Ughh, if I was you, I'd dump his ass. You should be appreciated for all the things you do because that's A LOT of work you've listed there. You need time for yourself - and he should do some of that stuff for you too! This is the 21st century where men and women are equal - and women don't tend to all male needs (I'm sounding so feminist right now - but it's true!). You have to take care of yourself - remember to put yourself above him when you need to. You are his girlfriend, not his maid and for that you should be treated better! If you were to get married I see him as the type to get very possessive and controlling.
But as you are living together - there is some sort of commitment there - but don't think "this is it" because if you're unhappy I'd advise you to get out of there ASAP because you'll be even more attached to the place and to him and it'll be harder to move on. You need to be taken cared of before you can take care of others so do what you think will make you happier :)
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If you know that he's ungrateful and controlling, why are you even with him? If you know that he's not being thankful and appreciated for the things that you do, you can find someone who does. If he's controlling you, than that should be a major sign it's an abusive relationship.
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"When we first moved in together he helped with the cleaning, cooking, etc. Now he don't do sh*t. "
That probably means he was like that all along; not used to doing these things before he met you. He put on a show for you initially, but can't sustain it.
Next time he command you to do such things, tell him "you are old enough to do that on your own", or "you are old enough to take your share of household responsibility", if he argues, say, "instead of growing old only, grow up too".
Tell him that he has to contribute. Put your foot down, don't go out and get him sh*t all the time, make his lunch, whatever. If he still won't then dump his ass.
Sweet and caring? There are ~140 million guys in this country, I'm pretty sure you can find one that is sweet and caring while not treating you like a slave.
You are WAY too nice to this guy...
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