My boyfriend won't add pictures of him and I to facebook but adds photos of him and other girls?

okay so I have tagged photos of him and he doesn't untag them, so people can see pix of us together. but for some reason he won't upload pictures of us together himself. I don't know why...i feel like maybe it's because I am not skinny anymore. I used to be a size 1 and not I'm a size 8 so maybe that has to do with it? then he ended up going to a rave one day and took pix and he uploaded pix of all his friends, and put his main photo a picture of him and his friend some Asian girl he has not know as long as me...and who is stuck up I have heard. since it was at a rave and we are in California she was dressed in lingerie, they weren't touching each other or anything though she was posing with her hand on her knee bending side ways and he was on the other side of her holding up something to his eye. but she is really really skinny with cute small boobs and is Asian...and I'm white with big boobs and curvy so maybe since she is sexy and exotic do you think he would rather have a pic of him and her than some fat bitch that he is with?

we have been together for going on three and a half years. girls what would you do if your guy wouldn't add pix of him and you together but added pix of him and his girlfriends? (female-friends)

and guys, would you be embarrassed to add photos of your girlfriend if she wasn't really skinny?

*and now I'm a size 8
yay he posted pix of me...i just didn't understand because honestly everyone always says I'm out of his league. well I'm glad he finally put pix up tho =)


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  • Ouch...this is why I never bothered with the 'relationship' status on FB. Some guys might not admit it, but even after being in a long 3 years committed relationship, they still want to look available to other people and not necessarily to just women. It's a guy thing. They want their 'homies' to know they still got their 'game' and posting a pic of him and some other girl while he's in a relationship pretty much proves it. To me, and I'm just saying this from the info I have on here, it looks like he's missing the game. He wants to show that he can still get any girl he wants or that he's still a 'stud'. I can't explain it very well. XD

    It's always best to ask him personally but try not to make it sound like a big deal or freak out about it. They ARE, after all, just pictures. They can't really prove anything. Just let him know how you feel about it. I mean, there’s no need to showcase a relationship on FB and he probably feels that way. Be confident about each others feelings and have fun with it. Guys like to flirt with women even in a relationship just as a bit of a confidence boost. The trick is to be confident about yourself, and know that you can keep your man interested in you…and DO SO. Guys like to feel like they can get any girl they want but chose to be with you instead and feel good about it, just like how some girls like to feel they can choose any guy but chose their guy anyway. It works both as a confidence boost (which can be found attractive) AND makes your significant other feel special.

    So’s either THAT…or he’s a jerk that misses the game and can’t see that what he has with you is special. And if it's the latter...dump his ass and don't waste any more precious years on him than you already have. As for the weight related issue, if you feel like what you call yourself, then do something about it. Not for him, but for yourself, and then let the satisfaction sink in as he watches what he missed out on walk pass by him with her hips swaying and his mouth gaping.

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What Guys Said 7

  • Tisk, stop uploading pictures for him and take all the pictures from his phone next time and then tell him to upload them since its on his phone.

    and no it doesn't mean anything with him and some Asian girl. besides, id go for a kinda plump curvy girl with big boobs then a skinny girl with small t*ts, and if I didn't want to upload pictures of me and you then I wouldn't be in a relationship with you because the only time I wouldn't want to upload pictures is if I wanted to break up or something.

  • Dump him. After being together for 3 and a half years and he doesn't put up pics of the two of you sounds odd . It sounds like he's a bit embarrassed letting people know he's with you. Tell him you have a problem with this situation. You'll most likely have this problem again when your pregnant if you decide to stay with him. Size 8 is not bad at all. Scarlett Johansson is that size. Also size 8 women have the most sex. link

    • I have already been pregnant but want no more kids

  • Maybe he just wana make you jealous always,or maybe doesn't really feel proud 2 v d pic of him and his gf...

  • Have you asked him about it? It could be nothing and he's just oblivious or it could be something and it's really important to talk to him about it.

  • Shame on your boyfriend! That isn't cool of him to post pics with other women on facebook. I would not be embarrased to post pics if my girlfriend wasn't really skinny. Tell your boyfriend to stop being such a shallow hal! He should appreciate you for that great person that you are. Tell him he better clean up his act or you are gunna kick him out the door with your sexy stillettos, lol!

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What Girls Said 15

  • If he can't be bothered to put up pictures of you two OR make you feel like you're the beautiful woman I'm sure you are, he does not deserve you. End of story.

    P.S. The average guy does NOT want some "super skinny" girl. I'm a Size 2-3 and am constantly told by men that I should work on gaining some weight. I envy your curves, so you should embrace them!

    Ditch the loser! <3

  • Just talk to him about it. Tell him how it makes you feel and what you would like to see. He should care enough about you to work on at least some sort of compromise to make you both happy.

    If he doesn't... Loose him.

  • leave him ...chances are he is just holding on to you untill he finds someone else

  • Here is what you do take picture of the two of you and post them on his page and tag him in the pictures. If he delets them then you delet him. It may hurt but it will hurt more if you leave the problem in your head and do nothing about it! I wish you the best of luck!

  • That isn't cool .

    1) you don't add pics of you with the opposit sex on your fb when your taken

    2) size 8 is normal

    3) if he were embarresed, y'all wouldn't be a 3 year couple

    4) If he is embarresed then you deserve better

    5) talk to him about it. It'll bring y'all closer!

    Hope this helps:)

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