Is she jealous I was with another girl, or does she even like me at all?

[Anonymous]

I started working at a restaurant with a beautiful girl. I didn't show that I liked her on first impression, if anything I was nothing short of a gentleman with her. It was difficult to play it cool, and I succeeded in making her feel comfortable with me and letting her know I am genuinely a nice guy with goals, aspirations, hobbies and my own life outside of work. We even discovered we had mutual friends one being her ex-boyfriend lol. We played immature games with each other at work and she seemed to touch me more so than the other waitresses we worked with. She would send me mixed messages like telling me the date of her Prom, or telling me she's going to the movies later on tonight after work, etc. etc. but I still played it cool. But later on down in the road circumstances led me to quit my job and I left almost instantly without getting her number. She found out the next day she came in for work. I knew we would see each other again though, and I was correct. I saw her today at the mall and I was with another girl. She waved at me from afar, but then when she saw my friend, she turned face and didn't even verbally say hi. =( *heart broken*

neways, I guess what my question is,

Is she jealous she saw me with another girl? does she like me? or is she just totally not interested?

[mochamix]

umm, look we don't usually touch people unless we are very comfortable around them, its either we are taking them as best friends or that we are interested in them, I think she's interested and that shows when she turned her head the other way when she saw the other girl, look I know that sounds really weird about us, but even when we are just a little into a guy we would be jealous if w saw him being too nice with someone else, but we are just like that!

i mean I kinda into a guy and when I see this one girl writing over his wall on facebook I go CRAZY ,so that explains why she turned her head the other way, I would suggest you go and ask for her number and be like hey I saw you at the mall you go there a lot huh, and then be like oh why don't we go next weekend or whatever? that should work [=

hope that helps you in any way

[lost-angel]

Yes she got jealous.

She just tried to "play it cool", like you used to do with her.

If you really like her, you know what to do :)

[Asker]

Yea, but we have no contacts with each other. I know her ex-boyfriend and have his contacts, but I don't really talk to him much. Kinda awkward coming back to the same restaurant so soon after quitting too lol.

[lost-angel]

Lol true

go to the resto as a customer...maybe?

[twinkletoes]

She was probably jealous, especially if your female friend was an attractive girl.

If she likes/d you then she probably saw you with the girl and assumed that she was your girlfriend, pretty much killing her hopes of you being with her.

I'm assuming, being that she didn't say hello verbally, that she does/did like you.

Next time you see her, you should just ask her out already.

[sillyflygirl]

Hmm.maybe she had been feeling you out, started to become interested, though her

life had her own diversions. When she saw you with another girl, and you had just left

work(quit) she might have felt that was why. If you are still interested I'm sure you could

find out when her shift times are(by friends)and go and talk to her. I think that it is worth

a try. For that matter, anything you are interested in and is a gain in your life(this case,

at least friendship)is worth it. Good Luck!

[Anonymous]

If I liked a guy and that happened, yes I'd be insanely jealous and avoid approaching him when he's with the other girl.can't really put my finger on why exactly, but it's sort of like I wouldn't want to interrupt whatever they've got going on, and I'd think that since there's something going on with another girl, he wouldn't really want to talk to me.

[melvolley1394]

She totally digs you dude

she got a little bit sad and jealous at the same time because she probably really like you but when she saw you with ur friend she prob thought you 2 were going out

u should go to the restaurant that you were working with her and explain to her y you were with ur friend and then ask her out

she totally digs you and you should go for it! she's waiting for u!