Dildos for virgin?
Ok I am a virgin and I am pretty horny to be honest. I was thinking about buying a dildo/vibrator to help my sexual pleasure. If I use the dildo a lot (lets say), when I go into the real thing of sex, will it hurt still? Any help will be appreciated.
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Most Helpful Opinion
Go for it. Vaginas are incredibly elastic and snap back to their natural size within hours/a day of sex. Learning about yourself and what gets you off is really important to your future sex life. If you don't know how to get yourself off, how will you be able to help someone else do so? Sex won't be as painful the first time you have it, mostly because you'll already know what to expect and your hymen is already broken. My first time didn't hurt at all, and I had never used a vibrator or dildo beforehand. My suggestion would be to get a vibrator/dildo (shaped like a penis, but it vibrates) because it will be more versatile and because 80% of women need clitoral stimulation (rather than just penetration) to get off.Explore and enjoy!
What Guys Said 1
I think it's best you wait. You don't want to pop your cherry to a dildo do you? Try using your finger when masturbating, it's smaller and should still get you off.
What Girls Said 2
if you use a dildo, I assume it wouldn't hurt when you had sex for the first time because you wouldn't be as tight.
you shoudl because then you will know what you like and what to expect :) also, it doesint have to hurt and your hymen does not have to break, just go really slow and use a lot of lube. if you use a dildo this shoudint be a problem because there is no guy present to get impatient :P