Should I be upset my boyfriend tells other girls their hot via facebook walls and occasionally pokes girls?

[Anonymous]

So I know my boyfriend loves me very much and he is the sweetest guy when he is around me. However, there is a side to him on facebook where he chats it up with other girls. Most of the time its harmless but one time he called another girl beautiful who he doesn't even really talk to and I told him how I didn't like it and he wouldn't do it again. But then I just noticed he commented another girl like last week saying she was hott. In my oppinion I think if your in a relationship you shouldnt be trying to hit on other girls whether its facebook or w/e. Also I went on his facebook (I know creeper ahh. he doesn't know I know his pw- I feel like a crazyperson) but he pokes people that are hott sometimes. I just need a second oppionon from either guys or girls of what you think because I don't know if I'm overreacting or not cause I mean it is facebook .

[martyfellow]

Girls are poking me fairly often on Facebook. A couple of them I know and, unfortunately, I'm certain they're just having a good time. They never act that way in 'real life!'

Facebook is kind of an outlet for people whose lives with kids and such are too tied down for any real flirtations but there's nothing wrong with a little fantasy. Aren't the fantasies usually better than the reality?

Let him and these girls have fun for g.s sake. You can monitor, can't you, if they're actually trying to meet or something like that.

CAlm down and why not try a little harmless FAcebook poking yourself?

[LoveDoctor]

I agree!

[InsomniacDude]

If you see know he's just having a laugh, then leave him be, Because its probably nothing to worry about.

If its upsetting you then talk to him and if you must ask him to stop , if he cares about how you feel then he will.

Sorry if that doesn't help.

[shopacholic618]

you're not overreacting. and it not just facebook. you're his girlfriend, of course it natural to be mad! but again he shouldnt had said or comment another girl that she hot, especially when he is with you! who know, if he is willing to comment other girls on some site, he may had probably hit on other girls behind your back! not that I'm accusing him or anything, but you should talk to him again to get through his head that it isn't ok to do such thing like that. he certainly wouldn't be happy if he see you commenting another guy look. and if he keep doing it, then he doesn't care that he hurting your feeling.

[jaycee777]

I am going through the same thing at the moment and its still a new relationship... he even joked witha girl that if she wants a baby he would give her one... its horrible... and not easy to confront as they think you are prying on their facebook.