If guy busts a bigger nut in you, is it more dangerous to get pregnant?

Last week I got drunk and did something really stupid. I was at a party of my office and got drunk. I ended up fucking with one of my coworkers (he's pretty handsome but already has a girlfriend) without a condom. I usually take the pill but forgot to take it a couple times and it's not valid anymore. He promised to pull out but he just nutted inside me and it was a really big load. At least compared to what I've seen. Is it more likely to get pregnant cause of that? And how come he has a bigger load than other men? does it mean he's more fertile? ps: his girlfriend hates me but forgave her boyfriend. Can you believe that?
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I've heard that if it's good sex, he gets more stimulated and shoots more sperm. Is that true?
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Good news! I'm not pregnant!
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  • There can be a million sperm in a mere drop of semen, and it only takes one to get pregnant, so, there really is little difference in fertility between a big load and a small one.

    Like any other body part, prostates vary, and so does the amount of semen they can produce and hold. It's not much different than, say, how some women who are nursing can produce many pints of milk a day, and other women can barely produce half a cup. It's normal physical variations at work.

    It IS true that some external factors can contribute to the amount of semen a guy shoots. If he hasn't ejaculated in the last 48 hours, his "tank" (i.e., prostate) will be full, and if he's very highly aroused, the prostate will be working faster to produce more semen, which can cause the prostate to feel "overfull", which creates tension that helps lead to orgasm but can cause serious pain if there is no ejaculation to relieve that pressure. That's known as "blue balls", even though the problem is neither blue nor with the balls.

  • That is true, the more stimulated, usually the more there is. Some guys have more than usual every time. Some (like me) can have multiple orgasms and then there is enough to fill a coffee cup.(not really lol) It doesn't mean anything necessarily but you can get preggo anyway. If the load is bigger, it doesn't necessarily mean there is more sperm in it, the sperm cells are all that really matter, not the amount of seminal fluid along with them. However, it is possible to have more sperm cells in there too. No way to know really.

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  • That's how is always works. The girlfriends always forgives the men and hates the girl. The girlfriend is just to insecure to let the man go, and thinks its easier to hate the other girl. It only takes one sperm to get you pregnant. It might of seemed like a bigger nut because you were both drunk but either way i would keep an eye on that

  • So I don't think that it matters whatsoever how much it is compared to the chances of getting preggers from it. I've always thought that guys came more the more they were turned on, but maybe some of the guys on here can clear that up for us? :o)

    P.S. - I would NOT be happy if he promised to pull out and didn't if I was u!!!

    • I wasn't happy either, but too drunk to get mad. If I was sober, I probably would have kicked his ass. Plus, if a guy just made you come like that, you are less likely to get mad ;)

    • Yeah, good call. I'm sure we all had those 'in the moment' situations where protection is the last thing on the minds. In the end someone was happy at-least! :)

    • haha! I'm sure he was! He texted me that he is still enjoying it and if I want to fuck again, he's ready for it. I think that I'll get busy taking the pill again first. And make sure I don't mess with his angry/forgiving gf too much :)

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  • I agree that she's foolish for forgiving her man so easily, but your behavior was so shamelessly sleazy that of course she's going to hate you.
    Like others have said, the amount doesn't make a difference; it's the active sperm that determines the probability.

  • Makes no difference. Most of it isn't necessarily sperm but semen ( prostatic fluid). You can also have a lot of semen, but low sperm count or low sperm motility ( meaning the guys are not inspired to swim anywhere). So in the end, it really doesn't matter.

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  • You can get preg from a TINY bit of precum
    but
    you can also debate that more volume might
    get into more places and linger longer while draining
    to give better odds

  • The likelihood does not increase.

  • The amount of fluid is irrelevant, its the amount of active sperm that increases the risk. Just hope he is a jaffa, full of juice not much seed :-)

    • Of course there other factors, may seem strange but if you orgasmed the risk is higher as the cervix drops at the point of orgasm, even the position you used etc effects the chances by a tiny bit

    • I never heard about that. Are you serious? Damn, I came like crazy.

    • Yes, the feeling you get when you push down into your ass is a muscular contraction forcing the cervix to drop

  • The length of time between ejaculations has an affect along with the guy himself.

    Although it only takes a single sperm to make a pregnancy, it stands to reason that the more cum, the more sperm. The other question is if you were fertile too. Plan B would have been a smart purchase.

    What kind of office is this? What was the party for?

  • Yes, the more stimulated we are, the more cum that can squirt. Think of what happens when a guy hasn't shot anything for days, his prostate hasn't been worked out to say the least. There are a variety of factors but I've been known to do a lot myself from time-to-time, because of the clean-up volume I'm told :p

    Do you normally have a guy cum in you? Just curious what you consider what you had seen before.

    • I've gad a guy come in/on several places and this time it was definitely more.

  • lolz. i must say you're just over reacting :P nothing happened like this

  • Big load = more sperm = greater chance of having one of those buggers find the egg.

    Not really that big of a difference though.

  • I don't think the size of the load makes any difference for getting pregnant. It also differs a lot between guys. I think it could mean the he hadn't had sex in a while.

  • it makes no difference it only takes 1 sperm to get you pregnant