Okay this guy friend of mine had a few different pics of my feet on his cell (I know they were mine because of they were taken of my senior pics on the internet)? They were sent as pic texts, but they were sent to himself? I confronted him about it and he had no idea and said he didn't do it. He...
Okay this guy friend of mine had a few different pics of my feet on his cell (I know they were mine because of they were taken of my senior pics on the internet)? They were sent as pic texts, but they were sent to himself? I confronted him about it and he had no idea and said he didn't do it. He had lost his phone for about a day a couple days earlier, but why would some random person have pics of my feet and send them? It made me feel really bad because I know I don't have the nicest feet in the world. But I have seen WAY worse feet then mine! I'm so confused! Why would he have those on his phone?! Has this ever happened to anyone else?
I have a love for female feet. I don't call it a fetish because a fetish implies you can only get off when a certain element not typically associated with sex is present. That is not my case. While I have incorporated feet into my sexual acts, there have been girls who weren't into it and so I respected that.
Now I personally do have photos of some of my female friends' feet. But my friends know about them and are ok with me having them. I am an artist and have asked a couple of them to model for me and I have drawn their feet. The benefit they receive from this is they know where to go to get an amazing foot massage (a couple of them take full advantage of this).
Are you bothered by your friend having these pictures on his phone because you're self-conscious about what your feet look like? Or are you just bothered because he has them and you didn't give him permission? I'm going to say they're most likely on his phone because he likes your feet. Does that bother you? If it does you might want to ask if he'll delete the photos. I may be biased, but I say take it as a compliment... unless he's being creepy about it, in which case be assertive and let him know how you feel.
A quick side note. I love your work in the hacking world. It is good to know someone can stick it to the FBI! Anywho, on to your worldly cares. So you are self-conscious of your feet? I understand being self-conscious. I am the kind of person that, if someone compliments me on something, I immediately think of all the things that are wrong with whatever that person just complimented me on.
For example, if someone says they like my smile, I immediately think of everything that is wrong with my teeth. I don't believe they are being sincere. I become self-conscious.
Dear Anonymous, you must trust that whoever took the pictures, this person definitely finds you and your feet attractive. Congratulations! You should totally play that up! Start wearing nice shoes, start flaunting your feet and legs. Have fun with it and be proud!
Please understand that your friend was certainly not making fun of you. I can promise you that. Guys don't keep pictures of things they don't like or find attractive. Guys are very much visual creatures, visuals really affect us in powerful ways. Take comfort in the fact that you were not being mocked, you were honestly being celebrated.
Unless you have awful feet that you think he would be making fun of, he probably has a foot fetish. It's when a guy derives sexual pleasure by looking at or playing with feet. I realize it sounds far-out but it is out there. Google it.