Are you a slow or fast replier?

Question

How long do you take to reply to someone's message?

I'm the worst at replying to people, sometimes I read the message and my mind thinks I replied to the person when in reality, I didn't. It happens to me often. I think I have short term memory loss ahahah

I usually take a day or even more to reply but it also depends on the person I'm texting/messaging with, if it's someone close to me, I will always reply no matter what.

HookingSwan · Accepted Answer

Im a fast replier. Sometimes my boyfriend is not. Still not sure its bcause he is busy all the times or sometimes just thinks... Ok i can answer this later.
I understand he is a person that basically owns the same cell phone number for 1 year already only because of me, as he said it.

But, for example, today I saw him online on whatsapp and i thought ok might as well say good morning. As soon as i sent the texts he went offline. Im still not sure how the online on whatsapp works. wouldn't he have at least seen the messages?

I mean i trust him but sometimes there are things i dont understand well. Mayb im jst too clingy, but its a LDR after all and most of the time i miss him and wish we spoke more.

spuitkaas · Accepted Answer

It depends on my mood and who it is. If it's my best friend with something I often reply immediately. If it's someone not inportant with a stupid question like my sister, I reply very late. I also have that I see a message and think 'I'll reply later' and then it's 8 hours further and I still haven't replied then. Sometimes then I don't reply at all. I make people mad sometimes...

SolitaireBond · Accepted Answer

I do at least try to respond within an hour, if not sooner.. Sadly it doesn't always work out that way, if business issues need my attention.. I then very often forget to reply until something prompts me to look at my messages again.

YazanAA · Accepted Answer

I'm a fast replier, I will reply directly whenever I see a message. however, there's this girl who messaged me 2 days ago here with a long... A very very long and detailed essay about her story woth her boyfriend and she is asking me a lot of questions at once lol, I haven't replied yet because I don't know what to tell her and honestly, with all those details that she gave me, I'm not quite sure what exactly she wants, plus I'm afraid that if I replied to her, she will give me another loooooonnnng essay lol :p

KDA20 · Accepted Answer

I am very ordered
(1) I receive a message depends on the content "Meet you in the bar Friday 7pm" - Instant reply "Okay see you there".
(2) Keeping in touch "How are you? - What are you doing?" - If relaxed just a quick reply "Ok and chilling"
(3) Deeper message where I want to think about reply or I just want to talk to them - Hold off till I am free to have a proper conversation.

existing_not_living · Answer

With my best friend, I reply as soon as I get his message. With my family, a little less so. With other friends it could take a couple hours to a couple days. I have anxiety issues - they are really bad. I once had to shut off my phone for 6 months because I had a freak out about answering messages. The only people I usually immediately respond to are my best friend and my family. Everyone else... maybe. It depends on my mood.

BellePepper · Answer

I'm pretty slow :/ I'll start looking at things on the phone or computer but then I have to go do something or whatever so I'll switch and complelty forget about things. People should DEF message me again if I don't reply. It's not intentional!

linkywinky · Answer

I'm a very bad conversationalist, which you know, because you've got me on KiK lmao  Though I seem to always get my act together when it comes to talking to whomever I'm crushin' on at the time.

Nuqood · Answer

My response depends on how interested I am in the person and whether or not I'm busy. If I'm invested in the conversation I will reply quick; I don't play childish games.

hamza05021991 · Answer

I reply fast and give full attention to anyone I talk to. If someone replies slow and doesn't pay attention I get annoyed and distance myself. Its rude not to pay full attention right?

Lissy967 · Answer

Extremely slow 😣 I prefer writing long messages so I'd rather reply when I am conpletely free and in the mood to talk to someone. I know that people might think I got bored of them or something but that's almost never the case.

Stacyzee · Answer

Haha I'm just like you ! Also i am not much of a texter so that's why I don't reply fast.

TwistedLogic · Answer

"Sometimes I read the message and my mind thinks I replied" LMAO! I am guilty of this as well.

Agirlcalledkill · Answer

It happens the same to me! I think of the answer and then I think I replied when I haven't !

Just1n123 · Answer

Pretty fast as long as there's no autocorrect fails.

Starfishlover · Answer

Lightening fast. I don't beleive in leaving the person hanging.

Hannah591 · Answer

Very slow unless I'm right next to my phone or I'm already on Facebook. Then I'm super fast but then I usually end the conversation prematurely because I forget to reply.

BiscuitesSwag · Answer

I'm normally a fast replier, but if I'm mad at the person (or says something like "k" and that's a conversation ending for me) then I don't even bother to answer.

Saydou · Answer

I am fast replier, i just can't see myself ignoring some human being, that is just me

Realfire22 · Answer

I think i may be too fast of a replier. I don't let the message sit in my phone for more than 4 seconds before i reply to it.

cinderelli · Answer

i reply fast.. specially to the people i really like.. i have this habit because i dont like to keep someone waiting... as i dont like to wait for others too...

Luvme66 · Answer

Depends on the person I am talking to.. If its a relative or a friend = fast replies incoming If its some I am interested in= slow replies all the way.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I reply faster to babes as soon I see n receive the messages :D

Jxpxtxr · Answer

It depends on who I'm talking to actually hahaha but usually I try to reply asap

Kay211 · Answer

Fast, usually. Though if they don't give me much to work with i usually wait hours.. days until i can think of something to say.. lol.

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