My brother said he wanted to fuck me?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I live with my older brother, he's 29 and I'm 20. Last night came home drunk and talking really crazy to me and being very rude so I decided to ignore him and went to my room. After a few minutes he comes in and he's like "yea, so your just gonna ignore me huh?" and I didn't say anything. Then he starts getting loud talking about how I'm lucky he let me come and live with him and he could just kick me out and blah blah. So yeah that really hurt me because he knew why he couldn't do that so I went off and said I'd leave then the next day and then he laughed.. wtf? And after a few minutes he's like, " you know, I've always wanted to **** you. That would be hot."
I was really weirded out and disgusted so I went to my friends house. Do you think he would remember saying this? Should I say something about it or leave it alone? I can't stop thinking about it it kinda made me cringe. by the way he's said this once before when he was drunk.

[Anonymous]

Lock your room door tonight! Every night!! And escape as soon as possible. Hidden desires like that CAN lead to rape at some point. But walking outside can lead to death so there's no guarantee, but it's just. Enter to be safe than sorry.

Talk about it with him, make him aware, and then leave. My personal opinionz.

[OrangeBoy]

O im sorry things got crazy like that : /
I think he will remember...

Just... try tto move with your life and wait for him to say something :(
Try to be independent as soons as possible, maybe sharing one house with female friends may be better for your psicological confort...

[heemang]

Someone has been watching too much incest porn.
This scenario is very similar to my one friend where her brother sent her a dick pic, but was sober. He asked her if she liked it and she's been kind of out of it ever since, because that's hella disturbing. But, I don't know I would ask him and be like wtf dude.

[mitraT2359]

@heemang... agree

[vonasaurus]

man, that's gross.

unless you have reason to believe that he'll physically harm you, tell him to fuck off. also involve the authorities if he ever tries to act on his drunk "fantasies".

[Sadly_It_Fell_Off]

I would call him out on this.
I understand he was drunk but its intimidating and scary that he would even say it.

[Unit1]

That's a warning for you and you need to get out and find a new place to live without him. He sounds like a dumbfuck.

He has shown his true colors. Take the hint and get out before something else happens.

[Nojudge]

That's incest. Lock or block the door... His behavior was intolerance and plan to move out soon. This is really ugly.

[deraz24]

I would address it when he's sober bc that's weird af, I would try to get out of there some kinda way that's one time too many especially if he said it before, drunk or not

[pooper89]

Wow thats fucked up. Next course of action is to find somewhere else to live

[RainbowFanGirl]

I think he was just drunk and doesn't really want to fuck you. I think you should talk to him about him to make him aware of the things he said to you.

[mitraT2359]

Agree

[Levin]

Sounds like a sociopath. Potentially quite dangerous, if lacking empathy and sees his own sister as someone to use and meet his base/basic needs. Not someone to live with.

[mitraT2359]

Take the hint and ship out before things get out of hand. @RainbowFanGirl has a valid point but I don't think u shud ignore your instinct. If it had made u cringe I am sure it is pointing towards your safety.

[Ninjaturtles99]

That's wrong on so many levels, id confront him about it and possibly start looking for somewhere else to live!

[bunanababa]

talk to him and tell him what happened. always lock your door and if possible just stay with someone else

[Anonymous]

You should confront him about it. Call him out on it and tell him that it made you uncomfortable and you were grossed out. Tell him what the hell is wrong with him and if he needs counseling.

[harleygirl85]

I've been drunk with my brothers and they've never said that to me... sounds like you need a new place to live!!! 😨😨😨

[mitraT2359]

@harleygirl85... agree completely!

[Leifyoubehind]

Yes you should be weirded out and leave if possible and he should be ashamed

[Decentguy]

i think he was just drunk. thats why he said that, he was not in his senses. but if your gut feelings tell you that its wrong, then leave him

[Tdieseler]

Um... ew... blame it on the alch... then remind him of it the next day. That should take his esteem down a notch.

[Mr-Kabuki]

dont bring it up, just move out if possible and defend yourself from this creep

[AleDeEurope]

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[CalebJay18]

hahahahahaha

[Asker]

No veo por qué harías una broma de esto.

[AleDeEurope]

Yo no hablar espanol :/

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

@Asker Porque estas hablando español? No tiene nada que ver con nada. Si esto es halgo tan grave, porque cambiaste de lenguaje? Eso no te va ayudar a solucionar tu problema.

[Anonymous]

He wants to **** you if he has said it more than once

[AlaskaM]

If he's not related (no shared biology) I say, THINK ABOUT IT!!! Whut are the pros vs. cons, really? keep an open mind, its important to remember to maintain that (an open mind) and not limit your thinking/experiences...

[Ly777]

He's climbin in your windows
He's snatchin your people up
Tryna rape em, so you better move out

[Anonymous]

You two have a very odd relationship and I used to fuck almost any with boobs and a pulse but I would never even think of fucking my sister