I get so jealous when he talks to other girls such as in social settings. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

He is very interesting and girls seem to flirt with him a lot, or be overly friendly. And he gets nervous and stutters his words when he talks to a pretty girl.

I hate this feeling, I observe other couples and guys talk to other girls often enough. Why does it bother me so much? How can I let go of this insecurity? I feel like, he is getting his ego stroked, and also, everyone is enjoying him when he is mine to enjoy. That is just silly to think that way. But how do I stop?

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I always sit back and feel like everyone likes him soo much, thinks he's so great... and I am nothing. We are even getting married. I shouldn't feel so insecure. I don't act on it but it eats me alive and I am miserable inside.

[xHoneyxBeex]

Well, you can't stop him from simply talking to other women. At least you can admit that your mindset is a bit silly. Unfortunately, jealousy is a natural human emotion though. You simply have to also think logically about it when you do get jealous. Just think to yourself, "Is there really a reason for me to be jealous right now?"

All he is doing is talking to a girl who probably spoke to him first, it would be rude for him to just ignore people who speak to him. Also, just because he may talk to some other girls, it doesn't mean he is attracted to them or romantically interested in them. Try not to let these feelings get the better of you. Trust and communication is very important in any relationship. You just need to trust that he is not doing anything wrong.

[xSisi]

It's natural to be jealous when girls talk to a guy you're in love with BUT if you act on it and let it be a problem, there might be a chance of ruin your relationship. Try to not worry too much, and maybe talk to him about your feelings!

[Anonymous]

You sound possessive and lack trust. If you don't overcome this, all of your relationships will end in failure. I would suggest that you get therapy to get at the core of your issues.