I find myself liking rough porn

[Anonymous]

So yeah, I like rough porn. Not just porn where the guy seems in control, but porn where the girl actually seems uncomfortable. Like where you can tell she'd rather not be doing whatever she's doing. In general, I think whatever gets you off is okay. But this seems weird. Why do I like this? Why does it take seeing a woman be hurt and uncomfortable with what's going on for me to orgasm? Are any other women like this? And guys, do you like this? Do you like seeing women getting roughed up and abused in porn? If so, why?

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

I can start by telling you that I've known a few girls who get off on this. At least one of them was a dominatrix. One of them was my ExGF who I think got off on it because she was pretty sadistic, and really I think it came from a place in her where she hated herself and from it hated any girl she thought was prettier than her. She seemed to find women getting hurt sexually appealing, yet would fall into a sniveling mess if anybody so much as hinted at hurting her. (no I never hit her).

Another thing I can tell you is that ohsolostgirl is only 16, and really has a lot to learn before she can claim to be much of an expert at anything. Most people I met didn't start getting any real wisdom or insight about anything until they were about 19 or so. With the exception one girl I knew.

Anyway I can't pretend to know why the image of women being uncomfortable, in pain, or simply degraded in porn is so appealing. I mean I can't get into it myself. All I can really do is tell you about the people I've met. A dominatrix who was abused herself a lot a few years back. A girl who hated other women (lord knows what her deal was). Another girl who was merely a controller, and she was also abused, but I think in her case it was when she was a kid.

Those are the only three women I met who I can think of right now. I'm sure there's more. Also if you want to know if women getting it rough, or in pain or degraded is appealing to other people, just take a look at japan. I have never heard of a Japanese porn where the girl wasn't crying.

Anyway I'm sorry I could not be more insightful. Hope this helped a little bit.

[Asker]

It did help. Thanks.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Call me cocky but I think I just gave the most awesome answer here in this thread. Go me!

[pazuzzu]

just a curiosity: I wonder how different the responses would be if it was a male who asked the question?

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Maybe you should test that one out in a few weeks.

[Asker]

It'd probably get a much worse reaction if I were a guy, but I think that's understandable.

[gucci_muchh]

If it is what turns you on there is nothing wrong with that!

It is totally normal to be aroused by things others might find weird

Me myself on the other hand, I don't find it weird at all I'm turned on by gay (men) sex.. I just don't know why lol

[ohsolostgirl]

you pretty much like the since of control, and rape. which at times can be hot and get people off, but should come with a do not try this at home. its illegal

[-smilewhore]

I don't think its illegal.

[Asker]

I think she just means that rape is illegal. Not fantasy rape or anything like that.

[katiegal]

I like it too,i was worried that if its normal or not,but it's only fantasy,it's not what I want to happen to me or to anyone else in real.