Why is he taking it so slow with me? is he even still interested in me?

alexis7
so for the past few weeks I've been talking to this one guy. I met him while I was walking down the street and we ended up going to the same bar that night. we just started talking from there.

he is always super busy with schoolwork so I don't talk to him that frequently during the school week, but we always make an effort to see each other on the weekend. I know that sounds like a booty call, but he knows what kind of girl I am, and respects that I won't give it up right away. in fact, he has only kissed me once since the first night we met!

he didn't text me for a week straight just to see if I would text him, as a type of test, to see how committed I was to getting to know him. he has a bad past with girls taking advantage of him, so he wanted to make sure I wasn't going to be like that.

but it seems that he is requiring that I do a lot of the work now. he invited me over last night to hang out with him and his friends, and I spent the night in his bed, and he didn't even touch me. he didn't kiss me goodbye when I left either.

im so confused about his intentions. he has never brought me on a date, but he still says he wants to see me on the weekends. he acts like he's interested in me, but then he requires that I text him first most of the time, and he doesn't even make a move on me when I'm with him, even if he says all this really cute stuff to me.

is he just taking it slow, and making sure that I am comfortable with how things are going before we take it to the next level?
Why is he taking it so slow with me? is he even still interested in me?
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