Newsflash: Curvy is a SHAPE, Not a Size!

[CHARismatic110]

This will be short and to the point.

Curvy is shape, it is NOT a size. It is not another word for fat. Or overweight. Or plus size. Or obese. It is a SHAPE. Most women would fall under the real category of curvy, because most women have curves. Thinner women can have curves. Bigger women can have curves. To tell someone that they aren't allowed to refer to themselves as curvy because they don't happen to be the size that you feel they should be, is dumb. I'm beyond tired of this argument. We, as women, should not be tearing each other down over simple shit like this. Men, you shouldn't be denouncing women that you don't feel fit into your idea of curvy because she isn't your preference. I look at my curves in the mirror daily, and I'll be damned if I'm gonna let somebody tell me what I can refer to myself as. I'll be damn unicorn if I feel like it! We should all be able to embrace our curves, whether they are on a size 6 body or a size 16. We have to do better. Period.

[RJGraveyTrain]

I agree. It's ironic because there was a young woman who posted how we shouldn't body shame, but then turned around and shamed larger women saying that fat isn't a curve. I think women are just so wrapped up in this competition of being better than other women: we have to be prettier, guys have to like us more, we have to be more success, etc.

It's amazing how many more people could be at the top if we helped each other up instead of trying to step on each other's heads.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Honestly if we want to end the argument, look up the definition of curve.

[CHARismatic110]

I agree. It definitely seems like a competition. Tearing each other down to look better to a guy. We already have the odds stacked against us. And I hate that "fat isn't a curve" thing. Like seriously.

[RJGraveyTrain]

All a curve is, is a bending line. So technically, even men can be curvy. Lol.

[CHARismatic110]

Pretty much!

[RJGraveyTrain]

Indeed!

[Maik567]

Saying you are curvy should mean your shape, but unfortunately a lot of overweight girls who aren't curvy still like to call themselves that. Thats why you really can't trust it if someone says they are curvy, cause it could mean that they actually are curvy or just overweight.

[CHARismatic110]

But overweight girls CAN be curvy.

[Maik567]

True, but there are a lot of overweight girls who think they are curvy JUST because they are overweight.

[RedAmulet]

They curve out :P but seriously I do agree that the image of curvy people has been tainted by overweight people that aren't curvy saying they are curvy.

[ShaeNielson]

Oh wow, are you okay? I mean, girls using a word to describe something you don't think fits that description, that's horrible! You have been through some rough stuff, no one will blame you for needing a professional psychologist after this..

[Maik567]

@ShaeNielson You sound like you need some therapy tho, and physical exercise ;)

[ShaeNielson]

Yes, you can't defend your opinion so you attack my person, good ;)

[Maik567]

@ShaeNielson I can defend it, you just didn't say anything against it. You just whined about me expressing my opinion.

[iamyourneighbor]

I have to agree with @Maik567
There are girls who think they are curvy just because they are overweight

[ShaeNielson]

I don't think you know what "whining" means.

[Maik567]

@ShaeNielson I do, you're doing it right now.

[ShaeNielson]

The you're doing it too, whining about a word.

[Maik567]

@ShaeNielson You should read my comment again, if you really consider that whining, you just might be insecure about the subject.

[BruceJender]

Overweight girls get their curves from being fat in the first place lol

[ShaeNielson]

Whatever you say ;)

[iamyourneighbor]

I believe curvy is a matter of opinion. But I really think that obese woman have taken the word curvy for themselves. To say that a overweight women can be curvy is a matter of opinion. I have never known a overweight or obese women to have a defined waist by the definition of curvy. Yes a woman can be curvy at any size but that does not include overweight women and obese women. A woman can be in a healthy weight range not be overweight and be in shape and still be a size 12 or 14. If a woman is excessively overweight like 15-50 pounds overweight and is not within her weight for her height she is overweight. I'm not sure why some people can not accept this. Sorry but Being overweight for your height, chubby, or obese and calling yourself curvy does not change the fact that the person has excessive weight.
The following women are what I consider curvy women these women are in within THEIR healthy weight range SPECIFIC to their height, and have shape and have different sizes: i.dailymail.co.uk/.../...ge-m-36_1437890734930.jpg
Minka Kelly s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/.../...2f816f3db5.jpg
Rihanna www.gotceleb.com/.../...a%20-%20HQ%20Bikini-13.jpg
ladyclever.com/.../...eyonce-33676936-1280-960.jpg
www.billboard.com/.../...02-2014-billboard-400.jpg
nyppagesix.files.wordpress.com/.../...-split-2.jpg

[CHARismatic110]

Well that's your opinion. I'll agree to disagree. Thank you for reading and commenting.

[iamyourneighbor]

Yes I don't think fat=curvy

[CHARismatic110]

Yeah, I got it. Thanks.

[asiag299]

I agree in a way but most overweight women aren't curvy just like most underweight women aren't curvy. Most of the time the overweight woman carries too much fat on her midsection to have the curve which would define her as curvy. Essentially they start to look like one giant circle which isn't curvy. Most underweight people lack the curve as well because their waist and hips are usually the same size so they lack the curve in their stomach as well. When you don't have that hip to waist ratio then you are not curvy. Now that's not to say that a 42-36-42 isn't curvy because she most likely is but a 28-26-28 is not curvy and neither is a 43-41-43 as their isn't a big enough difference for you to see a curve in her body which would make her non curvy. This is my personal opinion. I would say I'm curvy but I'm very petite at 5'2 my measurements are 32-21-38 I consider myself curvy because of the sizable difference between waist to hip. It's just like being a 42-34-46 except on a more voluptuous scale lol She most likely weighs more than me but she's also likely to be taller. There's also a chance of her having a lot of muscle so essentially she wouldn't look overweight because muscle weighs more than fat. Lots of variables come into place with situations like this. I don't believe everyone should call themselves curvy and I don't think what the mainstream media is portraying as curvy is right either but at the same time I couldn't care less about what someone calls themselves.

[CHARismatic110]

Thanks for your input.

[asiag299]

No problem :) I hope it wasn't offensive I don't want anyone to feel bad about their bodies.

[CHARismatic110]

I don't necessarily agree with it, but you're entitled to your opinion. At least you weren't rude about it.

[TripleAce]

Ouff ooo la la your not playing games anymore are you

Lets look at this way, words are given meaning to them - words are not discovered. I see your point and you are absoletley right.. But two issues

1. Its not practical for people to say hourglass/voluptuous.. curvy became the meaning of that
2. It actually was use to define a women that was shaped like a violin, an attractive healthy womens figure shaped as an hour glass with good shoulders OR in the traditional sense having an ample bosom (big chest), trim waist and a round butt

Today its actually being exploited and curvy is being used by companies to target fat people, by using the word curvy to make them feel better about themselves and profit more

But of course, what do I really know about anything 😜 im just one guy and your quite voluptuous so you have nothing to worrry about 😉

[CHARismatic110]

Well I don't think people should use it in place of fat or plus size or anything, I'm just saying that "fat" and plus size women can be curvy too. I know all about the waist to hip ratio and all. And I use "hourglass figure" all the time. But that's just me.

Anyway, thanks for reading.

[TripleAce]

Yes sure and I understand exactly what you are trying to say

But the idea to take away is

1. Curvy is either used by its definition... things or people having curves OR
2. The meaning given to it by the mass majority - the traditional sense... big bust, thin waist and apple bottoms

You can choose either or and your not wrong
Enjoy the rest of your day/night

[CHARismatic110]

I get what you're saying. Thanks for your input. You enjoy your day/night as well.

[Riggers]

The reason most people don't find ''Curvy'' attractive, is because most curvy women are overweight / obese.

Those girls on the bottom, ''Curvy'' or not, I bet their BMI's will tell you they are overweight and have more body fat mass then they should, THATS what makes them curvy, An excess in fat in certain areas.

And, Overweight is not something to be naturally attractive. Its just instinctual for us.

We can sit here, And play the everyones beautiful card and shit, But, at the end of the day, its not true, and never will be true, Some people have hot bodies, some people dont, We are not all special little snow flakes, and we should accept reality, Not a delusion of that in which men are forced to like unnatractive body shapes in the names of ''Political correctness'' and ''not hurting feelings''.

Thats life im afraid OP.

[EmiliaRose2355]

@Riggers the women on the bottom are DEFINITELY not obese. They are standard, curvy women.

[CHARismatic110]

What he said @rthomas43. This Take has nothing to do with attraction. Nobody is forcing y'all to like anything. I don't really care who likes what.

[Lolomon]

actually, women are supposed to have body fat percentage that exceeds a mans , it makes her more capable of being fertile. but ofcourse if your too heavy it isn't healthy. That being said your argument holds no scientific proof, because it would actually say the opposite.

[Riggers]

@EmiliaRose2355

Not once did i ever say they were ''Obese'', I said as i quote ''Those girls on the bottom, ''Curvy'' or not, I bet their BMI's will tell you they are overweight'', There is a MASSIVE difference between overweight and obese, So dont say i said shit i never.

And by ''Standard curvy women'', Thats the exact same as ''Standard overweight women'', The two are exactly the same.

@rthomas43 , The entire point of this take, Is the OP basically telling people they shouldn't find certain body types more attractive then others, Im telling her thats wrong on many levels because some body types naturally are more attractive then others.
Im sure 99% more people would rather date Rosie Huntington then they would Tess Holiday.

@Lolomon, ''Hold no scientific proof'', Scientific proof of what? That the majority of men dont find overweight / obese women attractive? Surely is that not common sense? Jesus christ... Its not rocket science is it?
Too much fat = Not as attractive.

[CHARismatic110]

No, the point of this Take was not about attraction. I'm well aware that not everyone finds all body shapes attractive. My point was that all bodies can be curvy because curvy is not a size. Shapes come in all sizes. Sizes come in all shapes. People are point because they're focused on attraction. Whether or not someone is attractive has nothing to with all bodies being able to be labeled as curvy.

[CHARismatic110]

Missing the point*

[Riggers]

In that picture you uploaded, None of the girls on the top are ''Curvy'', All are skinny stick like figures.
And all the girls on the bottom, Are also visibly overweight, And just have ''Curvy'' branded on them to make it seem alright.

Even the quote in that picture was just a load of Fat acceptance liberal feminist crap to glorify overweight women.

Curvy is literally just a polite way of saying overweight. literally the only people i have ever seen brand themselves as being ''Curvy'' were overweight and or obese.

[CHARismatic110]

Well we can agree to disagree.

[EmiliaRose2355]

You implied that the women or fat. If you don't want us to misinterpret what you're saying then maybe make yourself clearer. You implied that these girls BMI would make them overweight which is nonsense.

[Riggers]

@EmiliaRose2355

I never ''Implied'' that these girls BMI's would make them overweight, I stated it as near fact that these women's BMI would be overweight.

Do you not understand how BMI works or something? Just look at them. It dosen't take a scientist to realise that they are overweight. Curvy or not, they are overweight.

[EmiliaRose2355]

Whateverrrrr. These girls would have an average healthy BMI that's well within the guidelines. That much is clear. As for who BMI works and understanding it? I would think so since I did major in all aspects of biology, thank you.

[Riggers]

Well, If you can look at those women in the bottom row, As someone who majored in biology, and then to be able to say they had ''Average'' BMI, Seriously makes me doubt the credibility of the college you attended.

When we look at this, Which visualizes BMI's, Its pretty apparent that these woman are in the overweight range.
www.calculator.com.my/.../BMI-range-chart.jpg

Im not saying they are obese, I am saying they are overweight.

Its just like 90% of girls who do get branded ''Curvy'' are either overweight (As the take owner shown) or obese.

I think this picture speaks a million words - https://i.imgur.com/t3ORi.png

[CHARismatic110]

Dude, it doesn't matter what men define as curvy, the fact of the matter is that there isn't just one type. Just because you like one flavor doesn't make the rest null and void. Period.

[Riggers]

Take owner, If it dosen't matter what men define as curvy, Why does it matter at all? Is that not the gender women are both attracted to and trying to attract? Surely is their opinion not whats most important?

There maybe many types of ''Curvy'', But the vast majority of them fall under ''Overweight''. Thats my only point im trying to make here...

Personally, I dont really like any of the flavors, But it dosen't take much to realise what societies, namely men's, favorite flavor is. And i can assure you right now, Overweight is very very very low on that list.

If one wants to label themselves as ''curvy'' as a form of self esteem boost as they dont like to call themselves overweight (even though they are), Then fine, good for them i guess, But, dont be surprised when guys see that ''curvy'' woman as the real overweight individual she is.
Period.

[LuckyLittleLucy]

I love this. I wanted to write a myTake about this myself, but I thought it would just turn into a rant. Short but sweet, and to the point.
I'm stuck in the middle of this debate because my waist is a size 6- so people think 'oh she's skinny/ slender' but my breasts are much bigger and my hips are 10 inches bigger than my waist- and if I say that people say 'oh she's so curvy!'.
But when it comes down to it, the curvy and the slender groups both say "no you're not like us!" and actually, I think I'm curvy, but it's this misconception that it's a size and not a shape that makes people so 'oh no you're so skinny stop saying that' when actually I don't mean I'm plus-sized. I mean I'm curvy.
So glad somebody said it properly- l love this Take.

[CHARismatic110]

Thank you for reading. And yes, that's exactly my point. I'm clearly bigger than a size 6 lol but I have a surprisingly small waist and decent sized hips. And boobs of course. But I also have a stomach. And big thighs. To most people I'm fat and that automatically means that I can't refer to myself as curvy because they assume I'm trying to be fool people. No, I'm bigger but I'm still curvy. Smh, but yeah lol. Thanks again 😊

[Nicolás25]

No especially with that picture trying to make curvy women look sexier than skinny women you're not going to get curvy accepted by shaming other body types and you say we can't say what's curvy and what's not yeah we can fat people have taken the word for themselves but we can bring the word back properly used a cirlce and rolls have curves it doesn't mean it's curvy

[BelleGirl21]

I agree with you. If you have to tear down skinny women to be beautiful there's no actual confidence in it.
A truly beautiful woman is someone who is healthy, happy and confident without competing with other women.

[CHARismatic110]

Lmao, this pretty much flew wayyyy over your head. It's ok tho. I won't waste my time arguing with someone like you. You have the comprehension skill of an ant. Thanks for reading.

[CHARismatic110]

@BelleGirl21 and I did that where?

[Nicolás25]

Ad hominem attacks don't help your case char

[CHARismatic110]

Lol there is no case. I stand by what I said. I didn't attack anyone. You can think what you'd like and so can she. Doesn't change anything. Good day now.

[BelleGirl21]

Not you personally but the picture you attached does. That's all I'm saying.

[Nicolás25]

take it from a fellow girl www.youtube.com/watch
Good day!
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[CHARismatic110]

@BelleGirl21 did you read the words on the picture? Because that's why I chose it. I don't bash anyone. I'm not tearing people down because of the way they look. And I don't appreciate being accused of it. From you or anyone else. Funny how I don't see you on any of the threads bashing bigger women tho.

[BelleGirl21]

Wow okay. I did not see that one coming. Sorry I don't speak up enough on threads that you think I should be. And as I said before I didn't say you personally were but you're obviously taking it pretty personally.

[CHARismatic110]

@BelleGirl21 I absolutely am, because your original statement is exactly the point I'm trying to get across, yet you looked right past it.

[RainbowFanGirl]

But the picture doesn't do that. If you read the bottom, it says, "It didn't. All women are beautiful", which is trying to bring all women up. Just saying.

[IamNuts]

I agree, curve is indeed a shape and any women fat or thin can have them.
However just because someone is curvy, does not mean they're automatically attractive.

"Men, you shouldn't be denouncing women that you don't feel fit into your idea of curvy because she isn't your preference."
I however disagree with this, you're asking that "all" men shouldn't denounce women for calling themselves curvy when it doesn't fit their ideal view of a curvy person.
But don't you see that you're doing the same thing by telling them to adhere to your own "idea of curvy" by which you're just expressing your own preference, kinda hypocritical don't you think.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and views, and you should respect them if you want yours to be respected as well.

[CHARismatic110]

Well first off thank you for reading.

And I'm not telling them to adhere to anything. Where in there did you see anything about attraction? I know that everyone has a preference and everyone is entitled to an opinion. The entire point of this Take is summed up in your first sentence. It has nothing to with attraction. Being attractive or not being attractive doesn't change anything. It's not about "my idea" it's about what curvy is, a shape. I stand by what I said. I don't care who finds me attractive and who doesn't, the fact that I have curves still remains. Which was my point.

[HowRUbBuddy]

ok thats nice , but i dont really go around telling girls if they're curvy or not and whats my preference , a perfect body is big boobs, round slightly bigger than average butt and small waist but you can't expect everyone to be like that , and hey thats fine no one cares some like chubbier chicks some like skinnier , usually men go for the face anyway and then the body , if everythign is equal or if both chicks are kinda as attractive even if one is skinnier/fatter then presonality comes into play , thats pretty much how guys function... face--->body---->personality... but it doesn't mean personality is of any less importance she can be gorgeous i wouldn't touch her if she is not a good person.

[CHARismatic110]

Thanks for your input.

[HowRUbBuddy]

no problem , i guess we are all different some people focus too much on a pretty face or a nice body , it would be nice if your partner is perfect all over but the truth is it doesn't work like that and i am happy even if she's not perfect.

[CHARismatic110]

Yeah. Perfection is pretty much impossible. I appreciate a nice face and body but I'm more interested in what's on the inside.

[bryon]

I like the way you put this CHARismatic110 . I can't help but sit back and wonder if some guys didn't get dropped on their head as a kid by the closed mindedness and shallow ways of thinking when it comes to some of the answers I see regarding women's size. I have dated a varied range size of Ladies and found ( unexplainably ) the more full figured women to be shall I say , more real. Petite pretty women seem to have a Ora of self righiousness that turn both me and my stomach. Big built women have a sense of contentment that I have always admired and like to be around.

[CHARismatic110]

Thank you sir! I don't understand it either. It's like women come in all different shapes and sizes, deal with it.

[bryon]

I agree. Closed minds often come with open mouths tho

[CHARismatic110]

Indeed!

[Lolomon]

I agree , i just commented on a post saying women that are larger than what we see on t. v cannot be curvy and being curvy wasn't beautiful her words " a sphere has curves". smh I had to explain to her the term curvy stand for hourglass women and women of any size can be hourglass. Then I had to explain the difference between thick and curvy. Thick is pear shaped women and women of anysize can be that shaped or even apple shaped or rectangle shaped. Its ridiculous, but as long as size acceptance isn't accepted in a male dominant fashion world , i dont see this changing anytime soon. BE proud of the body you where born with , we are all different sizes and shapes for a reason. They are all beautiful!

[CHARismatic110]

Thank you! I agree with you. Shapes and sizes are two totally different things. There are many different sized shapes. It's not limited to just one size. And people don't get that. They're too busy worrying about attraction. Attraction has zero to do with the fact that everyone has a shape. Thick or thin, skinny or fat.

[RedThread]

Yes I have always said this. Women can be thin and have curves and they can have more meat on their bones and have curves. I don't know why the word curvy has been hijacked to only mean women who aren't super thin almost at the expense of those who are thin saying they don't have curves. This whole feud between thin and not thin really has to stop. Both can be beautiful for different reasons.

[CHARismatic110]

Exactly. I hate it. It just causes a further division between women.

[RedThread]

Absolutely. There is no reason for it. Women are already too divided overall.

[CHARismatic110]

We are, and it's sad.

[Dargil]

Gorgeous.
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Gorgeous.
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[Marshmellowking]

Like some person said variety is the spice of life☺

[DodgersGM]

I agree. And even if I didn't, I still wouldn't be bothered if I felt people misused the term. I mean, who am I to tell them what they can and can't call themselves? Why do people even care?

[CHARismatic110]

I'm still trying to figure this out myself lol.

[DodgersGM]

Party poppers, man. LOL

[DodgersGM]

Error, meant to say party poopers. Party poppers are actually fun.

[CHARismatic110]

Lmao, they are

[Kalibie]

well, as you said it's a shape, when one is labeled as curvy that implies curvier than the average women, that is a low hip to waist ratio (Nothing to do with how much you weigh) and bigger boobs.
not all women can go out and say they are curvy. and definitely not all overweight and underweight women are curvy.
not saying girls who aren't curvy aren't pretty in a different way, but we can't just call everyone curvy just to be politically correct.

[CHARismatic110]

If you curves then you are curvy. That is my stand on the subject. Has zero to do with the political correct bullshit.

[CHARismatic110]

You have*

[CHARismatic110]

And what do you mean pretty in a different way?

[Kalibie]

cute and willowy for example? I know some guys like it, personally I prefer cubby curvy girls too so I don't understand the appeal but I do know some like it lol

[CHARismatic110]

Well yeah, everyone is different. I just wish we'd all allow each other to feel beautiful.

[Kalibie]

lol as an artist I agree. while I have particular tastes in men and women, I don't find people I'm not attracted to ugly, they just... are asexual to my eyes lol, I'd be like you have an interesting face can I draw you? and I find it beautiful in my own odd way haha

[CHARismatic110]

Well that's not a bad way to be.

[FidemMeam]

Well you're right... curvy is a shape... but it also implicitly refers to a fit woman too... for instance a woman who has an hourglass figure and is in healthy fitness can start letting herself go and she balloons up 3 sizes... underneath all that extra pounds she still has curves cause that's just how her body is... but now she's fat... nobody would describe her as curvy.

[CHARismatic110]

You're right. But whether or not people would describe as curvy, she can describe herself as that. She gained weight so now she's a different size curvy.

[far2gud4u]

Depends how much weigh she's gained. If we are talking a point beyond recognition of her previous size then no she can't. She can say she used to be curvy and now she's fat though

[SirenDep]

true. and to elaborate on this, there are some main body types, like hourglass, pear, apple and ruler, on which it doesn't matter how much you weigh, but how fat is being distributed in your body. All shapes are curvy, except for ruler. Hourglass is the most curvy of course. And except from the basic body shapes, there exist many other shapes that are variations of them. eg I have a spoon body shape.

[CHARismatic110]

Agreed.

[DivaMonae]

As long as you have hips and a waist you have curves and we all do we're all just shaped differently and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that that's what makes all of us special.

Good take I couldn't have said it better myself 👍

[CHARismatic110]

Thank you darlin!

[thaliza]

Most women here, at least in my country, are indeed curvy! And 90% of them are skinny (me being in the 90%). Curvy does not only mean humongous boobs and hips bigger than 5 football balls. It just means that you have less fat over here, but more fat over there, creating curves on the outline of the body. :D

[CHARismatic110]

Yup. My best friend is very curvy and she's barely 130 pounds.

[thaliza]

SAME. I weight 115 pounds and I'm pretty tall. My weight can't change my bone structure. :P

[_Surprised_Gatorade_]

I don't even want to read the comments because they'll probably ruin this for me, since people tend to find faults in everything. Just wanted to say THANK YOU for bringing this simple truth up, and for being as encouraging as you are. It's important for people to know they are what they want to be and that they don't have to undermine their self worth because of someone else's opinion!

[CHARismatic110]

Don't read them! Lol smh. But thank you so much! I appreciate your kind words.

[_Surprised_Gatorade_]

I appreciate your take! There should honestly be more people like you.

[girlygirl2015]

curvy is an hourglass body, being overweight can have consecuences such as cancer, pcos, heart disease, diabetes. It's all about what u eat, u can do all the excersise u want and still be overweight becauseu may be eating unhealthy and light products are not healthy, those are the worst kind of products made just to sell and deceive people. I believe only in the healthy weight with a right composition of muscular mass and body fat. Yes, we should all be able to embrace what we are, so if someone is fat is fat but not to disguise being fat with being curvy. We should accept ourselves, it's like when some Asian people don't like being called Asians cuz they find it as an insult, but it¡s like damn that's who u are. At least in my school we couldn't called anyone for their ethnicity, which i found stupid.