She sighs and looks at you with sad depressed eyes.
what would you do?
Most men are educated enough to figure out by conception date that the baby couldn't possibly be theirs. Simple math! The girl's projected due date (can be calculated from any sonogram photo or doctor's visit) minus 40 weeks, give or take 7 days. Get a calendar and start counting back. If you two weren't sleeping together that week, guess what? It's not your kid. If a girl slept with three men in three months + me before that, I'd be out. But that's something that will vary from person to person. But staying with someone who is a master manipulator just because you gave them sad puppy dog eyes? That's crazy if you ask me.
Umm, I'm pretty sure the boyfriend would know it's not his kid ling before you told him two years after. Lol.
I would actually kill to give my kid some black genes
Me? I'll tell her I'll be fine, and then make plans to ghost the whole fucking relationship. I won't even let her see it coming. No point of fighting and arguing I figure that it's pointless and I'd only be a complete idiot and fool to continue to hang around her any longer than I had.
Since the kid ain't mines I don't have to be part of this relationship anymore and neither would I be obligated to be around her anymore.
It's just me, if shit like this ever were to happen to me in real life, I'm outta there, you're entirely on your own and I won't even look back once I had ditched you.
Feel very stupid for not noticing both of us are white and the baby was black?
Honestly if this had happened I would have demanded a DNA test asap. It wouldn't take me two years to question if the child was mine if an ex turned up and said she was carrying my child.
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I would break up with her for good, and make it hurt. That's such a young mistake though, getting back with a girl who sleeps around and required a 3 month break up.
Well, let's just realize that I can't get anyone pregnant, haha.
If I was a father, though, I would stay by the child. I've raised it for two years, and it deserves a father, no matter how irresponsible it's mother is.
Seriously? Racist much why does it have to be a black guy
@anonman32 really? You're gonna act like it's not a black guy because it's assumed they aren't liked much. And as the asker said the women has a black man fetish basically? Yeah racist
@anonman32 then why did it have to be a black guy and why say the women basically has a fetish for them
Ah, I would deal with this in a very mature and simple matter. I would just say I need to jump out to buy some smokes and never come back.
Ain't my kid ain't my problem.
This is terrible trollbait, but I'm going to answer anyways. Obviously I would leave her. Not even a second thought.
I don't see why I would be back with them in the first place...
Sounds like she's not into me and i don't actually have a child... i'd GTFO
Leave her, it wouldn't take me two years to realize the baby was mixed
Seems to be the always case of female cheating as usual...
If she likes black guys so much what the heck would she be doing with me in the first place?
Lance Gross (he's anything but) is bae.
Why are there questions like this on GAG about black people? I just don't get it. It's not like black men are aliens from outer space.
It's meant to be racist
@kittycat119 Well, I've only been here for a few months, and already I notice GAG is not a very friendly place for black people, becuase I see very often tons of negative questions about them and no other race.
Yeah I've noticed a spike in it as well
That guy is stunningggggggggggg
I would ask why wasn't i invited to watch or clean up his mess from her being a cuckold
To be fair, that guy is pretty hot.
why should race matter?
Broke up or separated?
Leave obviously.
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