Seriously girls, do you like guys?

[ski-stud-mike]

From my experience, it seems as though girls don't actually like guys! Let me explain myself with just a few reasons: 1. Girls don't like guys enough to do anything about them. If a guy hits on a girl, asks her out and pays for her, the girl will go on a date. Otherwise the girl would never have even thought about the guy. So they obviously don't like guys enough to ever go out of their way to be with them. 2. Girls never think the guys in porn are hot, BUT most supposedly straight girls actually DO get turned on by lesbian action! This is the main reason that pushed me over the edge to wonder why the freak girls ever get with guys. 3. Girls only get turned on by themselves. When you touch them right, kiss their neck or tell them they're hot - it's all about girls! Nothing about a GUY turns girls on, its only when they feel sexy themselves. 4. Whenever you ask girls if guys in speedos are hot, their initial reaction is always "ew gross no." So you don't think naked guys are hot, a guy is never hot/cool/whatever enough to make you wanna hit on him, and nothing about guys turns you on, but, lesbians do. It really just seems like girls only get with guys because that's what they've been doing forever and they're embarassed to say they're lesbian, plus they have to have kids to keep the world going. So my question is: WHAT DO YOU LIKE ABOUT GUYS? Because society in general says you like nothing, but points to you liking girls more. PROVE ME WRONG PLEASE. And I want things SPECIFIC TO MALES...don't just tell me that guys are funny or something because girls can be funny too. What do you like about men?

[sammyangel9991]

1. A lot of girls still feel like its the guy's job to ask them out. Also, we don't like every guy we see just like guys don't like every girl they see. Its not that we don't like guys, we just don't like EVERY guy. A girl generally has feelings for only 2-3 guys at most at one time and sometimes she may not have feelings for any guys or she could only have feelings for 1 guy. And most of the time we have to get to know the guy in order to develop feelings for him.

2. Its a proven fact that the female body is attractive to both sexes. There is a scale from 1-5 that every girl fits it. 1 is totally lesbian, 3 is bi, 5 is totally straight. Believe it or not most girls are not totally straight. A girl can be straight and still fin girls somewhat attractive. This was on an episode of oprah. It doesn't mean that girls aren't attracted to guys, it just means that girls like the way girls look too. Also, girls aren't nearly as visual as guys. Guys can just look at a pic of a hot girl and get turned on. Girls can look at a pic of a guy and think he's hot, but they won't get turned on unless they have an emotional connection to him. Girls fall in love in their minds. They need to have an emotional connection to a guy in order to fall for him.

3. Ok you are totally wrong. Girls love guys bodies. The hottter the guy, the sexier we feel. Its just that it take more than just physical stuff to turn us on. And also, the stuff you are talking about is what guys need to do to us to turn us on. Guys get turned on super easy but girls need a lot of foreplay in order to get in the mood.

4. Ok, dicks are not pretty and we don't want to look at them. Yeah we may like the way they make us feel, but they are ugly. We love guys bodies for the most part. We love it when they have ripped abs and nice arms and muscular legs and we likes dicks but we just don't want to have to stare at them.''

Yes we like guys. Its just that guys and girls work differently. This site would not exist if girls were not attracted to guys. There would be no couples. Girls wouldn't have all these stupid questions about whether a guy they like likes them back or not and girls would all be lesbian if that were the case. Just because girls are turned on differently than guys doesn't mean that we aren't attracted to the opposite sex.

[ski-stud-mike]

Couple questions: What's so hot about the female body to a girl? They have everything you have. Do you like the female body more or less than the male body? Girls masturbate alot. So you can't tell me that girls aren't horny unless they get foreplay...what turns you on when you're alone at night? If you're turned on then, why not when you see a hot guy during the day or something?

[sweet17]

Everything you said is SOOOOO right,

[HaggardDiva]

What do guys find hot about the female body? Just because we have the same stuff doesn't mean we can't admire others.

[ski-stud-mike]

The boobs to stomach to butt ratio is way hot. the skinny, shaved legs, the long healthy hair, the hot faces, that's what we love about women. I can understand girls appreciating other girls' hotness, but it turning you on is another thing. Like I can appreciate a buff guy, but he doesn't turn me on at all!

[sammyangel9991]

Female bodies are curvy and we can still look at girls and think "shes pretty" or "she has a really nice body". The female body is attractive to everyone. Girls do get horny but its not usually for a reason unless its because of a romance novel. I have read a few of them and they always have hot sex scenes that turn me on, but the reason they turn me on is because the characters in the books always have an emotional connection before they have sex.

[sammyangel9991]

Just looking at a hot guy makes me think in my head "damn he's hot" but it doesn't make me horny or anything because I don't have any sort of emotional connection to the guy. I don't know him. And by the way, female bodies don't turn me on but I do find them attractive. I think certain girls are pretty and have nice bodies when I look at them, but I would never want to date them or anything.

[mormongirlmichl]

woah you really have a hard time with this huh? lmbo.

I've already told you, but I don't like girls 'that' way...only guys.

Guys have broad shoulders, amazing arms and stomachs, guys are stronger than girls so we feel protected by them, guys have amazing eyes...haha even if girls can have great eyes...only guys have beautiful eyes, to me anyways... Guys have stronger personalities and more direct way of talking/acting, they have great smiles...girls probably do too, but I don't notice...LOL, and um, should I keep going? OK...Guys are providers, they care about us and they want us to be happy. Guys physically are also taller most of the time...and there's just something about having to stand on your tip toes to give them a hug... lol Guys are always warm...and I'm always cold so... yay!

I think society took the fact that "girls can appreciate another girl's beauty or recognize it" into girls like girls... which isn't always the case! I'll say that a guy is hot, handsome, gorgeous, a hunk, pretty buff etc. etc, but a girl is either "oh she's pretty, wish I looked like that" or "woah she's beautiful, wish I looked like that." Girls are competitive and we see everything we don't have...We also get jealous sooo easily! For example, I'm very think/skinny. When I see girls with 'curves' (not overweight...curves! Not the "make-fat-girls-feel-good-about-themselves curves...actual curves...sorry if that offended anyone, I just wanted to clarify.) I get like jealous or like man I wish I looked like that and not like this etc. It's more of a comparison...

I don't know if I'm making any sense...I think I'm too tired to make sense...I'm tempted to not even submit this... :S oh well if you don't like it...too bad, if you have questions, I'll clarify :)

[ski-stud-mike]

Thanks! I wish more girls were clear like this...I don't know if most girls actually get turned on by other girls, or if they just think they're pretty. But yes, it made sense, I wish all freaking girls were like you. And the longer the answer, the better on this question, because it takes a lot to convince me that girls like guys! Did you understand my question and could you see where I'm coming from on this?

[mormongirlmichl]

Lol ya, I understood your question....and you've been kind of asking it over and over again but with different stuff every time....so I guess you're learning some. lol and ya, I get where you're coming from.

[HaggardDiva]

Okay, well, like I said before I am bi, so I do like girls, but actually, I've never been turned on by a girl just hanging out. I've thought, woah she's hot, but never turned on. Not even in swimwear. But actually I have by guys, especially if they are shirtless. I've gotten way turned on by guys, working on cars and stuff like that. If their bodies are nice and they maybe have a little work sweat and grease or something, I've definately gotten turned on a lot by guys like that.

[atsizat]

You dont get turned on by a guy who dont have any muscle, do you?

[HaggardDiva]

Okay, well, I am bi. And I'm turned on by guys and girls equally. And while a lot of what sammyangel said I agree with, I actually do get turned on by a lot of guys visually, not having emotional ties to them. I find the male body beautiful too, but I totally agree that the one part I don't want to stare at is the penis. I don't know why, it's just not that attractive, but it surely serves an awesome purpose. As far as the dating thing goes, I will not go on a date with a guy that I'm not interested in, just because he's paying. As a matter of fact, when I am dating, I insist on paying for something and it kind of frustrates me when a guy won't let me contribute at least a little. So to answer your title quesiton, yes, I absolutely actually like guys.

[nanashi]

hmmm tough question never thought about it as much...

i like the sense of security...you know feeling protected like they wouldn't let anything ever happen to u...

they're great in bed...they can do things that girls obviously can't do...guys bodies can be extremely hotto a girl...i like when my boy is wearing a baggy trousers with no top on...and wen the top of his boxers show I love that 2...

and girls are always thinking about different guys and what's hot about them like what guys do with girls...

so girls do have reasons for liking guys...

[SugaBaby]

true. I tell my boyfriend to touch me where I like him to. I'll moan or make noises so he knows.

i get turned on by straight porn, not lesbian porn.