Detoothing? Interesting choice of words.
Well, there are two classic ways girls go about it.
1. "The Bacon"
Have you ever put a piece of bacon in front of a dog's nose? What does the dog start to do? It gets excited, it's mouth waters, all it can think about is eating that bacon. What happens if you give him the bacon? Nothing. He just eats the bacon and wants more bacon. But what happens if you pull the bacon away? He starts to jump! He starts to follow you, you can literally make the dog jump through a million hoops in his quest to get that bacon. Of course, if you make it too hard or give too little encouragement or hope to the dog, it'll just give up.
Now, replace bacon with sex, and dog with man, and you have your first classic routine. If you want the bacon, you're going to have to ____. Or, if you ____, then I might just give you the bacon. It's very empowering, and some guys are actually into it, as in, with their girlfriend and the woman they love. Of course, the reason is because those guys love to make their partner feel sexy and powerful. But for guys who aren't into that very specialized area of S&M, it's very insulting and disrespectful. The way it works is that the guy is being honest, while he thinks the girl is doing the same. He wants to respect her and not violate or push her in any way. So she takes advantage of the circumstances and uses him to satisfy her material desires or needs, while ignoring his sexual desires. See, it's not rocket science.
2. "The Prize"
An other variation of "the bacon" is when a girl instead caters to her man's every desire. She has her man feeling completely emotionally and sexually fulfilled and satisfied all the time. He wants to talk, she talks. He's showing off, she admires & praises him. He's feeling down, she comforts him. He's in the mood, so is she. He's not in the mood, she blows him. You get the idea. What more could any guy ask for? And that's exactly why this routine works. It's a high-risk gambit with a gigantic payoff.
From the guy's POV, where else is he going to find an other girl who treats him like this, or "cares so much about him"? Nowhere. So in his mind, there are no better alternative girlfriends. He has no reason to break up with her, or even want anyone else. And that's where the girl wants the guy; thinking that way. Because as soon as he's completed that way of thinking, that's when the fear of loss starts to kick in. What if I lose her? What if I'm ignoring some desire of hers? And that's when the girl starts to give him small opportunities he's so desperately begging for, to show his love & appreciation to her. Those small requests start getting bigger and bigger, until they go beyond flirting with unreasonable. Even with unreasonable or materialistic requests (or demands); the guy would rather make her happy than risk losing the person who fulfills & satisfies him so completely (her).
:) DON'T SPEND MONEY ON HER - GHEN You DO NOT HAVE TO WORRY NOR DO You LOSE MONEY
i never expect a guy to spend money on me...i like him for him not for his wallet - its not even thought of mine -ever & I am very picky I don't settle but money is not part of the deal.
Simple. Take the money and expensive dates out of the equation and go on simple dates like going to the beach, park, etc. and see how she responds.
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