I suppose I feel a bit naive, because I've always talked to him very openly about personal issues and now wonder if that was even appropriate on my part. But his actions never struck me as being anything past friendly until recently. He touches me more -- not in a sexual sort of way, but things like putting an arm around me, holding my hand, touching my shoulder, that sort of thing. He has told me he loved me, but it didn't seem like he necessarily meant it romantically. I've even spent time with him outside of school before, but again, his intentions could have been purely friendly. Other students tell me all the time how he brings me up in his classes, when he sees me he compliments me on appearance, and so on. I've had creepy older men hit on me before, and I've never gotten the "pervert" vibe from this guy. I respect him a lot.
Is it possible he has feelings for me? The situation has made me unsure of how I feel about him, so I've been avoiding seeing/talking to him lately. Am I taking his actions entirely the wrong way? I connect with him better than any other guy I've met, so if he did like me, would it make sense to pursue him after I graduate? I'm very, very confused - help would be greatly appreciated!
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