Is Equalism Even Practiced by the So Called 'Feminists'?

[Anonymous]

Equalism

So, when people talk about feminism it is about equality. But is it even practiced by the people who claim to? Often it is a No. The reason i haven't used feminism as the headline is that often people think it is only for the women. Protect them. Worship them. But no, i want to talk about how we all or most of us need to grow up treating each other person equal.

People talk about women being abused. And several laws have been practiced by countries to eradicate it and protect their women. There are laws, wherein the man is victimised immediately without any investigation as soon as a woman makes a complaint. But the same isn't applicable for a man. Where are we going wrong? I understand women undergo more abusals than men (correct me if i am wrong). But does that really mean you don't have to bother about the men who undergo it or men you get victimised by these evilish women. No. Men deserve the same attention even though the cruelty against them is less. Or maybe they undergo a different kind of abuse.? Say, a woman randomly makes an issue against a man in the public. Does anyone try to investigate? No. A group might pitch in supporting the female having no clue about what actually happened. Poor man! Has no way out and is taken to the law.

Stop giving all these empathetic reaction to women. Treat men the same way too. That is all about equality.

Many people who talk about equality, fail to follow it. A guy should open a door for her, close it for her, pay bills, carry bags where the girl can walk empty handed. And in the case of a woman having a boyfriend he should be earning more than the female? Seriously people? We need to stop doing this.

RESPECT MEN AND WOMEN, BASICALLY RESPECT EVERYONE.

I understand i cannot compare men and women in everything. Say men are blessed to be physically strong naturally. But doesn't mean women are weaker and needs attention all the time in all aspects.

If women have so many laws to 'protect' them, i wish men had equally. I am sorry of all the humans of the opposite gender as I am. I empathise you all. And i hope we will strive to give you a better place to live in.

[Anonymous]

You are right many laws, that protect women in domestic situations as well as any situation involving allegations of rape/harassment/assault, at the man's expense. All she has to do is accuse him, her name is withheld, while his is made public, he is harassed, his friends, family and employer are harassed, and the police need no evidence to arrest. For example:

TRUE STORY: A Co-worker of mine had a female boss claim that he "stuck his hand down her blouse" during a verbal confrontation that she initiated. The police went into the hub, arrested him in front of everyone. Turns out, wait for it, the whole thing was caught on tape, and once the Union (because the employer, and the cops/DA needed no "Real" evidence just the word of a woman...) made the employer hand over the tape, it was found out SHE MADE IT ALL UP! Of course, he still lost his job, pension, and almost went to jail, because Feminists have turned this country into a which hunt against men! Of course she still has a job, and ZERO legal consequences. Equal rights my ass!

And don't even get me started on education/job discrimination, hate in the media, the farce that is the family court system, the constant lies about "pay gap", the "Anti-manspreading laws" (literally if you sit like a man you are ticketed/arrested!) it's like passing a law if women cross their legs they can be fined/arrested, and the "1 in 5" false rape on college campuses!

" I understand women undergo more abusals than men (correct me if i am wrong)" I don't think you are wrong, however the abusals of men do go under reported, especially when women are the aggressors, because once again feminism has convinced much of our society that women are always good and men always aggressors/evil.

And yes it is feminist groups lobbying for these laws! Not the fringe of feminism but the CORE!

[Anonymous]

Thank you for this. You are one of very few women who see things like this. I appreciate you very much.

I would support feminism if it was actually about equality, but it's not.

[myTake Owner]

Kinda true. Equality can't happen when people misuse it.

[John_Doesnt]

It's easy to pick the nut cases and horrible events in every group. But this is not indicative of feminists as a whole.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Feminism does not represent equality.