Why do guys like to take a girls virginity?

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Why do guys like to take a girls virginity so much? 
My past ex's only dated me to, I don't get it, some one please explain it to me?

Meedo · Accepted Answer

Its because you get to leave a powerful impression on a woman. You are her teacher in a way. She is more submissive because she is like a student. You will be imprinted in her mind forever. The feeling of control shoots men testosterone level which is a feel good hormone for men. It is like the feeling when you have won a championship.

Besides.. if you give her good sex , she will be less likely to compare you to other people.

But like anything else... one can be a gentleman or a jerk about it. I wouldn't deceive a girl to take her virginity. Promise her relationship and then bail out.

What is important for you is that you don't look at it from a male point of view. Don't be traumatised by it. At the end of the day , if you are a good girl and a gem. Men would love to be with you ! Virgin or not.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't know. I think we subconsciously think it's tight, or we feel like it's hot no penis has ever been there.

Or maybe it's more that, to some extent guys get a lot of validation out of being sexually wanted. And being wanted by a virgin is highly validating since nobody else has been.

Azara · Accepted Answer

for guys who re themselves waiting for marriage this is obvious,

for other guys, bc sex is stressful for the guy, and she has nothing to compare him to.

some guys think if she's a virgin shell be attached to him and never want anyone else.

a lot of guys hate it bc its too much trouble for not much fun.

usually people who want to really be in a relationship and create a serious bond, like their partner being a virgin. or at least dont mind.

hook ups hate it, usually.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

According to my brother, "It's different for all guys. Some like the fact that they're the first to run through. Some like that it's like teaching a new puppy some of the ropes. It's no pressure either. I know I don't want her to know more than me."

-.-

SaVes · Accepted Answer

I like the idea of taking a guy's virginty. It's always been a turn on for me. :)

ManThatKnewTooMuch · Answer

I don't think that was the only reason. Believe it or not, you're a cute girl.

Theguyoverthere · Answer

Some guys just see it as a bragging right. They see it as a "hard to get" girl and feel like they are "so awesome" for being able to.

I personally feel that it's a heightened risk for blind attachment as I have had an issue with hooking up with a virgin before. She got blindly attached to me. The other issue is that if the guy doesn't like the girl as much, she can be emotionally devastated if she feels like she was getting close by being sexual with him.

TrixiePooch · Answer

Because it is like screwing a young girl and about her innocence, and there are a lot of closet pedophiles out there and this is as close as they can get without jail. Now the question is, how many guys stay with the girl after they take it?

parkway · Answer

A virgin has a biblical contract which is written in blood. To some men the contract is worth millions, to take it without cause makes a woman worthless.

The sole purpose for the hymen is contractual. Read your history books.

BrunetteNYC · Answer

Ego trip all the way, not about love, about power.

Adenn · Answer

I have never been with a virgin, would like to be to see what it feels like vs a "non-virgin" but it isn't a quest of mine to take it.

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

Not all of them do. But it's a bragging rights thing for some of them

Ocicatlvr · Answer

i will never feel that power , unfortunatly

TouchTheSky · Answer

can I take yours? :D

biscuits1 · Answer

They don't, never be a first and never be a last

Malcom_Reynolds · Answer

Feeling special being her first.

meibay313 · Answer

I had no idea LOL this is actually the first time I heard guys like taking someone's virginity haha interesting..but hope not all of them do

Brenhawkz · Answer

So it doesn't feel like we're putting our dicks somewhere another dick's been

JohnnySS · Answer

because they like the power. they like play things. 2nd they want to dominate those women and by taking their virginity they will strive to be with them only. that way they can take advantage of them and the girls emotional bond help serve their purpose.

sources... im a guy

not an evil one but i know how guys think, they all think the same, they just have different objectives whether good or bad.

NoblesseOblige · Answer

It's an accomplishment for some guys.

catguy · Answer

The wolf caught his bunny rabbit muahahhaaaa ;)

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

Because she's forever your sexual property, in some kind of primal way. And guys want that, per evolutionary biology.

Kermit123 · Answer

1. It's exciting to know you were a girls first time. 2. There is a sense of winning a challenge. 3. It makes you feel special to know that the girl wanted her first time to be with you.

Nitinha · Answer

I know.I have a bf , but it's an online relationship, we are both 23 and he asked me if I was a virgn, And I am...so, he told me he wants to be the first.I don't know if he wants  curious to be with me or if he really loves.

GoldCobra · Answer

I want to take away their innocence and never give it back to them... Ever!!

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