Often times we hear or read about women expecting certain characteristics from a man and their nagging over being with guys that treated them like crap. In response the ‘nice guy’ will say “that’s what you get for dating an asshole, when you should’ve been dating me”.
In reality neither side is right, women have no prerogative to demand men act in a certain way to please them and ‘nice guys’ should stop complaining about not getting laid since they are in control of their own sex lives and not women.
Women will use the excuse of being treated poorly in the past or fear of being ‘used’ as a justification to make men jump through hoops for them. The reason I have the word ‘used’ in quotes is because the very idea of being used is absurd. Sex is consensual and often times both parties involved enjoy it. The problem women have is that they feel they are entitled to a relationship if they sleep with a guy. Not every guy wants to have a relationship and that’s fine but women shouldn’t blame him for it since often times they enjoy the sex that they had with him. Enjoying the simple things in life isn’t that all that matters? A lot of women disagree and stick with their entitlements.
Here's what I say to people that believe that they're entitled to something.
To protect these entitlements they devise a system in which only guys that they want a relationship with will receive sex as a reward for their loyalty. This often includes the expectation of: being approached, being paid for on dates and in general being treated like a princess. This is where the ‘nice guys’ and ‘white knights’ come in and get taken advantage off.
‘Nice guys’ believe that treating a woman like a princess is a sure way into her pants, but it’s not. In reality it’s just an ego boost for the girl. If the girl decides to sleep with the guy it’s up to her but it’s very unlikely that just treating her like a princess will get a guy anywhere but the friend-zone.
‘White knights’ are even worse since they refuse to see the problem with being used as an ego boost because they see women as superior to them.
The Alternative
It’s actually really simple. For a guy to give something that he can get anywhere so much value is complete nonsense. Think about it, if a guy really wanted sex he could easily just get a hooker or go to a night club and have sex with a promiscuous girl. So why doesn’t he?
The reason the guy doesn’t is because he wants good quality pussy, that hasn’t been defiled by at least a dozen men before him. What he fails to realize is that he walks into a trap set by insecure women by treating her like a princess.
There are plenty of women out there, some of which will even treat a guy as their equal. Heck I can say from personal experience that they exist but they’re very hard to find. The reason they’re hard to find is because most women hang on to their entitlements. This gives guys the false belief that all women are like that and need to be courted in order for them to get laid.
The reason these entitlements still exist is because very few men are brave enough to call women out on their bullshit. Seriously it’s almost 2016; women have more rights than men and equal pay but still hang on to the archaic notion of chivalry.
The only way to end their grip on society is to deny them the power that they hold which is the right to refuse sex, by not offering it to them. If men start actively seeking out women that will treat them as equals and refuse to even approach those that will use withholding sex as a tool of manipulation and control, then more women will have to change in order to find a partner.
Men you have as much choice in which vagina you stick your penis in as women have the choice to accept or reject your advances.
Imagine you’re driving a car into a parking lot, and you see a car about to leave but the driver is taking his sweet ass time, will you wait for him to leave the parking space for you to park or will you just go into the empty one that’s a bit further down?
Don’t let women’s rules control you. There will always be new ones, like just yesterday I heard of the 3 month rule. It’s the idea that men must wait 3 months before a woman should have sex with them. That’s utterly ridiculous. If one woman says no or comes up with a bullshit rule to make a guy wait than she is not worth his time.
Both genders want to be in a happy relationship with someone, but to give females the power to decide when and where a male’s biological needs are met is a recipe for disaster.
Women only have power over men if men let them have it. It’s time to say no to being emasculated and telling women that if they want your penis than they must earn it.
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