Thank God you still have your mom okay.. You know where my mom is dead
help her out to feel good about her self.. so what she copies you still have her
she is suffering with depression is causing her to do them things she wants
to keep herself young, she fears like most moms getting old, stay by your moms
side cause some day she will no longer be here, can you imagine how many
girls/ guys wish their mom was here? I went through hell with my mom but i sure
miss her and love her !!!
P. S. This made me cry
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Yeah she may be going through a mid life crisis, depending on her age. She may be trying to feel young again and is seeking the attention. Or, maybe she feels you slipping away as you grow up, you're not her "little girl" anymore so she's trying to adapt to you growing up so you'll still feel close to her.
I would try to sit down and talk to her about it. If she's not receptive or pretends everything is fine, then just ignore it and hopefully it's just a phase she's going through.
Try to see your mom's response to your fashion and style as complimentary! I know it's difficult because everyone wants to be unique. Try to share with her that it's best for both of you to pursue your own sense of style without being rude.
You mentioned in another comment that she doesn't see "it". If I were you I'd find out what she was wearing one morning and show up in your original version of it lol :P be like can you SEE it now? Good luck! It would creep me out too
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This is not normal so I can't even agree with the comments. That shit is weird. My mother has done me this same way for YEARS and I discovered she is a narcissist. That's not in any way healthy at all. I can't mention anything without her doing it too or trying to prove to me she can do it or showing off. I got my nose pierced at 26, she got hers pierced. I want to lose weight, all of a sudden she wants to lose weight. I mention an expensive restaurant, she'll go and then brag to me about it. I mentioned I wanted dreadlocs, guess who got them before I could? Like wtf! Then if I've told her something, when we actually are amongst those people she will try to embarrass me. She acts so loving around others but it's all fake. The manipulation is unreal. I grew up hating myself because of her and her ways. I've been depressed since 16. She blows it off like she doesn't remember her actions which I know is a lie. Its stressful and draining. She won't even keep her grandson. She still tries to control me. I wanna tell her to fuck off and get that shit under control but how can I when she acts like there isn't a problem.
Sounds like she is having a crisis of confidence with her body self image. And she is trying to hold onto her youth by trying to stay current with today's fashions and what better person to look to for all of that information than you her daughter.
Is she a single mother starting to get back into the social/dating scene again?She's getting older and is desperately trying to be young and hip again.
Just tell her to pipe the fuck down and get her own life
Lol that's pretty funny. I dont know what you old do to stop it
ask her if she's 6 years old LOL...
Woah, that IS weird...
hahahha she's jealous of you
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