"Dress like a slut and expect to be treated like one"?

[GirlsLie]

I just read a question, where this was stated multiple times and it made me laugh. So if I wanted to be treated like a princess, could I just dress like one? If I wanted be a pro baseball player, I could just wear the uniform then right?

Why do people think it's ok to assume or treat someone a certain way because of the clothes they wear?

[PiuBelloAmante]

i think you should take him more seriously
Because the way you dress doesn't determine who you are, but people will still judge you and treat you accordingly

its not ok, to treat someone poorly because of what they wear but, it happens
guys like him are an example he probably treats women horribly who dress "slutty" or "promiscuously"
at the end of the day, i think people should dress how they please, but to not expect people to show them respect, if they dress in a disrespectful or crazy manner

[TheOneAndOnlyBart]

https://youtu.be/J7QNw1LRJv4

This video accurately describes the way I think about it.

[GirlsLie]

lol, that's awesome.

[Cherokeehp]

I was gonna post a picture of him!

[TheOneAndOnlyBart]

@Cherokeehp Too late 😜

[TheOneAndOnlyBart]

Thanks for MHO :)

[LittleSally]

Haha
See... if you dress like a princess you might actually get treated like one - not in a huge ball gown, but expensive dress and high end heels - some jewelry - you'll see how people treat you differently.
it's insanity.

From ignoring you in a shop, they'll be all over you trying to help.

Yeah... people are vain and unbelievably superficial.

[GirlsLie]

I agree sadly lol

[LittleSally]

Haha Yeah... sad truth. O. o

[cinderelli]

well there is a difference you know..
https://i42.tinypic.com/25zqp8z.jpg
img1.simplydresses.com/.../...O-JVN-JVN86957-a.jpg

[GirlsLie]

I agree, it just over steps boundaries to me when you assume to know someones sexual interest and amount of partners based on an outfit. And to treat them differently because of either of those things is just something I will never understand.

[cinderelli]

Well slut would not be the right word because we don't know what are her sexual habits.. but what dressing shows is that what signs a girl wants to give.. of course if she is wearing an outfit which is too much revealing then more people are gonna look at her and think about sex with her..

[GirlsLie]

Yeah, you have a point, I just would never treat someone rude based off of their outfit lol

[lex217]

Because people are assholes. Who cares if you go around naked, doesn't mean you deserve any less respect.

[GirlsLie]

Feels like they're looking for a reason to disrespect someone in my opinion. I mean if I saw someone who was poor and couldn't dress well, I wouldn't be rude to them because of it, such a stupid thing to do.

[lex217]

EXACTLY. I just hear a lot of guys say that to try to justify the fact that they're disrespectful towards women.

[BellePepper]

AH! I really like that idea OP "Feels like they're looking for a reason to disrespect someone in my opinion" I think you're 110% right!

[Anonymous]

Hate to say it, but not everyone is the nonjudgemental creatures we expect everyone to be. People will judge a guy if his hair is greasy and his clothes and style looks ragged as looking lazy or filthy. People judge guys with big bodies who wear those weird t-shirts that cut low on the sides so you can see their ripped stomach as people with large egos and a bad attitude. People judge girls who show a lot of skin as being loose. Our brains just work in a way where we "size" someone up based on their appearance.

People who are formally dressed are treated professionally. People who wear lab coats are seen as smart characters. The way you act and present yourself, I feel, affects how people treat you. Just because you have the right to wear whatever you want, doesn't mean you should, as you have the responsibility to respect your body. Not sure if I used the best examples, but I hope you see the point. I am sure this'll get a lot of hate though.

[GirlsLie]

I see your point and you're right people do judge and there's really nothing you can do about that but judging someone as a slut or whore seems so personal to me, why would you assume to know how many sexual partners they've had based on that and why on earth would you treat someone differently because of it. Like I said earlier, i've seen well dressed men and women who have sleep around a lot and women who dress "slutty" but don't sleep around.

Also I don't think someone doesn't respect their body just because they show it off.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

That is one thing with me i would never treat a girl different cause of

the clothing she's wearing but if i have a girlfriend and she wants to dress

sexy i hope she will do it for me that is just one thing i wonder about.

[GirlsLie]

Awesome :)

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Your welcome :) :D

[bobwallice]

We often wonder why you would dress a certain way if you don't want that reaction. What is the purpose of dressing slutty if you don't want to be seen as slutty. If you dress in sports garb we assume it's because you like sports. If you dress like a goth we assume it's because you want to make a statement about how sad and lonely you are. Your clothing is a reflection of you as a person and is a good indication of what you like or enjoy.

[akadatank44]

I guess maybe it goes around thr same lines as dont give it away for free? Lol I don't know.
But what I do think is we are sorta trained to think that way. Look at shows and movies. The hot sexy dressing like a slut cheerleader has slept with the whole football team and the loney geek chick who dresses more conservative has been only with her boyfriend if she has one. Just a theory when reading your question

[Octavius]

I'm gonna go buy a roman emperor outfit.

Those people are idiots. Ignore them, trying to educate them usually is an exercise in futility.

[GirlsLie]

lol, lets do it, everyone dress up as what you want to be treated like.

[smoke-E]

actually its not like that what you are wearing make your 1st impression...
if you dress like princess then people will think you like princess something like that
if you wear baseball player uniform then people will think you are intrested in sports and in baseball specially !!

[GirlsLie]

I was being sarcastic with the "pro" part. I just meant people would assume i'm into sports and they would assume a woman is into a lot of sex who dresses a certain way, doesn't mean she is.

[smoke-E]

yes, you are absolutely right...
fuck them who think so she and her friends know who she is and
when people have no work they just start thinking and talking nonsense so its better to ignore

[GirlsLie]

lol, you're right :)

[smoke-E]

ok, if you think so :) and thanks

[Anonymous]

The person who said that needs to go back to college, get a Zoology degree and start researching chimpanzees in Africa's forests. As far away from civilization as possible.

[GirlsLie]

lol, I agree

[Opinion Owner]

Seriously though. This should have a consequence like shouting "HEY NIGGERS!" in NYC as a white person.

[bloodmountain1990]

What's even funnier is the ones that wear revealing clothes and then turn around and complain about why people are staring at them. You don't wear those clothes unless you want that kinda attention.

[GirlsLie]

I agree but if they want the attention then who cares, just own up to it lol

[bloodmountain1990]

Right and that's the thing. I've met girls who act like sex objects to get attention and validation only to complain when they're disrespected.

[AngryHorny]

Sometimes a girl just wants to be noticed. It doesn't mean she will fuck anyone, or fuck you for money. I think most guys could understand that with a bare minimum of mental effort.

[Sam19XX]

I agree with that "Dress like a slut and expect to be treated like a one" statement. Why? Simply bcz this has to do with your self respect. The basketball and the princess examples just dont have anything to do with self respect. That is why.

[GirlsLie]

I think it says more about the people who choose to not respect someone based on how they are dressed than it does the person dressing that way...

[Sam19XX]

Not about respecting others... Its about respecting yourself.

[GirlsLie]

But how do you know they don't respect themselves based on how they dress? maybe they don't see is as respect issue.

[Sam19XX]

It's like if a girl has a price for her body. One is selling hers for nothing and the other one is selling hers for her guy only. There is a huge difference between them !

[Sam19XX]

Fuck. My English is shit. What I meant is that its like having a price for your body. One girl will sell it to anyone looking good , and there are so many good looking people out there. And the other one will save it for the guy that deserves it.

[Anonymous]

Please look at this picture!

wildfeministappears.files.wordpress.com/.../whore-uniform.jpg

[bloodmountain1990]

Exactly

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Well... you are wearing a "hoe's" uniform I will say that much.

[GirlsLie]

Hey take off that teenage boy uniform before you talk to me lol

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Lol huh? nice and mature lady. just watch what @TheOneAndOnlyBart put it will explain exactly the way I feel and you will also understand that the statement I just said wasn't directed at you.

[GirlsLie]

I was just messing with you :) didn't you ask a question about how old you looked the other day? or am I mistaken?

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Lol yeah that was me... people kept asking for that and I was asking how old I looked... I get told in person all the time that I look like I am 27... yet on here apparently I am 15 D: this question made me think actually... as to why am I so opposed to the fact that women can wear what they like. As you can see I dress pretty conservatively, but most of my friends dress provocatively. I would say I wouldn't have so much of a problem with it, though it doesn't make me want to date any of them for that fact. I would have a problem if my girlfriend did it since I like my ladies looking classy but thats just me. Perhaps it makes the girl feel untrustworthy and to me... a relationship type of guy is incredible important. To each their own though :)

[GirlsLie]

lol well you're lucky though, when you're 40 you're going to look like you're still in your 20s I bet.

And yeah I understand that, I have no issues with preference at all but in that question people were talking negatively about women who dress a certain way and I just thought it was wrong to assume all of those things about someone or to treat them differently based off of how they dress. I just think people should judge personality more than clothes. I know some well dressed men at work, who sleep around, so not only is it rude but it's not always true lol

[Paris13]

Great Pix, @OrdinaryGentleman

[OrdinaryGentleman]

@Paris13 Thank you:)
@GirlsLie Yes that is true that I shouldn't judge a book by its cover... however... It is quite difficult for me personally when it comes to clothing and how you choose to show yourself to others. To really come to an understanding when I have run into not the "greatest individuals" out there is also nerving. I will say that I have met some women who sleep around and wear normal clothes and even though they do do it I am just more attracted to them. I suppose it shows that they aren't as materialistic as well. But again... there are a lot of factors at play here.

[Paris13]

So welcome, @OrdinaryGentleman

[GirlsLie]

Oooh, I have lol. There were a few women at my work, one was a GM actually, she dressed very well but she was married and she also had multiple men who she cheated with (at different times) and had them meet her at work so she could do it behind her husband's back.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Yikes lol eh maybe I will enjoy the single life then and just pay to have sex:P

[GirlsLie]

lol, you just never know about some people, it's kind of scary to think about :(

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Eh my next store neighbor said that after I had a falling out in my last long term relationship while we were hanging out in the wake of destruction she left:P I admit though it is quite disappointing when you get cheated on or you know that people are cheating. I am all for swingers but if you do it behind others backs then eh... not cool

[GirlsLie]

It's so disrespectful to cheat, just leave someone or be honest with them if you want to sleep around, don't make someone sleep with you, thinking that you're being faithful to them the entire time, so wrong.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Lol sorry I have been extremely busy since school is starting... however. Exactly, it makes all the things they have done for you abstract to you. Really hurts but with my luck with them women's... I must be saving my luck for later in life :) But buying all the dinners, making dates, doing all the work to get to where you are be it man or woman really fucking hurts when that is tossed aside.

[throwit]

Even if I saw someone in a baseball uniform on the street I wouldn't go up to them and comment on it lol
Analogies are stupid anyways because the two things are not equal.

[selgomezfan101]

Some guys are just idiots being dressed a certain way means nothing!

[BackInGame]

it's the act what determines you, not a dress. so if you are sleeping around, having casual sex, one night stands.. etc, then you're a slut. it's that simple. Dress is there, well, just that it gets off.

[grahamcracka]

if you didn't judge anyone by their appearance you'd give anyone a chance. no one does that tho so...

[Anonymous]

its true actually

if it looks like a chicken, acts like a chicken... then its probably a chicken

[Opinion Owner]

LMAO of course you chose the one who agrees xD

[GirlsLie]

So a girl wearing a slutty outfit is like a crystal ball into her personal life? you can determine her amount of sexual partners just by a short dress and some cleavage, damn some of y'all have have invented something new.

Also I was about to choose to the male MHO but I had to leave for work, I was going to choose the guy with the video and I don't agree with the video lol

[Words_and_Wisdom]

If you dress for attention then you're gonna get attention. What you wear is what you project onto others.

[Anonymous]

You Are what you Wear.

[GirlsLie]

Cool, from now on i'll wear a bikini and y'all can just call me Adriana Lima.

[Opinion Owner]

A bikini is ok but going out in public with other things that may cause others to look twice, people today do Talk.. sad as it is.

[GirlsLie]

I'm curious though, if a virgin wears a "slutty" outfit, do you still think she is a slut?

[Opinion Owner]

No one would Know this if she were a virgin. But her wearing something that's revealing, may in her own head, let people know she is not afraid to show it and many guys who are looking that she may Do it.

[FlowerPhill]

Dont care it. Dress like what you want.