Why are girls so judgmental?

[Checky_check]

Now, I'm not saying every single female on the planet is like that, I''m just saying that If you randomly picked a girl out of a crowd she would likely be pretty judgmental. Am I right?

Anyway... why?

[CestLolaVie]

We are judgmental not only on guys, but on our selves, the way we dress and others dress, we pretty much have the nature to analyze everything to achieve perfection. We are more of Perfectionists than judgmental, I think, its a matter or wanting to see everything perfect when we see ourselves in the mirror, and when there's not a mirror around, we tend to place ourselves as the mirror on everyone else we meet. But keep in mind that a girls imperfections might me some other girls perfection and that goes for guys too. We are all judgmental in nature, whether girls or guys, but girls tend to be more of perfectionists as they are more judgmental of their looks and take care of themselves more than guys do. But as soon as we find a guy we like a characteristic in, whether they are funny or smart, we put down our judgmental guard and become blind. So don't worry so much about girls being judgmental, because when a girl really likes you won't see her judgmental side.

Hope this helps.

[crazymedic]

I'm not sure if that's necessarily true or not.. but I guess in a way everyone is judgmental including guys.. girls are probably just more up front about it.. I personally try my best not to judge people until I get to know them..but generally speaking everyone judges everyone else. wether they're aware of it or not.

[Checky_check]

I know all girls aren't like that, but-- I don't know, I guess it just the girls in this town.

[Cool-Relax]

Isn't this question in and of itself judgmental?

Humans in general are judgmental, that's just the way our minds work. That doesn't make us all shallow, bitchy people though. If you start grouping women together, you won't even notice the ones who prove you wrong.

[Checky_check]

I KNOW that not all women are so judemental, but I guess I thought that they were a little more judemental than they actually are. But if you ever spent a couple of days in this town you would know EXACTLY what I'm talking about, there's not a girl here who isn't a total b*tch.

[Anonymous]

I prefer the word shallow. Most girls these days it seems would rather be with a guy who looks like he walked off a Hollister catalog and will treat her like crap. As oppose to a guy who could use a little work but is great and would treat her like gold. It sucks. I'm sick of losing with women..

[Checky_check]

Yeah, that's exactly what I was talking about. It's like if you're not totally ripped or something they won't give you a second look. They'll say they want peronality, but when a guy with personality walks up to them they tell them to get lost!

[ivarei]

people are judgmental in general, we're constantly judging and evaluating everything, it's not just girls.

[Anonymous]

everyone is judgmental...well not everyone but guys and girls are judgmental. it isn't just girls like guys are never. this question is judgmental

are YOU judgmental?

[kissandtell]

Same reason men are? its human nature

[Anonymous]

and guys aren't just as judgmental? lol.

[BornToBeWild]

I agree

[RememberWhenItRained]

True that lol