What feminism and equality have done for me as a man

[Anonymous]

Hello Gag people....my first myTake....lets get started with a bang!

Alright, so, i felt i needed to write this for my guy fellows out there who are really struggling with grasping the concept of feminism and all the stuff that goes with it. I want to keep this as short as i can.

MAN 2.0 - Why i think feminism and equality have done MORE for me as a man than anything before it

I would like to thank the first girl who i loved with all my heart, Kiara, who did eventually broke my heart by cheating on me. She was my first love and naturally when she cheated on me i felt so depressed for a long time after. However i would like to thank her because if it where not for her i would have never come to realize some important lessons. So thank you Kiara <3

Now i am not going to lie, i love sex. Unfortunately you cannot go around asking women for sex becuase that's never going to work. Instead guys, try to woo a women. Take my most recent date, her name, "Aarthi". She works for a large business solutions company(fairly senior position and a feminist). So i knew she was smart and intelligent, hence i always met her well groomed and dressed smartly, i spoke to her about relevant business topics and always tried to make her feel in control and respected....hey 4 months later she was deeply in love, we had sex and i moved on. Now wait a second, don't go all crazy on me. I had a need to have sex, this was the only way to get it and she was more than willing to give it up. So guys please don'tfeel like you need to be commited to one women for the rest of your life.

1. We no longer have to provide for women - this is great guys, we can share all the expences,bills with the girls. More money for us guys. How cool is that :).

2. Feminism has made it easier for me to sleep with many women - My dad went to extreme lengths to impress my mother. I personally have slept with multiple women just by being respectful and nice to them, simple. Make a women feel like you are interested in things other than getting into her pants(like her interests) and more than likely you will get into her pants. Plus i find single women in their early thirties the easiest targets because they are generally ready to start a family. Now sometimes you will ecounter women who just won't budge into giving sex, no problem, there are millions of women out there.

3. We are not bound by marriage - No longer is not being married frowned upon. Thats our free ticket guys. The world is our playground. Now i know some guys might be thinking about having kids with they girl they love and settling down and if you do find the right girl for you, by all means get married to her, but before than there is no harm in enjoying yourself. I have now adopted a little girl(she is 4 and the real love of my life). We have the most amazing times together. I also have nanny that take care of her hwen i work. Recently i was even given time off from work to spend time with my daughter. M dad worked like a dog and i only got to see him a few times a week. Now women get to go to work and we can enjoy the real pleasures of life. I have such fun times with my daughter, all thanks to women, so thank you <3

4. Better work environments - I especially love this one. In roughly 8 years i have been able to move into managment all thanks to women. Having women in the work environment is a real blessing in disguise. I find that if i am kind and RESPECTFUL to women, they are more inclined to help me out and they make the work environment a much more pleasant place. They only reason why i have had so much growth is becuase i was good to the women in the company. Thanks girls <3. I seriously doubt i would have progressed much, having more males in the offices. Before women would take on the traditional role of being at home. Nowadays women do both roles....provider of income and still do household chores, that's a damn miracle. Do you guys see we can still have sex and it comes with even more benefits. Feminism can't get any better.

5. Reduction in population - Yea!, most of the women around me at work and socially are not married and are focused on their careers, this is brilliant for the economy. We get work out of women and most never reproduce. That is killing two birds with one stone.

Ok, thank you for reading. I hope this does not turn into a shit storm.

Do i feel pity for girls? In some respects i do, sometimes it feels like i use women, but then again i need sex and this is the only way i can get it, and thanks to feminism it is much easier and with less societal pressures, absolutely beautiful. I think we can already see the effects all around us in society. And guys if you play your cards right(by being respectful, caring, loving), women won't know they are been taken for a ride becuase its extemely difficult to know at such early stages and the vast majority of times you will get sex. I consider myself and average guy, so if i can do it, so can you guys. So support feminism even "radical feminism" as its way better than anything before. Actually the sex with radical feminists is incredible. So guys stop trying to fight and do things for women, be equal. We certainly don't want to put women on a pedestal ever again, they would be out of reach then. We want women equal to us, don't fight it guys.

Just be good and respectful to women and i almost guarantee they will help you in more ways than you can imagine. Support feminsim and it will bring immense pleasure to you becuase women will do all the work. Love to all the women out there <3 Peace

I posted anonymously to avoid private messages about this

We need to evolve guys!! In Summary:

Support feminsim, stay in short relationships, have sex, make money, adpot a child and live blissfully <3

[Anonymous]

Feminism does not necessarily mean that the woman would go to work, as if work is a physical place. Rather, she is given a choice of work or staying at home. At home, she can work and raise her family at the same time.

Feminism is really about raising the rights and status of women to those of men in an otherwise patriarchal environment, thereby making them equals.

You can be a feminist AND:
1. Stay in a monogamous, indissoluble marriage
2. Be celibate and not defile the marriage bed
3. Earn a living wage to support your spouse and children
4. Consummate the marriage and be blessed with children, biological or adopted

Why? Because feminism is about treating women like human beings and letting them decide what they want to do with their lives. It has nothing to do with living a traditional or alternative lifestyle. A woman can be feminist and be a professional worker or a stay-at-home mother/housewife. Either way, she is given a choice to do so.

[myTake Owner]

Well tbh, i don't think women have been given a much choice anymore. Its the work life from here on. Men like myself find it much better to have short relationships.

"At home, she can work and raise her family at the same time" - yes, exactly, women get to do the heavy lifting now, both work and home life which has greatly reduced the pressure on men, so thank you girls, appreciate it.

Yes women must be equals, i love it so much so that it makes it so much easier for me to not have to put a women on a pedestal which more often than not is unreachable. Absolutely, agree with you 100%, and because of feminism it has given men like me enormous benefits, i find it easier to get promoted under female bosses, plus environment is more friendly. Also if i date a women today i can have sex with her and then if i don't feel like it anymore break up with her and i don't have to feel any guilt towards it because she can provide for herself and its not like before where it was a mans duty to

[myTake Owner]

take care of her because she can fend for herself, now that's awesome, i love feminism

[Humping_Tornadoes]

What a load of crap. So you are agreeing with feminism while at the same time shitting all over it with sarcasm. Then you are basically saying screw women while leaving men as idiots as well. All I read is passive aggressive bullshit from a guy who is obviously resented at life and women all the same. Congratulations on the banter mate, no one cares.

Feminism did its job already and modern feminism is all kinds of wrong, egalitarian is the way. No sex preference and equal acceptance of male/female roles and equality in rights, legal marital and job rights.

As far as as preferring long term relationships or casual sex that's each to decide, and definitely not a reason to "thank" feminism.

The population control bit was pretty fucking retarded by the way.

[Jxpxtxr]

Amen to this omg

[TheMoose]

Islam is the fastest growing religion due to stable family and consistent child birth of kids 6 or more. No one wants to have kids with a chick that's 30+ and gave her best years to other men if you accept that from your wife you are lying to yourself that you are creating a hostile environment for your future children.

Christians and others have population has significantly dropped over the years. Islam is the future world you will live in and feminism will be see as a complete failure and an educational piece for the future of what not to do. Feminism has been a complete utter failure for women and thousands of surveys will show you that there happiness has dwindled to nothing compared to the 50s where they had a stable family. I guess not having to work also helped with that as well.

[myTake Owner]

Thanks for your opinions. I used to think like you, until i used it to my benefit and it has taken me places. Actually i never meant to imply any sarcasm. I don't hate women, i support them in any cause they want because it has opened doors for me that were never possible in a male dominated society , oh and its much easier for me at least to have sex, so no complaints there.

"Congratulations on the banter mate, no one cares." - cool.

Well i thank feminism because all the stuff i am doing was never possible for my father to do and its way cooler now.

[Frost_Byt3]

I have something to add actually. You touched on the fact that feminism is benefitting men in a few ways, but when you think about it, feminism is actually harming women in some ways. Definitely harming them in more ways than it is harming men. Women aren't priviledged anymore. They no longer get special treatment in most cases. They actually have to work in order to get what they want, instead of it getting handed to them just for having a vagina.

Back in the olden days, women had men providing for them, protecting them, and taking care of them. But now women have to do all this for themselves.

You see men complaining about women getting certain special treatments, but i say let em have it. The privileges are slowly slipping from their grasp, so they are desperately clinging to the last few proveleges they have--such as: Guys paying for dates, women being able to assault men without getting punished, but getting protection from the law against assault themselves. But soon enough, even these privileges will diminish.

Feminism is also doing harm to women in the dating world. Because women are now independent and becoming just as controlling as men, men are getting scared of relationships. It has caused a flood of male casual sex enthusiasts, and causing the women who DO want relationships to get duped into hump n' dump situations.

I am honestly feeling bad for women, because feminism is slowly destroying them.

[myTake Owner]

Man, i love you... this is awesome. It is harming women more than they now and i am just playing the game. I get what i want and move on. I actually don't want a relationships with a women, it adds no benefit to me whatsoever, but i do need sex for no at least and leading women on is the only way i can get it and most women and more than obliging to give once they get the hint that you love them which is relatively easy to fake. Plus i don't feel guilty about it because women are independent and can support themselves, whereas i would feel bad 50 years ago because women depended on men and it would be hard to simply dump her. Exactly man, men don't have to do the protecting and chivalrous stuff, women have literally dropped themselves in our lap. Thats why i let women do as they want and in turn it actually benefits as guys on the whole more.

Some part of me feels sorry for women, but hey this is what they want'.

Thank man, great words,

[Frost_Byt3]

Yeah, i mean, feminism has probably done more harm to me than you (as I'm actually looking for a relatiosnhip), but i still can't help but feel sorry for women because its doing even more harm to them than it is to me.

[helpmealitttle]

Ugh. I was expecting this to be a positive, uplifting piece. You do know that when women work away from home, men share the load of housework? You don't get to be a lazy shit and expect us to still do everything. Feminism isn't about making life easier for men and harder for women. If you have a baby with someone, then guess what? You also share the responsibility of changing its nappy and feeding.
I don't know where you live, but in many parts of the world, women are still being oppressed by men. I can tell by your statement that you really have a hatred for feminism and have let yourself be swept away by the fake feminists because it suits your agenda.

You're one of the guys that I've tried to avoid getting attached to in the past. I hope someone smacks you up real good one day. Don't think that you're anything special, girls do the same kind of thing to guys that you're doing, and they don't need a movement to use to their advantage.

[Dingsbums]

Lol u guys are all damn childish
"Guys are better than girls and use girls"
"No girls are better and we don't need a movement to use men!" Lol serious?

[jormungand]

@Dingsbums lol

[Northeast106]

Nappy... you must be from the U. K I take it? Unless you mean the old school cloth nappies?

[helpmealitttle]

@Northeast106 No, I'm from Australia.

[helpmealitttle]

@Dingsbums I never said that girls were better than guys. This guy is using feminism as his excuse to use to his advantage to use girls. What an arsehole move.
Girls don't need an excuse. They just do it because they want to.

[myTake Owner]

Well, i hoped it would be uplifting to those in a similar position to me. Yes i agree with you, my friend is married and his wife works long hours while he is at home. He gets to spend time with kids and cooks does most of the household chores. Well, i think feminism does make it easier for men in my experience. I no longer have to be committed to one women for the rest of my life like my dad and i don't have to feel guilty about it either because women are independent and can stand on their own feet. I have to spend less towards a relationship as compared to my dad. I actually love feminism ans support it completely because i only now see after being with so many women just how great it can be and i am in no way being sarcastic.

"You're one of the guys that I've tried to avoid getting attached to in the past." - well i do feel sorry for women in this department becuase it has made it easier to seduce women. All i have to do is repect and show women love and more often than not i get

[myTake Owner]

what i want, sex. So thank you feminism. And i am not being sarcastic!!

[helpmealitttle]

Do you even know what love is? It's definitely not using someone for sex. That is called manipulation. You're manipulating them, not showing them love, or respect. Just manipulation. Look up the definition of those words before using them.

[myTake Owner]

Do you even know what love is? there was a time for me when i really wanted to feel loved and i would yearn for it, unfortunately i think in my experience i settled for sex, much easier and satisfied my needs and i found it almost impossible to find love with modern women. I have found love elsewhere, like my 4 year old daughter. I enjoy my time with her so much and its great just watching her everyday.

Sure i am not going to deny that fact, you're right its manipulation, but what else can i do as a guy to get sex? No women, especially the ones i like are just going to willingly give me sex, i have to manipulate them unfortunately. I don't rape or hurt women, i politely ask and the sex is conceptual. I am truly sorry if i sound like a dick to you.

[helpmealitttle]

Thanks for the apology.
I obviously don't know the type of girls you go for, but I'm sure there are plenty out there that just want sex too. I've come across a few who express that view.

[Humoristic96]

The talk of the insecure men that hides himself. The insecure creature fell for the girl. His little heart got crushed. Now he feels all empowered because he slept with another girl thinking he is punishing all of the female population because of one bad relationship. Hey, buddy, maybe your ex-girlfriend cheated you because you are bad in bed? Anyway, don't fool yourself, you didn't "use" any girl. If you think that sleeping with a someone mean using him, by your logic then this other girl used you too. She slept with you also. So, just pick up your dignity, stop posting self pitying stories, stop being a troll and delete a profile. And get over your ex-girlfriend.

[DaddyRollingStone]

you sure are projecting pretty hard

[myTake Owner]

Yes, i totally agree with you, i was insecure about myself falling for a girl and opening my heart to her and i learnt so much from that experience and that is why i have such a great life now. Yes my heart got crushed, but now i can still have all the pleasures of being with a women without heartbreak. I don't think i am punishing the female population at all. I need sex and i work hard to get it, i have never raped a women, its always consensual sex. And when i have had sex i often break off the relationship and i don't feel bad, why? because of feminism, women work and earn a living so when i leave their life still goes on. Whereas in the old days i would certainly feel some guilt because women depended on men to provide for them, so thank you feminism, the best thing since sliced bread, oh yea!!

Well yes, i don't consider myself good in bed at all, but hey, i still feel good :) . Well its not my intention to use a girl, i just want to have sex and they agree. Thanks :)

[Pat8707]

"Hey, buddy, maybe your ex-girlfriend cheated you because you are bad in bed?"
I can't say I didn't expect that. Fucking typical of a feminist to say that.

[BigJake]

You're a troll, though not a very creative one.

[AleDeEurope]

This is fucking hilarious xD
I get what you're saying and I agree with some things, but it's not as easy as youake it sound, cause the problem with today's feminism (not the old and good feminism), is that they want equality where it benefits them, and wanting equality in the dating world doesn't benefit them.
You hear them say they want equality but they still want you to approach them, pick them up at their place, and pay for the date.
Things haven't changed too much in the dating world.

But it's good that you use the whole movement to your advantage.
I support total equality, and I love a strong ambitious woman, but today's feminism isn't doing any good.

I don't like the fact that you lead girls into "loving" you just so you can fuck them and dump them :/

[SparklingFirefly]

I think you sound like a reasonable person, just a little misinformed in some areas. I'm a feminist but I expect both of our contributions to be equal. I would go up to a guy and ask him out because I believe we are equal. There are so many more moderate feminists out there than you see and that sad to me because then you just generalize based on the extremists who are irrational. Feminism isn't about hating men or not wearing a bra. It's about recognizing, appreciating and respecting each other. Unfortunately there are a lot of ways that women are still being disrespected on a societal level. And we absolutely have made progress since the 1950s but there are still some pretty significant issues in rhe way society thinks. And of course you wouldn't instantly know that because you're not a woman. And there are aspects of being male that have their disadvantages. I would just ask you not to generalize about all feminists until you have all your information.

[AleDeEurope]

@SparklingFirefly The problem is that feminists like you barely do anything. I mean, how is it possible that with all the problems women have today, the #1 point of focus right now is the free the nipple? Is that really that important? When that is the main focus, you're demonstrating that there aren't more problems. And to clarify, I'm just talking about women in Western countries, cause obviously in the Middle East, Africa and rest of Asia, women are seen as almost nothing, there is where feminism is needed.
I also have a problem when feminists say they want equality. I'm not saying they hate men, but if they wanted equality, they would focus on men's problems too, like men receiving harsher punishments for the same crime, or being seen as a rapist just because I'm a man. And of course, you wouldn't instantly know that because you're not a man.
I would support feminism if it was for true equality, but it isn't, therefore I support egalitarianism, which is for true equality.

[myTake Owner]

thanks for your words man. I just made feminism work for me.

"I don't like the fact that you lead girls into "loving" you just so you can fuck them and dump them" - i used to think like this, but hey i wanted sex and women are giving to me. I don't feel guilty either because the women i meet generally are working and can take care of themselves so its not like the old days when women depended on men for support, so dumping her would have made you feel guilty and you would have had all kinds of societal pressures. Nowadays i have sex with women and they can go back to their normal lives. I am sorry it came out that way and i understand where you are coming from but hey i am just playing the game to my advantage :) Sorry

[SparklingFirefly]

Again you're generalizing. There's no one size fits all feminist. How do you know I don't talk about men's issues? You've never sat down and had a conversation with me. There are feminists like me doing things. People like Emma Watson And Laci Green. I feel like already addressed your counterpoints the first time though and it kinda just sounds like you don't want to actually hear anything.

[Lolomon]

No offense who let a straight single man adopt a child? That sounds so weird being that a lot men don't want anything to do with their biological children. Yo I sound like a complete asshole to be honest. Feminism has nothing to do with who pays bills, this isn't 1950 , women can now work and women are getting more chances to have higher positioning jobs. And guess what more jobs are giving women more freedom to have a family and still be able to work. Birth rates are at a all time k ow globally and have been for a while, so get used to breathe feeding women in the work room.. lol jk

[myTake Owner]

Well, actually where i am from, i adopted a child and was able to prove that i could take care, simple. She is now 4 and the light of my life. Well, thanks for your comments, but hey i wanted sex and feminism helped me to achieve that... so sorry if i sound like an asshole, i am just using the game to my advantage. Exactly women work now and that's why i don't have to feel guilty if i have sex and move one to someone else... because women work and are independent and can support themselves. Before in the old days my dad could not leave my mum because she was dependent on him and societal pressures prevented my dad from being with multiple women... but now its way cooler... i can have sex by being nice and respectful to women and then move on... Well i love women in the work environment actually, it was because of women that i got promoted in less than 3 years to management, that's awesome... would have never happened with guys around

[PiuBelloAmante]

call me old fashioned but i like the idea of wooing a woman, who will want to stick around and love me

I think its crazy to manipulate others for our own selfish needs
i might not get as much action because of it, but i dont mind, i know the traditional girl, i woo, and work hard to get, will give me love that no short term "feminist" will give me

[Fortres]

There is no reason a feminist would not adore you, don't be so quick to close your mind off

[PiuBelloAmante]

@Fortres well said
I put feminist in quotes to refer to the writers idea of feminist women

[AleDeEurope]

The problem is that you can get taken advantage by many women :/

[PiuBelloAmante]

@AleDeEurope depends how you approach dating... although i do agree that, if not cautious its a slippery slope

[AleDeEurope]

Yeah, that's why I don't woo girls until I know I can trust them, until I know they're not gonna take advantage of me.
That's why I wouldn't buy a girl a drink at the bar.

[PiuBelloAmante]

@AleDeEurope recently i have become friends with new girls, friends first...
i think becoming friends first is the way to go
that way trust builds as well as a better understanding of the girl you are with

[AleDeEurope]

Yeah, I agree with that.

[bodell]

Yeah ok, this guy's just a dick. And by the way, it isn't sexist to want to pay for dinner, I personally enjoy paying. I like making whoever I'm with happy. It isn't all about just fucking you gotta learn that dude. There's more to relationships, even short ones. And no, the reasons you stated are not why feminism is good for men. Feminism is good for men because the rectification of injustice helps all people. A society is inherently bettered by equality under the law, and equality of opportunity. That is why feminism is good. Not to mention, you should have some empathy. I am a straight white male, but I can still see that sexism is alive and just because something bad isn't directly affecting me doesn't mean it's not wrong.

[helpmealitttle]

Thank you!

[SparklingFirefly]

Thank god for this comment

[TheMoose]

i probably banged your future wife. keep telling yourself your okay with it you fucking cuckold loser hahahahaa

[myTake Owner]

Well thanks for your comments man. I used to think like you but one day i realized that it just wasn't going to happen and relationships with women were filled with disappointment and heartbreak. When i normally go out women are more than obliging to pay and hey i get to save tons of money. Well having sex for me is awesome and for every women who disagrees to give sex there are ten waiting in line. I always wanted a long term relationships with a girl for the rest of my life but the closet i got was the movies. I just satisfy my need and move one, i don't rape women, its consensual sex. I think equality is great because from what i see, women to more of the heavy lifting in society making our job much easier, so i have benefited more that some of my female friends. thanks for your comments

[bodell]

No I totally get it, and I have casual sex too, but just bc its casual doesn't mean there's not respect involved. Like you said, two equal consenting adults.

[VampireEmpress]

I honestly don't like ti if a guy wants to pay... let alone the 1st date. I assume he's creepy. I know it sounds cold, but why would he pay for someone he doesn't even know?

[OpenClose]

I generally identify as "pro-feminist" instead of "A feminist", and am often arguing on the side of men's issues or at least trying to question blanket statements or assumptions made by feminists about men's motives.

But other times, I am defending what feminism has done, from people who think it has been overwhelmingly evil.

One of the big things feminism did was bring gender discussion to the forefront, and even their early extreme views created backlash which essentially got men to talk about men's issues. We weren't in a good position to do so otherwise.

[SparklingFirefly]

I love this. Feminism is a conversation to be had between the sexes. What a lot of people misunderstand (because of extremists) is that feminism is about equality between men and women. It means talking about men's issues as well as women's issues.

[myTake Owner]

thanks man :)

[BigJake]

Any man who purports to believe in feminism needs to have his papers checked. Feminism has done nothing positive for men. It's undermined our place in society, our standing in our families, and our prospects for a successful and happy marriage. It's done this by indoctrinating women with the belief that they are victims, the victims of "patriarchy," which translates roughly in their vernacular to "all men."

Guys like you who believe you've benefited from feminism can't make any cogent arguments for it other than that you get a lot of pussy. That's a frat boy's mentality, trading a meaningful life for being a player. All I can think about people like you is that you never got laid in high school and ended up putting pussy on a pedestal.

[Fortres]

No. There are plenty of wrongs inside feminism, but feminism is not wrong. Not going to continue this discussion but I'm not going to walk right past it either

[SIGguy]

#2 doesn't apply to all guys. And it's not always because "they're pigs and deserve it", a lot of guys are genuinely nice, but she's got other plans. And when they say "go for the next girl", bear in mind that "the next one" could have Borderline Personality Disorder, and that's nothing you wanna be party to. And you gotta have standards. You don't wanna settle for a beautiful bum or an ugly (or at least YOU find her ugly) sugar mama, why not have one that's both? She's no Scarlett Johansson, but she's your kind of gorgeous and she can do well with or without you. Kids would be nice, but not everyone's that fortunate. To each his own, I guess...😕

[helpmealitttle]

Whoops. Sorry for the down vote. My finger tapped too far to the right.

[SIGguy]

@helpmealitttle I don't mean to come off as rude, but I sincerely hope that isn't sarcasm. I'm not in the mood, if it is.

[myTake Owner]

well said, thanks man

[helpmealitttle]

No, it wasn't sarcasm. The feed scrolled down too fast and I tapped my finger on the screen to stop, and it landed on the down vote.

[LuckyLittleLucy]

Hmmm... Good for you for seeing the positive side! My only qualm is if you just want sex, say you only want sex, there are lots of women who just want sex too... Then you wouldn't use them (because I feel like you lead them on a little).
And I agree, there are fewer pressures in society for women, but I feel like there are still a lot for men and women alike...
Just my personal thoughts!

[myTake Owner]

Thanks for that. I have tried saying to women i just want sex but more often than not i get turned down, sigh. So the only way i know of is to lead women on a little. Thanks for your comments

[cavmanier]

It's really obvious to me you really want what you said to seem like you're really happy with the situation you described, but I have a feeling you're really trying to cope or salvage a reality you're unsatisfied with. You're getting by. You're coping with being cheated on. The ❤'s you posted are clearly not sincere. You would not spend the energy to write this if there wasn't some bitterness and disgust with the situation you're living in. I understand you feel a satisfaction of revenge at attempting to spite women reading this which is a large part of your motivation. I mean no disrespect to you. I just suspect you may have feelings and pain repressed inside. I understand why you want to make the best out of a situation you feel disappointed about man. You have lots of time to revaluate and figure this out through life though. If you really do have a daughter good luck with her.

[RandomUsername3464]

Good move posting this anonymously. There are quite a few arrogant, blatantly misandrist mytakes that I saw when I first signed up here, and only when guys complained about them did they sort of stop. I guess you are just doing your job and evening out the scales - you are working for equality! Hahahaha!

[myTake Owner]

Thank you, you are right!! I am just using feminism to my advantage and its working out great

[BruceJender]

And on that note...

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What on Earth was this shit?

[Anonymous]

Dude how can you forget that you can stick to women aged 18-30. Women have there preference of height, face, build and we just care that they aren't fat and youthful.

Women past the age of 30 can go ahead and lie to themselves when they finally find a sucker thats desperate enough to settle with them the smart men will keep playing the field! serisouly guys need to find the brightside of all this liberal movement. sure we dont get the truly happy family life but oh well that shit is expensive anyways. Spring break trip to cancun banging slutty bitches or trying to save for your kids overpriced college tuition? lmfao thank you feminism and thank you women for destroying yourselves even when you get your way everything goes to shit its fucking histaricle!!!

[myTake Owner]

Awesome man

[ImNotASlut]

Wow. There's scum, there's arseholes, there's cunts. And then there's you.

[ImNotASlut]

And anonymous too, I just noticed. Says it all...

[myTake Owner]

Thanks, i just wanted to help some who might be in my position. Anyway, i am anonymous because i am dating someone from Gag, so yeah!

[ImNotASlut]

So you don't want her to know that you're actually a misogynist twat using her just for sex? Makes sense...

[myTake Owner]

"A misogynist is a person who hates or doesn't trust women." - well, i don't hate women at all. I support equal rights for all and i love my daughter, mum and work colleagues. Yip, how else will i get sex? I will date her and then at some point ask if she would like to have sex? whats wrong with that. How else am i supposed to get sex?

[ImNotASlut]

By making it clear that sex is all that you want from her and not leading her into a false sense of security. That way she can make her own informed decision.

You know, not every woman is a feminist so even if feminism stood for the things you're taking from it (it really doesn't) not every woman that you fuck around will stand for the same things.

[myTake Owner]

"By making it clear that sex is all that you want from her and not leading her into a false sense of security. That way she can make her own informed decision." - i have tried this approach before and the only girls i get are prostitutes, whereas if i lead the girl on and treat her nicely then she is more inclined to give me sex. Before female empowerment and feminism i would not be inclined to do this simply because women depended on us so i would feel bad to just want sex, however nowadays i don't have to feel guilty about doing that because women are not dependent on us guys and can survive on their own so i just take what i need and move on. I never ever force girls into sex, i always ask politely.

I know not every women is a feminist, but feminism has opened so many doors for me as a man, i find it better to have women in the work environment, us guys don't have to spend more on women as they have their own income, no social pressures and obligations to get married and support

[myTake Owner]

women and have kids with them. It does not matter to me if a women is a feminist or not, they very fact that we have feminism in our society influences all women and men. I support feminism because it actually makes life easier for me. As a man i still have all the benefits as previous generations of men, only now women have to work and get off their pedestal they have been sitting on. I am really sorry to have offended you but what i am trying to say is that feminism has helped me as a guy more than previous generations of men. I am sorry but i speaking my truth

[ImNotASlut]

The fact that it doesn't get you women is not women's fault, though having read what you have to say, I can understand that being yourself isn't a ticket to success.

Do you genuinely believe that women will be more accepting and less likely to have their hearts broken because there are SOME feminists in society? There are some women into what you're into, talk to them. Don't stay on the minds of other women you just used for sex.

Do you honestly not understand that you're an arsehole for doing this? When you do this, the other person must know exactly what they're in for. And if that only works on prostitutes, maybe you're the problem.

[myTake Owner]

Well i can't argue with you because i know you are right. Unfortunately i just do what works for me and then i move on. Sorry again and you are right i am an asshole.

[emily15]

Are you being sarcastic? Thanks to all the gentleman out there who thinks and acts different than you!

[Nmpetersen4882]

This is indeed a pathetic article as it demotes everything God crated men for, we were made to provide, care and love one woman. If we focus on keeping oneness in marriage and loving our women, they will not only feel connect but both parties will have an incredible sex life along with a happy marriage. This article crushes love entirely.

[AleDeEurope]

@Nmpetersen4882 Well, can't expect much from someone who loved a girl not knowing she cheated on him... she destroyed "love" for him.

[emily15]

@Nmpetersen4882 Thank you!!!

[emily15]

@AleDeEurope I agree with you, I hope he will get more mature!

[VampireEmpress]

@Nmpetersen4882 what does marriage have to do with <3? even the take owner mentioned that his dad had to work so much he barely saw him... why does everyone act like marriage is this awesome thing that solves all of a couple's issues?

[Marstalk]

@Nmpetersen4882 Oh yay, complemtarianism. Actually the creation was equal. It was the fall that made men and women take up roles.

[Nmpetersen4882]

You're welcome!

[Nmpetersen4882]

@VampireEmpress it doesn't solve all problems, quite the contrary, I wonder where you got that from. Marriage is beautiful because you both have learned to be selfless. Imagine both parties loving in this way and how it would create a lasting relationship... Few want that though, they want gratification so self, sad world.

[Nmpetersen4882]

Oh and you learn to work through problems together, doesn't mean they disappear :)

[myTake Owner]

No, not being sarcastic at all. Well i used to be a gentleman and then realized that feminism actually makes life better for us guys, just got to know how to use it to your advantage

[Anonymous]

You are not going to be a good gag mytake writer. You clearly showed how much brain dead you are in your first ever mytake.
YOU WANNT TO USE WOMEN.
You are a male version of a whore cause 'sex' is your priority and your brain in clouded with shit.
With feminism neither man nor woman can lead a peaceful life.

TRUTH SPOKEN, LET THE HATE BEGIN

[dartmaul15]

well, it is his subjective opinion. deal with it

[Opinion Owner]

@dartmaul15

Ok. agree it was his subjective opinion

[AdamThomas]

Stop slut-shaming, that isn't very feminist-like is it?

[Fortres]

The is no male version of whore, there is just whore.
Feminism is certainly an activism willing to give up peace in exchange for dismantling a system that discriminates, suppresses, repressed, double talks and uses by any means necessary mentality.

[myTake Owner]

Sorry man for that, i just play the game to get the things i need. I used to be nice but it never got me far

[Opinion Owner]

okay okay

[Anonymous]

Obviously you're trolling but it is interesting to think about whether feminism has actually made women happier. Most of the surveys I've heard of suggest no. www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...n-happy-years-ago-.html

[myTake Owner]

No, not trolling, really. Just stating how feminism has helped me and i do think it actually puts women at a disadvantage, but hey i just do what works for me.

[Anonymous]

This is one of those "Bitches ruined their lives with feminism" posts, right dude?

But you do make a point. Less rigid gender roles = more flexibility for everyone.

[myTake Owner]

thanks. I agree, for me at least its way more comfortable because i don't have to be committed to any one girl and won't be judged by society. Awesome!!

[Opinion Owner]

I agree that not everyone (both male and female) are made for marriage, nor is it necessary for survival in the modern era. It's a whole different phenomenon now. So people who don't fit the mould can find some other life, rather than making a spouse and/or kids miserable. Win win win, I'd say.