How to get a white boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Hello I'm a teenage girl from Japan I have never had a boyfriend. I think white guys are really handsome and they seem like really nice guys. I live in japan so most here are japanese not european. I'm very shy to guys so I don't know how to talk to them good. My older brother has a friend who is half white I think he is so handsome but I'm also too shy to talk to him. How does an Asian girl like me manage to get a Caucasian guy? What sort of girls do they like? I like to sing and to watch Anime and video games and study. Do they like any of that? Bye bye~

[I_M_LEGEND]

so you watch hollywood movies and think white guys are some special heros when in truth theyre like everyone else. you're head over heels over them and i can tell you not to throw yourself at the for you might get used and end in heartbreak. white people have been used to move up in status... as if theyre an accomplishment... and its true we live in a soceity with a racial power structure with them being on top. it can work out but if you're a japanese native living in japan, the chances are slim... distance, cultural differences do not make it easy. i say at best youd have sex with him, you feed him his fanatasy and you saticefy your infatuation with them and you move on. if you're in america, i say all the power to you but your a typical japanese teenager who love white guys through hollywood. I've dated attractive white girls and theyre nothing speical. in fact i think Asian girls would love better and be more loyal. people with culture and strong sense of identity are less likely to flake off during rough times.

[Anonymous]

Well if you only want him for skin color then you need to get your priorities straight
You didn't even mention personality... just good old whiteness

[Asker]

Not just skin color... and not just looks either... I really like European culture so much

[Opinion Owner]

Well they are not different from any other guy so there is no different approach to it. And although Europe is predominantly white that is not the only race there... so you don't care as much about the culture but rather the white guys

[existing_not_living]

Well, I like anime, singing, and I from time to time play video games. I hate studying though, haha. I would take race out of this whole thing. A guy is a guy no matter the color of their skin. If you like this guy then just talk to him. Get to know what his interests are and if you guys have things in common, then talk about them. There is no way to just "get a white boyfriend." I have a white boyfriend, but it's not just because I wanted someone who was white. I met him and we realized we had common interests and started dating. Don't just go for a guy because of his race.

[Asker]

I just think they are so rare to me. They look so different from japanese guys. So to me they are so much more beautiful~

[existing_not_living]

That seems a bit shallow, but since your young and most youngin's are a bit shallow, I'll let it slide, haha. Still, I think you should so much as worry about how to get a white boyfriend as much as how to get a boyfriend in general. First, don't go looking for one. It's just going to make it that much harder to find one. I know it's easier said than done, but don't rush things. Sometimes guys will come when you least expect it. I had just gotten out of a situation with another boy when I met my bf. My best friend surprised me by introducing me to her best guy friend at a party. That's how we met. I wasn't expecting it and I wasn't on the lookout for a relationship. I was actually content with being single. A bf will come when you least expect it.

[Anonymous]

I suppose its a shallow idea that you want to get a white boyfriend just because they are white.
Who would be in a relationship with someone who wanna date with them because of their race?

And as everyone else mentioned there are a lot of different types of white guys.
It's like Asians girls all have different preferences.

So if you want to get a white guy, you should talk to them and get to know them first.

Please don't make Japan look like a stupid country...

[Anonymous]

I was the same when I was a teenager. There are white guys who find Japanese girls very attractive. Shyness goes away with practice and age. Think of talking to that guy as a challenge. Start with small talks and go from there. Attend events and places that you are more likely to meet white guys. Time will heal a lot.

[ThatAsianFellow]

Pfft... fly to America I'm pretty sure any White Otaku fan boy would be all over you.

However, don't expect many of them to be handsome as you said earlier.

That sounded a bit harsh and shallow. But every Otafest events in America I go to are more Caucasians than Asians and I usually got my Derp face on.

Also a lot of white girls seem to like Asian guys during those events and it's scary sometimes. :S

[Klaatu51]

sister... caucasian guys haven't got SAME preferences... some guys might like a girl to "sing and to watch Anime and video games and study"... others don't.

and there are many caucasian guys who like Asian girls just to let ypu know...

[I_M_LEGEND]

lots to be correct, ok cupid dating site says Asian girls are in the highest demand next to caucasian girls. white girls just have a reputatin of flaking off when times get tough in marriage... I've heard this from all ethnicities from all cutltures... think ab

[I_M_LEGEND]

about it, most men love white girls (attractive ones) so they have a star struck mentality with a good self esteem but often, they think theyre worth more.

[zombiebabe]

nice point!

[Aizou]

Just go about it how you would
any guy, apart from the activities around
where they're born, I doubt there's too much
difference in what they like and such.

I can assure you though, that many guys
will enjoy a good game with you.

The interests depends on the individual however
not on where they're born.. mostly. ^.~

[lightingrod]

If you want a white boyfriend, just ask a white boy out. Find you a white guy you like approach him, talk, exchange numbers, after a week to a month ask him out or wait as long as you want. Then again he may ask you out aswell.

[nstraub]

You sound like Knives from the movie Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World... you sound really nice, but you may need to grow up a little until you can have an adult conversation with a guy (white or not).

[thinkforyourself727]

Everybody loves Japanese people so you have a great chance of getting a white guy

[Asker]

How do you think japanese girls look? Just wondering because you are Caucasian so maybe many of them agree.

[I_M_LEGEND]

my white friend went to japan for a coupel of weeks. he said 99 percent of you guys werent attractive. bad teeth, weird style and behaviour... he's used to curvy Spanish chicks...(his girl is columbian)

[ConMetz]

Tbh it's ok being Asian. Not to be racist, but Asians can be cute. However I have zero attraction to black girls. I just don't.

[LauraMarx]

no one even mentioned black girls. You just gotta talk shit about black girls wherever you go huh? wow

[ConMetz]

No. It was just a reference to interracial dating. I have black friends, I just don't feel any attraction to them. It wasn't meant to offend, I was just using Anecdotal evidence.

[I_M_LEGEND]

same, i do Asian white and some Spanish. i m not into black grils too

[Krushhbrownies]

First step into doing that is to go to a place where there are lots of white guys. I guess it's time to emigrate from Japan.

[Ihav2fart]

They're like everyone else, there's the good, the bad, and the uglies.

[atomique]

Come study in the US. Major in the Sciences or Engineering thus you have plenty to pick from.

[Anonymous]

European white men. Stay away from these American boys.

[Keyspirits]

LOL! Dis is sum funnay stoofs xX

[Sirisaac]

Just talk to them. Seem like your interested.