I met a girl online who said she wants to meet to have sex?

[Anonymous]

I've never had one and was never interested in one before. But I met this girl online (one of those stupid online dating sites my friend insisted I try) and when I first heard from her I was excited to maybe start a new relationship again (it's been a while) so I chatted with her for the past few weeks and now she wants to meet and have sex. That is all she was interested in from about the second or third message and aside from a dinner date here and there sex is all she is interested in. At first I wasn't interested but it has been a while and even if it is just a night out and a one night stand it still would be nice to go out, but I have some uncertainties about how to meet her and how to go about sleeping with her (obviously I won't take her back to my place) that is even if I want to try doing this. Any thoughts, ideas, suggestions? Any information will help.

[smexxykitten]

Aww sweetie no please don't do it. You should be more interested in starting a new relationship with someone who cares about you and loves you, this girl just wants to screw you over and get her way. It won't do you any good. I understand that its been a while but don't you think its better to wait for the right person rather than go out with this girl who you know just wants sex? I really hope everything works out for you. Good luck!

[lovebird01]

My advice? Don't do it! As a person who has done a lot of online dating in the past, its easy to get sex there, if you want it. Don't give in to that temptation. Besides, you wouldn't just do it with any girl you met in a bar, so why is the internet any different when talking about a one-night stand? Use better judgment, here!

[Asker]

Thanx for the advice I guess is is a stupid idea I'm letting my lack sex cloud my judgment. its just my younger self getting the better of me. when I was younger I did this stuff all the time and back then is was a bad idea and now is no different

[cardioman65]

You are lucky you got a response! I have well, I guess it just was for sex, but I never came across a woman that wanted sex on a sex site! I gave up on those sites because I never got anyone and they keep you going by getting fake woman on so you will keep going and renewing!

[Asker]

I was surprised too I never liked the whole online dating thing but my friend made me and I got like 3 in the past year but only this one but I don't think I will do it cause I don't really like the 1 night stand thing (I'm not really that kind of guy)

[Lesae]

Don't do it. If you do practice safe sex.

[johnsmith2116]

Well why not? As long as you are attracted, and if you play it safe, then go for it.

Anyway, if you had met her in a bar instead of online, you wouldn't hesitate would you?