 months now to let everyone know and we are very happy
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  • Yes you could because you put the come inside. Once it gets in there, it goes to the warmest part and then travels and then could get you pregnant. It doesn't have to go in. the come does even if he put it on the outside like the tip of his d*** on it, if there is come on the tip, it will travel inside the vagina where it is warm. That's a natural process. So never do that again. And as for him to not cheat on his girl, he's doing that anyhow because anytime you do anything sexual with another woman/guy when you are in a relationship with another, that is cheating cause that's something you know should be done with your partner. So just because there is no sexual intercourse does not mean he is not cheating her nor does it make it ok or right, you know that? yall might as well have done it since yall went that far. I don't know why he thinks that's not cheating but that is whether he likes to admit it or not. Eventually, yall will have sex if yall keep messing around. Its all cheating. Sex is just the main course.

  • How long ago did this supposedly happen? It has only been a month since you wrote this so if you are pregnant, you must be barely pregnant...Also, you aren't upset you are pregnant by a cheater? And you didn't know that fingering come into your vagina can get your pregnant? I call you a TROLL or pretty damn stupid. Sorry, but I feel sorry for your child if you don't know enough about sex ed. yourself yet are having sex. You are again either a troll or you are too young and dumb to be doing these types of things. If you REALLY ARE pregnant, which I doubt, please get your sh*t together for your child's sake! Thanks!

    • Thank you. I just hate stupid people. its karma. I just hope the innocent child is ok

  • What the hell. When a guy sticks his dick in you and cums, its the same damn thing to take his come and finger yourself with it. Serves you right for getting pregnant. Its common sense that if you put come in your vagina you will probly get pregnant and its karma. It speaks to your character that you had no problem f***ing around with a guy that was already taken. You should really get it together. Its people like the two of you cheating and stuff that makes it hard on the good people it happens to to finally be able to trust someone.

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  • sharing any intimate moment with another is cheating, you don't even have to kiss

    and yes you could get pregnant unless your a virgin and your "cherry" hasn't been popped. though I could be wrong about the virgin part

    • You can still get pregnant even if you are a virgin.

    • Girls can "pop" their "cherry" in other ways besides sex. It happened to me when I was horseback riding. It can also happen if a girl is involved with gymnastics and/or other types of physical activities.

    • I once heard 'if you wouldn't do it when your partner is in the same room, its cheating' so do you think he would masturbate you if his girlfriend was watching? no? then its cheating. Just my opinion.

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  • In a few months this dude is going to be chilling with a girl, masturbating on her while she is fingering herself, and you'll be at home with the baby. Sounds like everyone wins! Except you, unfortunately.

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  • Are you crazy? Yes that can get you pregnant. It may not be a high chance but there is definitely a chance. Even if pregnancy isn't a factor, remember that him rubbing like that can spread STD's too. For future reference, I realize that he's the one with the girlfriend so you're not cheating on anyone, but do both of you honestly think that you can do what you just did and it's not considered cheating? Being the "other girl" is never a good thing to be. Just be careful and best of luck =)

    • Sure you right, girl! Its never good to be second best. Always first

  • I hate to break it to him, but he did cheat. Any girl who was in a relationship with him would consider that cheating.

    And yes, you can get pregnant from that, because by fingering yourself with his cum, that made it go inside you. Therefore it would have almost the same affect as if he came inside you himself.

  • Yeah, even if you hadn't fingered yourself there is still a chance it could have gotten inside you. Fingering yourself with it made sure it got inside.

    Women need to start sticking up for each other. Men treat us bad enough without us helping them treat their girl like dirt. Maybe put yourself in her shoes and re-consider your situation.

    • I totally agree with this. we need to help each other out, as women, instead of encouraging a guy to cheat on his gf...what if you were his gf, and he told you he didn't "cheat" on you, he just ejaculated all over another girl?? not cool. and yes. you WILL get pregnant if you were ovulating at the time that this happened....

    • I tottaly agree with u!

    • Smart move... it's always brilliant to move in with a cheater. At least you know what to expect from this guy... **sarcasm**

  • you couldve gotten pregnant if you hadnt fingered yourself. that just made it a bigger chance of getting pregnant

  • Of course that will cause you to get pregnant! Sperm cells travel a find their way to the egg. A man doesn't have to be inside a woman to get her pregnant. They tell you that in middle health class...

    Don't be surprised if he fools around with another girl and leaves you for her...

    • ^middle school health class

    • "Don't be surprised if he fools around with another girl and leaves you for her..." I agree. he's done it once, he could do it again.

  • wow! I'm a little late! but ur a home wrecker! I hope he leaves you!

    • Umm just because of her bad choice doesn't mean that he should leave her and punish the child that way.

    • Thats not very cool, everyone makes a mistake at some point, sometimes things end up for the better because of it. I hope you are never put into a situation where you are the other girl.. it hurts just as bad as being cheated on.

  • That can absolutely get you pregnant. But congrats on the baby and getting your man. *who the f*** cares how you spell come? really?*

  • You firstly are really trashy. You're also pretty stupid if you don't think that could make you prego. I hope you enjoy your future in the trailer park on welfare. You are DISGUSTING! lol

    • Ha.

    • Truly a testament to her gender (sarcasm)...

    • One word: asshole. she didn't know and you can't tell me you haven't done something stupid in ur life.

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  • good question that wasn't a very smart thing to do let him come on your vagina and then fingering yourself? of course theirs a big possibility to get pregnant you helped the come get closer to your cervix and that's how you get pregnant you can even get pregnant from pre cum

  • yes, you can. sorry you had to find out the hard way.

  • This is adult behavior?

  • yes. All it takes is 1 sperm to make its way in.

    • Yea I am pregnant

    • Congratulations ! !

  • ya now take in the possibility of he gonna leave you or cheating behind ur back because he could just be feeling sorry for you now and guilty for getting you pregnant he did the sensible thing ... f you all ! whatever what were you expecting sympathy paha no reality !

  • correct term is "cum" & sry I am not sure bout that...but in my oppion you are both were soo in the wrong , what is wrong with people these days !? he did cheat on his girlfriend period regardless & you didn't listen to him you only were provoking him ...besides you two let your hot and heaviness foreplay get to way to far , are you that selfish of a slut to get sexual pleasure ?

    like no offence @ least do these things with someone who is not in a relationship unless it may be open I dk but then again what kind of relationship would that be , I guess you like feeling like a prositute & don't care to get taken advantage of... well now you have both recieved the concequences of your actions & caused a whole drama thing now because its gunna devastate his girlfriend niceee...when other pple's feelings get hurt for no reason.

  • yes it could as long as the semen is in your vagina no matter how it enters you will get pregnant. bad idea. this was a very irresponsible thing to do and I hope the guy is ready to become a daddy

  • good question , I'm not sure, you guys might as well, you know?

  • Yes, you can get pregnant if you fingered yourself with a guys cum

  • that's cool that ur 6 months along!how old are u?

  • wow..that could of gotten you pregnant due to you were rubbing the um on ur fingers then putting it in ur vagina so yeah you prob got pregnant that way..how far along are u?or did you already give birth

    • Almost 6 weeks now

  • you didn't even have to finger yourself, his sperm just being close to your vagina could get you pregnant. good luck sweetie hope your not pregnant

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