Stop body shaming!

[MissPoirot]

Hi everyone!

This is a very popular subject, just look at all the 'How do I look?' questions on G@G. That is why I want to share my take on body shaming! First I want to discuss a few things that annoy me.

1. Is curvy another word for fat?

No. A slim girl can be curvy too! Women are curvy in general. Your butt, breasts and hips are all curves. Fat is NOT a curve!

2. Bones are for dogs, men like meat!

I hate it when people say things like this, it is hurtful too, just like it would be hurtful to call someone 'fat'. Please stop with this nonsense. 'Guys don't like toothpicks'. STOP objectifying women like this. Not everyone likes meat, thin things can be delicious too! Some like pizza, others like hamburgers. (If we have to objectify women, let's at least compare them to good things :) )

3. Guys like big boobs

A lot of guys do, yes. But tons of other guys prefer small ones! Big and small boobs both look great. So please stop saying a girl is feminine because she has large breasts. Every girl is feminine because she is a FEMALE, it is how she acts that determines this, not the size of her chest.

To sum up, everyone is different. Why do we have to make fun of other women to make ourselves feel better? Calling each other 'toothpicks' or 'elephants' won't help anyone now will it? I think slim girls are very elegant and delicate looking. Curvier or well-rounded women are sexy and fun. And of course, each woman is different and can be any of the things I mentioned, whatever their body shape. The point is, everyone has a different taste. That is why you should never change yourself, especially not for a guy. Make sure you are healthy and if YOU are happy with the way you look, then be confident and show 'em what you've got! Some guys like curvy, others like slim. But let's call them men, because MEN like whatever the hell they want!

[pavlove]

So... you're actually jealous of fat girls?

That whole I like curvey women is just because it's fashionable to stick up for people who are picked on. All the men I know like toothpicks. Yeah, it's great if you also have an ass but a thick girl is not attractive.

It's like this whole fat, short guys are more aggressive and have personality are sexy. It doesn't really translate. Girls will be attracted to to tall, muscular, good looking men however they behave, but it's fashionable to pretend to like the opposite.

[KidanisCortes]

This man beat me to it

[ThreeMonkeys]

What? She said fat is not the same as curvy. She said fat, curvy and skinny are three distinct body types. Apart from that... are you saying some of these chicks here don't give you a boner: https://sexycurvywomen.tumblr.com/

[pavlove]

oh god not at all

[ThreeMonkeys]

Haha I sincerely doubt that. Yes some of them are not appealing... but then there are definitely some that have a nice body even with their "few extra pounds"... which makes them curvy... which is distinctly different than fat.

Sofia Veragra, Salma Hayek, Lisa Ann, Christina Hendricks, Mimi Rodgers. If you ask me... these women are HOT as fuck... mostly because they are busty / got all the right curves.

Regardless of what trends may be... body shaming is a deeper issue of abusing someone based on their image and that is never acceptable. Insecure and immature girls/women tend to be very critical of each other or especially when it comes to other they are jealous of or "hate". Sometimes there is nothing wrong but this bitchy immature behavior is meant to tear down self-esteem and shame these women. I would say that this article is mainly toward criticizing that behavior and less about what the exact definitions of what curvy might be or what men like

[MissPoirot]

Thank you @Three Monkeys ! And @pavlove, I want to do another take for the guys because what you said isn't true at all. Not everyone likes the tall and muscular type. Thanks for your opinion, from the comments on your opinion it is already clear that as I said, everyone has a different taste.

[BreatheMe]

'All the men I know like toothpicks' Where in gods name do you live?

[pavlove]

"Not everyone likes the tall and muscular type. Thanks for your opinion"

Really? Do you actually look around or do you look at rare cases either on tv or your friend group? It's very uncommon to see

-a guy with a girl who's taller than he is (at parties this can be very different where usually the most aggressive guy wins. i'm talking about out in public holding hands all kissy blah blah)

-a guy who's significantly in worse shape than his girlfriend. this is more common but still uncommon. hot girls don't typically have fat bfs nor do hot guys have fat girlfriends. This is not an always, it's a usual case.

To me, it's more feminist that women should be allowed to be just as superficial as men are without being labeled a ******. For too long have women had to pretend to not care about things like size of his muscles, jawline, etc. why should men be the only ones to verbalize their love for the opposite gender's physique? Because women aren't supposed to like sex? But we digress...

[pavlove]

My issue with you, take owner, is that you want us to believe your premise that everyone has different tastes despite logic or reasoning to aid your argument. for anyone to be more attracted to fat person than a normal or skinny person they are going AGAINST THE NORM. they are fine to do this, but it is obvious that it is different from what most would be attracted to. Therefore, your premise that every single person has entirely different tastes is a bit hopeful but not correct. Perhaps with time this will become more the case, but there is definitely a physical ideal which we are all more or less aware of. Yes it shifts, yes we're less superficial than we were in the 90's which for some reason was super fake but that doesn't mean just as many people are attracted to fat people as skinny people.

[MissPoirot]

I am not going to completely disagree with you because you did add some reasoning to your statements and there is some truth in what you said. However, you refer to fat and skinny or fat and muscular for men and those are not the only bodyshapes. So, by saying everyone has a different taste, I ak not saying that as many guys like 'fat' girls as they do skinny girls because there are a lot of things between skinny and fat. There is reasoning to the different taste part, for example if you think spinach is disgusting you are surprised when somebody else loves it. And a lot less people might like goat's cheese than hamburgers but nevertheless there are people that do. As for the 'not all girls like muscular guys', I prefer guys not to be muscular.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Wait... so this is a take on stopping body shaming, yet it shames fat women in the very beginning of the take for calling themselves curvy... this doesn't add up. I could have taken this much more seriously if you didn't contradict yourself in the very beginning of this take. If boobs and hips are curves (and "fat bitches" also have these assets) then that would imply that you can be fat and be curvy.

I'm frankly disappointed.

[MissPoirot]

I wanted to give my opinion on the words that people are using these days. I wasn't shaming 'fat' women at all. In order to stop body shaming, larger women also have to stop saying skinnier girls aren't curvy and feel superior because of this. I didn't say anything negative about these women, I just stated that fat is not a curve and that they have to stop using it against other women. I couldn't leave that out because it is body shaming as well. I am sorry you misunderstood and I hope you are not offended.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Well actually, yu are body shaming. Body shaming can be directly linked to somebody trying to dictate how others perceive their bodies. If they want to call themselves curvy it isn't up to you to tell them that their bodies aren't that title and then post an extremely offensive and very clearly body-negative photo to prove your point. That is 100% body shaming.

[RJGraveyTrain]

I mean, for crying out loud, you posted a picture of two larger women in burger king crowns that said "Fat bitches be like I love my curves." ... This is not body shaming how?

Also, the actual definition of 'curve' is a continuously bending line without angles. So, technically, if you have rolls, you have curves. Let people call themselves what they want and quit making it about weight. The whole point to body positivity is to stop making it about "You have to look like this to be able to call yourself this!" It's completely counter productive to the message you're trying to send to people. I'm not saying bigger women have exclusive rights to the title either, but neither does anybody else.

[MissPoirot]

I don't know if you noticed, but I don't agree with any of the pictures I posted. I mean, just look at nr 2. I am clarifying that body shaming is never right. Saying what is curvy and what isn't is just knowing what a word means and using it correctly, not telling people what to do and what not to do.

[RJGraveyTrain]

You realize you just contradicted yourself again: You state that we shouldn't tell skinny girls that they aren't curvy, but it's 100% okay to tell a fat person that they aren't curvy. Did you think this through at all?

[ambertaylor]

I think it's up to ourselves to make the best of our appearance but I don't agree with all this body shaming going on at the moment. In the media, it's one extreme to another, super skinny models or 'curvy' girls who are borderline obese. Women especially are so quick to shame eachother and say that being chubby is beautiful etc but the thing is, in magazines and media targeted at females... there are no 'curvy' men? All the men are muscular and chiseled. What I don't like is not curvy but seriously overweight girls slamming the skinnier girls and then the skinnier girls slamming back at the fat girls... When the reality is, neither are healthy! I wish the media didn't use such extremes, I think the logical thing to do is to get a 'normal' model size 10/12 (I'm from the UK) so that both skinny and larger women can relate to the clothes or whatever.

Everyone will always judge everyone else about their appearance and the media doesn't make it any easier but it would be nve to think that this judging has an end in sight!

[MissPoirot]

I agree 100%!

[Someguy17]

Look, if you put yourself out there, get ready for the hate. When men take a chance and approach women frequently, they will get some harsh rejections. If you ask for an opinion, you will likely get some harsh ones mixed with the good. Basically, what I'm saying is that if you don't want to deal with the assholes that say these sorts of things, then don't ask the question in the first place. If you really want to know how attractive you are, then ask, but also understand that you cannot control what people say or how they say it. That's life.

By the way, the three points you made were spot on. For me, a women that takes care of herself will almost always have an attractive body, no matter the build. And dat long hair too, mmmmmm.

[MissPoirot]

Yeah, I agree. That is one of the reasons I wrote this take, girls shouldn't be asking random males for approval. You shouldn't even care about what they think of you as long as you are happy with yourself. Thanks :)

[Broswater]

Why do you care so much what we men think about? Just be yourself. Say no to what they tell you to be. So what, if me personally, I like athletic, fit girls? Is that a bad thing? Am I forced to love what you think is beautiful? It has been said that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you want to be curvy, fat, obese, so be it. If you find yourself beautiful that way its cool. Its you. Be you. You'll find many guys that likes that and are not ashamed.

But not this guy. I train 5 times a week, eat well, live an active lifestyle, enjoy the outdoors. I take care of myself, dress well, damn I like to look good. So why can't I want to find a woman like me? What is wrong with that? Be you, have your taste, but don't get angry at guys like me who find girls like British Olympian Allison Stokke more beautiful than Adele.

its not always about judging the other, sometimes people just have different tastes.

[MissPoirot]

I agree with you 100%, exactly the point I was trying to make. Girls these days care too much about what guys supposedly think of them while this in fact shouldn't be an issue.

[TheGeorge]

I am never body shaming just giving my honest opinion. Something many men here won't do because they would take whatever they get. I realize my opinions aren't popular here but they more likely reflect the real world's opinion (as you kinda indicate). I am direct and honest and prepare the girl for the real world. There is no use in telling a girl she is beautiful when she will sit home alone and cry because she never attracts any guys. Better to tell her what the problem is so she can start to work on improving it instead of feeling a false sense of accomplishment. This is my opinion and I disagree with yours. Of course it doesn't mean I have to be rude. I don't think I am and I guess that was your main point. You can of course say it in a more civilized fashion.

[MissPoirot]

Thanks for your opinion, you weren't rude at all :) Still, you are not disagreeing with me. You are telling these girls what YOU think of them. All I said was everyone has a different taste.

[TheGeorge]

OK I see. And yeah I didn't mean here but when I comment on some of these "how do I look/ rate me" posts, I might not seem as polite ;)

[MissPoirot]

They do ask you to give your honest opinion, but of course you could give it in a nice way :) the thing is, I don't think girs should even be askong those questions. Another reason why I wrote this take

[TheGeorge]

Yeah that's a different issue. I kinda agree with you. But I just assume any girl who does post these pictures herself is ready to face the ugly truth. And it will be buried in lots of affectionate and sugarcoated comments anyway just because she is a girl. That's where I meant I disagree with you by the way, because I understood you said to tell her she is beautiful no matter what.

[MissPoirot]

No that's not what I meant at all :)

[ConsultantIsBack]

This is totally true. Curvy and fat aren't synonymous. And this sentence is money: "Big and small boobs both look great. So please stop saying a girl is feminine because she has large breasts. Every girl is feminine because she is a FEMALE, it is how she acts that determines this, not the size of her chest."

[kiler1000]

i like real.

[MissPoirot]

Thank you for your comment, I'm glad you think this way too :)

[Stacyzee]

Very good message. But unfortunately, not enough to change peoples ignorant perspective.
Regardless of what any one says, people will say what they want.
The best we can do is just to ignore the non-sense that comes out of their mouth.
I've learned not to care and have built up a natural defense mechanism.
It allows me to tune out things that I feel aren't even worth listening to.

[MissPoirot]

Thanks for your comment, this is so true. I wrote this take mainly for insecure girls and the people who say these things are insecure too. I noticed girls say 'guys don't like..' but guys don't make these comments themselves. I have learned not to listen to dumb things too, I just hoped this would at least help some people see they shouldn't say these things or help them feel good about themselves.

[Stacyzee]

Your intentions are great <3

[RationalMale]

How women can make themselves more attractive:

Have long hair
Be physically fit, not a tub of lard.

Fat women aren't sexy, aside from the few fat fetishists you might find online. Women need to just work and get in shape if they want to be attractive.

[MissPoirot]

But most importantly, they should be happy about themselves :)

[Lolomon]

So you seem like you don't like women with curves, that's what I got from this. I personally don't like the whole body shaming or body acceptance movement. Their should be a movement called love yourself. If you don't love yourself completely no amount of movement joining, weight loss or gain or plastic surgery will make you happy. So why not love yourself and what you were born with and weren't. P. s. my grammar is bad and idc

[MissPoirot]

I completely agree with you! You're wrong about me not liking curvy women though :)

[GingerBear]

I agree with this in principle. Calling people names is never good.

But I'd like to add that those who are very overweight, or very underweight, do not have beautiful bodies, because they are unhealthy. It's one thing to accept that people are going to have different shapes, but another to say all of those shapes are good.

[MissPoirot]

Thank you for your very true comment :) I did add 'as long as your healthy' and I didn't mean to say these extreme body types are allright.

[LuckyLittleLucy]

I love this! Because I'm a small size but really curvy and I have really slim friends who aren't as curvy as me. They're always saying they wish that they had my body and I sometimes wish I had theirs- just because we're all shamed.
I would've liked to see a bit on males too- I think they get shamed a lot also!

[MissPoirot]

Thank you for your comment :) yeah I want to do another take just for the guys!

[Keyspirits]

Well i wish i have urs right next to meh right now 😚

[Riggers]

Just because people stop ''body shaming'' in public, Does not change the fact that certain types of bodies are unnatractive.

Sure, We can say ugly people are hot as fuck to make them feel better, But at the end of the day, They are ugly, Everyone sees them as ugly, And they will die alone as ugly.

Thats just fuckin life im afraid, Lets accept it already.

[Albinoninja66]

Amen

[SilenRose]

True but harsh...

[IdkImJustMe]

It's not about whether you find them attractive or not though. Not everyone is attracted to everyone that's a fact and it will never change but making other people feel bad for not being attractive to people is a completely different thing

[Riggers]

This is what i mean though, I hate when people say all the ''Beauty is subjective'' and ''Some people like things that others dont''

Because every single fucker knows, Deep down, Its bulshit. Ugly people are ugly people for a reason, Because they are ugly... to everyone... Sure, Maybe in the 7+Billion people in the world, Maybe 100, Or 500, Or even 1000 people may find then attractive, But to the other 99.999999999% of normal functioning homo-sapiens they are just ugly, And that will never change.

Until you have grown up ugly, And been treated as an ugly person, Knowing you always will be treated as an ugly person, One really has no right to comment on such a topic.

And when i say ugly, I dont mean typical fucking girl talk where they say ''omg babe im so ugly'', I mean serious and genuine fucking uglyness that nothing can fix.

[weegin]

@OP I think your views are a little too black and white. Yes, there are some people that are generally regarded as hideous, but they are probably well aware of this fact for the most part. They don't need people to outright lie to their faces. And there are also some people who are generally regarded as beautiful. Ditto for them, they probably know it.

People say beauty is subjective cause it is. Have you not seen the fat fetish pictures, websites, artists? Obviously it's not a widespread attraction, and it's not something I'm into, but some guys like very absurdly large women. If everyone in the world can't look at something and say it is definitely ugly, then the 'fact' that it is ugly is subjective, not actually fact.

So yeah, if you're a girl or guy that weighs in at 300 or 400 lbs, probably most people will not be attracted to you, and you better get used to it. But that doesn't mean you're objectively ugly, nor does it mean 'everyone sees them as ugly' or 'they will die alone'.

[Riggers]

Beauty standards for men are a lot higher then for women.

Both skinny, and large are attractive on women, By nature, Both have their evolutionary advantages, And men's brains are naturally hardwired for that, In all realisticallity, a lot of guys dont care what they look like, As long as they are nice and capable of sex that all what really matters.

But, Guys need to be strong, Fit, handsome, (And all the other social stuff too), And, If you dont got that, You are ugly, Worthless, and WILL die alone. There is just simply no 2 ways around it. Its just fucking logic.

Looks are literally everything, And if you dont have them, You are completely fucked, LIke i said, Sure, you can hold out in the belief that maybe 1 in 1,000,000 people may like you... but... I personally would rather just fucking die then go through that level of endless rejection.

Sometimes its better just to accept ones uglyness, Admit defeat, and die alone in peace i guess.

[weegin]

I am sensing a certain level of personal bias from you on this issue (No offense, but it's pretty clear you feel rejected, and as a result, ugly), so I won't push it much further. But I am a bit more optimistic, and I say if you don't swing the bat, you won't hit the ball, the most you can hope for is mediocrity. So take it from the guy who hasn't had a single successful or meaningful relationship yet in his life, right here. You literally have no idea what you're missing out on when you walk away from opportunity like that.

[Riggers]

I don't feel rejected, I just dont even bother because i know i would get rejected, Im actively trying to avoid the feeling.

I like your metaphor, But... The way i look at it, Picture you have been given a very very very shitty bad thats snapped in half and hanging together with tape, Is it really worth even trying to hit the ball, Knowing that it will likely miss, and even if it does hit, It will just break the bat? I dont think so anyway.

Like i said, Some people just aren't cut out for dating physically.

People like you are great, you have the optimism to keep trying, But, people like me, I just dont see the point, I would rather not expel energy in a futile attempt at the impossible. Best just avoid it completely and accept how things are.

Thats how i look at it anyway.

[PrincessTashaaaa]

I've honestly never met a person so ugly I thought they were hideous. And less good looking people won't die alone. There are other less than good looking people for them.

[Riggers]

Haha, @PrincessTashaaaa , Even 'Other ugly people' are out of my league unfortunately

like i said though, Its cool, I've accepted it, And I've given up with even bothering to make a relationship/friends and stuff, Its just not worth my time digging through so many people who dont want me because of my looks to finaly find a uber rare decent person.

Its cool though, Like i said, I've accepted it, and i just gotta live with it ;)

[PrincessTashaaaa]

You're 17. Are you still in highschool? Because if you are, I cannot promise you enough that things will be better once you get out of there. After highschool, or after 18, people get to the real world and they stop being such self-absorbed assholes. Girls stop having time to layer themselves in make up before they leave the house and guy's and girl's metabolism's change. They're forced to pull their heads out of their asses and realize that life isn't all about the way you look. It gets harder, but it does get easier in that sense, too

[MissPoirot]

I am sorry you feel this way about yourself. It really is true though that everyone has a different taste. You feel insecure and rejected and because of this you can't see that you are your own worst critic. Lots of girls could be interested in you without you knowing about it. You say you have 'accepted' it but looks aren't everything. Instead, you should try and stop the negativity and focus on your strong points. When you are yourself, others will love you for that. Just don't stay this bitter, you are still so young and it is the bitterness in fact that ruins everything. You can't base this on your experiences in high school because the real world is nothing like it. Good luck!

[Albinoninja66]

Excuse me while I go kill myself. The only good comment you made was that curvy does not equal fat. The rest is a bunch of bullshit that people need to quit bitching about. Sure most of us guys like big boobs and there are a lot that like small ones too, but just because you don't fit some person's ideal doesn't mean that they are obligated to date you or treat you like you're skinny when you're fat. Grow the hell up people! Everyone isn't going to tiptoe around your insecuritis your whole life. And if the problem is fixable then it's your own damn fault for not fixing it.

[Albinoninja66]

Insecurities*

[MissPoirot]

Yeah.. I didn't mention that at all. All I said were the things you agreed with. Maybe you should grow up and think before posting comments.

[LightsOff]

It's not about tiptoeing around someone's insecurities, it's about putting someone down and being a general asshole towards someone just because they look a certain way.

[weegin]

@LightsOff To elaborate on this, it's not about the words but the intent, I think. If you are saying something because you truly want to be honest with good intent, it's their fault for being offended. After all, it is your opinion on how they look and they should respect that. But if you say something intentionally demeaning, insulting, or otherwise put them down just because, that's wrong, and yes, they should be insulted and upset.

[Albinoninja66]

@weegin exactly! That's what I mean.

[LightsOff]

@weegin which is more or less exactly what asker was saying so I don't get why Albinoninja66 here threw a little fit and claimed "the rest is bullshit" even though he clearly seems to agree that putting people down just because is excessive.

[MissPoirot]

Thank you @LightsOff :)
@Albinoninja66 & @weegin I do agree with both of you!

[weegin]

@LightsOff Well, some people like to use 'body shaming' as an excuse to be very fat or skinny and not care for themselves, and tell off anybody who brings it up, accusing them of body shaming. He's probably experienced some of those people, and had a knee-jerk bad reaction to this Take.

[Anonymous]

The only time I say anything against someone's appearance is if their face is ugly. In my opinion, that's the only way a person looks bad. I don't think a person should ever be shamed for their weight. It's so wrong. I'm overweight and I would never say anything bad again thinner girls. I don't think people should ever say anything against someone for their weight!

I also hate when girls feel ashamed of their boobs. BODIES SHOULD NEVER BE SHAMED!!!

[MissPoirot]

I agree with you on the last part, but calling a girl's face ugly is hurtful too. I am not saying you should find everyone attractive and you are entitled to think anything you like. But it wouldn't be okay to make fun of them and again, everyone has a different taste so who decides that they are in fact ugly?

[Opinion Owner]

There are some people who for the most part people agree they aren't attractive. Some people can be that extreme. That's the type I'm talking about. There is a girl I went to school with who was really ugly. She was bullied everyday until she dropped out. She is now 28 and people still call her ugly. She lives down the street from me so I know. I don't call people ugly but I think it. If someone else does it to a persons face I think it's okay though.

Most people are average and people can agree or disagree about their level of attractiveness. I'm not talking about them. There is a guy I think who is hot but a lot of my friends disagree.

[MissPoirot]

I have that too with guys. But I don't agree with a girl being bullied because she is 'ugly', that's just dumb and immature.

[JustinTheGreat]

Calling a girl ugly still falls into the body shaming category. At least when someone feels bad about being overweight they have a chance to exercise and lose the weight. You call a girl ugly, they can't change their face. So if anything its worse than calling someone fat.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't count it as body shaming when it's an ugly person. I don't care if an ugly person feels bad about themselves. It's wrong to make a person feel bad because they are fat though. It's hard to lose weight too. Fat shaming usually leads to a person eating more because they feel bad.

I guess everyone is entitled to their opinion though. Nothing anyone can say will make me feel any differently though.

[Stuckintime]

Let me get this straight, insult face good, insult body bad.

[Anonymous]

Good! I can't stand women who get jealous of others, gossip like fat cows and pour shit out of their mouth. I also dislike women who put too much emphasis on their looks... as if that is their best asset. No your mind and personality comes first. Looks are important / nice to have but personality and your mind comes way first!

[MissPoirot]

So true, thanks for the comment!

[FinnishBeautyGirl]

True!

[Anonymous]

Great MyTake :) I think you made good points. :) I feel a lot of people misunderstood what u were saying & they took it has an attack but it wasn't. Overall u were saying to stop body shaming & men like different body types and that's okay. Also, we just need to accept ourselves for who we are & don't change for a man. I think what ur saying is great. :)

[MissPoirot]

Thanks! :) yeah, a few people felt offended but they didn't get what I meant at all. Luckily most people did!

[Opinion Owner]

Your welcome :)

[OpenWine]

When I see a fat girl I be like hmm burp, might laugh but try to stop. If I find the girl to be innocent or sympathic I'll not say but if she's toxic I'll hit her hard.
Girls that look anorexic are not cool, I feel pity for then somehow I want to feed em
Ugly girls shouldn't be told they are ugly (only if they want fuckin honest rate me on here)
Same for ugly guys, most shouldn't care about appearance that much cause dood you will always want a cool person near you and not even care about that shit.

[Doffydood]

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... thank you. :)

[MissPoirot]

Hahaha :)

[HandsomeRaj]

Well written one girl - good job there :)

ooohhhh curves, I DIG those alright (like many else lol) and yes I am the one in point 3 who prefers smaller boobs ;) <3

But end of the day chemistry is what matters even if sexual :)

[MissPoirot]

So true and thank you :)

[HandsomeRaj]

Thank you, young lady both for the up vote and your kind words.

I must say that you not only write very well but have awesome insight too :) don't let your vision and individuality ever be clouded by anything :)

[MissPoirot]

Thanks so much! I want to be a writer so I am happy you think that

[HandsomeRaj]

OH YEAH you'll sure make an awesome writer. It's not just knowledge that's important but knowing how and when to express it in text is most important :)

Good luck young lady, you'll sure become a great writer one of these days. Keep up the good work and bless you :)

[MissPoirot]

Thank you very much for the support :) your comments are always so nice, they make me smile!

[HandsomeRaj]

I'm so glad that my words bring a smile on your beautiful face lighting it up :) Be that way always :) and thank you again for being so kind and good with your words :)

[ginnyweasley]

great my take!
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[MissPoirot]

Thank you :)

[FakeName123]

Stop caring so much of what other people think of you. Bullies only bully when they realise they get you with it. People will be douchebags - as harsh as it sounds. So rather work on you than trying to change the world around you.

[MissPoirot]

Agreed, thanks :)