Do you take things slow or do you enjoy moving fast?

[OrdinaryGentleman]

In the past century we have seen an influx of relationships taking a dive. People are constantly searching for a better alternative to being in their current state of life. Forever seeking pleasure and an escape until reality sets in and they become thrust into the thick of it once again. I notice in western culture people are simply too quick, too apt to rush into a relationship instead of working on a friendship. Which is pretty important if you are choosing to be stuck together for the rest of your lives. What do you think may be the root cause and what is your stance?

[Darkfairie17]

It can be very hard to take things slow when you become excited about a person. But I am trying to take things slower. I really want my next relationship to last. Not that not rushing is any guarantee, but really getting to know a person and figuring out whether they are a good match for me or not.

[Anonymous]

I like to have a connection with the person and get to know them for a while before we have sex. We should trust and care about each other. The relationship can come before that or after that, it just depends on us and what we're ready for.

[vishna]

I typically am ok at not getting physical too fast. And with emotions, I'm good at pacing things.

So, I wouldn't say I move too fast, I move pretty slowly because it's my heart on the line, and I'm going to take care of it.

[vishna]

thanks man

[Mustachekitteh]

With majority of the relationships i was in, I sucked so much at not rushing. With my current boyfriend I tried really hard to take things slowly. Which now this is the best relationship I've ever been in and the longest. :)

[Prof_Don]

I like to move fast, I hate wasting time and beating around the bush.

This is one of my biggest issues in dating. I always move faster than the girl wants to.

[AssJacket]

I tend to like to develop a friendship first, but honestly I'm a guy with a long history of having female best friends that I eventually have sex with. So, YMMV.

[chintita]

slow and steady wins the race emotionally, but im a prtty fast mover sexually cuz if i'm dtf i wanna f

[existing_not_living]

I am honestly all over the place when it comes to that stuff.

[worldscolide]

Depends on the girl, but I tend to be a slow mover.

[Phoenix98]

I take things slow and steady.

[apple24]

I have no relationship sooO!

[sixnineanon]

I strongly prefer to take things slow

[Anonymous]

Not too slow and not too fast.

[reptocarl]

I'm a fast mover

[rgb008]

Slow.