I am a bartender. 3 night a week we have 2 DJ’s per night (one for each floor). I know them all and I know many other DJ’s as well. For me there are 2 kinds of DJ’s. There are some guys that just push buttons and don’t really care about the night except for getting paid. You can talk to these kind of DJ’s all night long.
Luckily our DJ’s are really good and passionate about what they do. At the end of the night they talk to each other about how it went, what went wrong, what went okay and how they can be better. They only occasionally talk about girls they have seen. This is not to impress you but to show you their state of mind.
They are annoyed when people talk to them because they are performing. Just look on YouTube for a video called “Stuff people say to DJ’s” and you’ll understand. What you see in the video they experience all night long. Sometimes they tell me that girls come to them and complain just so they can talk to them. So don’t do any of these things. It is not that they can’t take criticism. It is just that have no time to do any sort of talking. And it is hard to concentrate on choosing the right records and mixing while somebody is talking to you.
So my advice is not to disturb them while playing. One girl asked me the same advice and I told her to wait to the last song and then just hang around. Maybe say something about that you enjoyed the show and where else have you played. I gave her that advice 2 months ago and they immediately hit off. She did it and they are still together.
Hope this helps and good luck
You can take it further by maybe flashing your breats to him, or asking for sex... but I doubt you will get anything more than that. He is a dj, djs are looked upon like rockstars, even ugly dj's have girls at their every whim, let alone a good looking one. I wouldn't hold high hopes about having a relationship with him.. but I don't know the guy, anything could happen.
well, I think the best way to get him to notice you and befriend him, is make your self stand out.this could be done in many different ways. if you and your girls are going out you should have a theme going, and every friday have a different theme maybe one day be neons, the next charlies angels, who knows. either way it will be fun, another way is to always make contact with him weather its eyes or talking to him. if you have an oppertunity to get close to him or talk to him, take it, even ask him if he wants to dance, and take a break. he probably wouldn't be able to if he's the main Dj there but. its still the thought that counts. and if you stand out by dance moves or colorful outfits, he will begin to notice you and after you get a bit closer to him just ask him what time he gets off at, and ask if he maybe wants to go out after to another club or something. so you have him on MySpace? cause you could send him a message or even walk up to him in the club and request a song, I would ask him ahead of time so he has time to prepare it.
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easy... ask what's the name of the song he's playing at the moment
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