Is it odd that I find no pleasure in fingering myself?

I mean, I love it when someone else is fingering me, and when I use various other objects it feels good...but when I actually stick my finger in my vagina I don't feel anything...
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Most Helpful Girls

  • okay maybe this can answer your question..

    you know when you try popping a pimple on your face and it really hurts and you can't do it..so you ask someone else to do it and they pop it..its because you can stop the pain when you are hurting yourself. you know yourself how much pain you can take from yourself..well when you do it you don't feel it as good, now when someone else does it, it feels great! trust me I have the same problem. and I don't see and excitement when I do it myself..its great when someone else does it..

  • i can relate to that. just try to rub your clit and if u touch/lick your boobs whatsoever it may help.. or u can just hump a pillow, thats just one of the best ways to do it! You can always find some object to do it... but dont forget that the inner part of your vagine doesn't have as many nerve endings like your clit, so if u put some clit action itll feel much better! good luck and have fun :)

  • It's because your finger just isn't big enough to hit all the nerves in your vagina. Think about it, penises are way bigger than a finger. Try rubbing your clit; it will work much better. About 80% of women cannot get off from penetration alone, so you're definitely not the only one!

Most Helpful Guys

  • here's a tip...sit on your hand or just get it to be numb...than when you finger yourself it should kinda feel like it's someone else's hand...this moves called "a stranger" I think...lol...

    Or perhaps use a dildo or something larger than your finger...hope this helps..

  • your finger isn't very big and go in very far. Plus its like trying to tickle yourself, you can't do that sort of stuff to yourself. That's why girls have the clit, you aren't meant to orgasm or anything from your fingers in your putang pie.

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  • its because you know what's going to happen and where you are, if its someone else you never know what there gona touch/do next.

  • Focus on your clitoris instead

  • you know the answer as you have mentioned it in your question!

  • That is that uncommon.

  • your a wild one and need the extra pleasure its not weird its a good thing your not easily turned on you use those various objects don't settle for mediocre masturbation

  • well its because there aren't as many nerve receptors in the vagina as in the clit

  • i don't get any pleasure from touching myself either, I don't think it's abnormal.