Gay guy friend who is a little too touchy?

[Anonymous]

I'm good friends with this guy who happens to be gay and very flamboyant. Eversince I met him, he's been pretty open about his sexuality, though lately how he acts around me has been making me concerned. He is VERY touchy with me and loves to slap my butt and thighs. Also, he comments on my boobs, thighs, and butt a lot and says things like "Damn, look at those titties" "That ass is mine" "Look at those sexy thighs". Whenever he sees me, he picks me up and kisses my face and neck. I can't sit by him without him wanting me to cuddle with him or sit on his lap. He also LOVES to pretend to be a couple with me, especially whenever he notices that guys are checking me out. This is what mainly bothers me, because I'm single and how am I supposed to get a guy if it looks like I'm already taken. Does anyone else have a friend like this? I just don't how to react sometimes when he does these things.

[Pooping]

Tell him to stop being so damn disrespectful. His sexual orientation gives him no right to touch you or make such sexual comments, specially if you don't like it. I've heard about this a few times and I really don't understand what makes some gay guys think it's ok to do that to their female friends just because they're gay. It makes me so angry...

[Drooogie4]

Just say being touched like that makes you uncomfortable?
You don't have to throw in sexuality or any excuses.

[Anonymous]

Have you ever considered that maybe he's pretending and he's really not gay? Or maybe he's bi?

[Asker]

That's what I've been wondering... I feel like since we are still in our teens that he might be confused about his sexuality. I know he's had feelings for men, but I don't know about women.

[Opinion Owner]

Well honeslty all you can really do is ask him about it because some gay guys do act like that or act as if they're just girls or sister to us and think nothing if the fact that they aren't. Then when in public they play the role of the boyfriend scare off bad guys or guys they think aren't right for us because you're his boyfriend or like a sis to him. But then again he might be developing feelings for you and experimenting want to experiment with the opposite sex now. It won't hurt to ask you're his best friend just try to not make him feel uncomfortable.

[Asker]

I agree, thanks :)

[beautifulangel76]

I don't think he's gay. I know some gay people but they never said stuff like that,

[Anonymous]

I'm not going to tell you how to act around him, Im not even sure how you should lol but maybe he could be bi. Have u tried asking?

Coming from a gay dude! 👌

[alonzoslade]

Yea I agree with him. I am bi sexual myself and SO MANY people think being bi isn't a thing

[Pinky_Desi]

U can ask me anything Luv I myself am va bi

[Anonymous]

If it makes you uncomfortable, tell him so. He's supposed to be your friend and if he's putting you into a situation where you're not comfortable you should tell him as a friend he should have you best interests in mind and stop

[Anonymous]

Try to tell him privately and politely that you aren't comfortable with the way he treats you.