My boyfriend is really big.. about 300 ish or so. His dick is super small... if I'm on top.. like I can't even get it inside of me. What can I do?

[Anonymous]

I try to have sex with him and I literally cannot. I have to fake it and I feel awful about it I don't want to tell him that it isn't inside of me we've tried doing it on the couch with him leaning back and me sitting on his lap we've tried with me on top he can't even attempt missionary because he gets a cramp and doggy style is just awful. I feel bad just typing this it really hurts me to say anything about it because I do love him. we're trying to work on the him pleasing me part orally and with his hands but I can't even get him off either he wants to ejaculate in my mouth but I can't do that, I don't mind cleaning him off but I can't take that much at once sorry its so gross but that's what it is. I seriously need some help here

[Stacyzee]

I'm pretty sure you knew he was 300 lbs prior to becoming his girlfriend.

Why'd you decide to date him in the 1st place?

I mean you have no physical attraction to him what so ever.

What would make you think there would be a sexual attraction?

Your boyfriend is too unfit to carry out any sexual position with you.
(that's why he gets cramps).

Either you accept that your sex life will be this way, or you leave him.

I'm sorry but you can't change him wanting to get in better health.
That has to be something he wants himself.

[Anonymous]

All I can think is to keep trying different positions and invest in toys. Maybe you both can look into some lifestyle changes that will give you more options in the bedroom? Like the potassium in bananas can really help with cramping. As long as you're both willing to try new things, I think you'll be able to find something that works.

[safeplace]

you need to be honest with him, sheesh if he's that big for his own sake he needs to get to the gym, ill be honest with you, i had a low point and got to 328 and it is tough but its not just ourselves where letting down if he can't perform to his best for you , he needs to get his ass on a bike and lose a lot of weight I've almost lost 100 pounds and i feel incredible, i would greatly encourage honesty in your relationship, it will be beneficial to you both, some times truth hurts but it can correct the laziness in hour lives.:) hope that helps

[ScorBear]

Either you should have a talk about it with him or you should do like you want to make activity with him , telling him you want to share time each others to run away from routine ;, and change slowly his diet.. but do it slowly... try to make it loose pounds without he knows it

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Did you ever try placing a pillow under your butt
so your position for him to stick it right in you also
not all big men have small dicks either so he could
be having a erectile dysfunctional problem going on

[Not_Helping]

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Men's girdle! :D

[25042015]

AFAIK there are some penis enlargement techniques and medicines/supplements that work. Surgery also works iirc.

[trin929]

Maybe try scissoring with him. It will allow him to get closer google search will show examples

[cinderelli]

have you tried any toy.. i heard there is something to wear on the penis to make it longer..

[Anonymous]

Find a guy with a bigger dick?

[kittyd7015]

fatty fatty diet time xxx

[kahnkang14]

Leave him for someone better

[wwag2000]

can you tell how long is his deck while erection?

[Anonymous]

Why are you with this fat disgusting slob anyways

[hypno-trip]

Have him eat u