I think:
1. Tell you boyfriend not to answer to call when you two together, if there's anything important, she will call you instead ( just tell her that he left the phone at home or not near the phone) , or you can answer on his phone ( to tell her subtle that he is yours). I think she will stop doing this after a while ( pls discuss with your boyfriend first about the situation and how much you worried about her)
2. Tell her that you heard your boyfriend told you that she's a good cook, if oneday she has a chance, can she cook for you too, or you and him together ? ( will see if she wants to serve you too). I know this is not very nice but you need to be the boss and know how to control the situation
3. Put picture of you with your boyfriend in a few places in the house where she can see
4. Still be nice to her, and tell her how much you appreciate her to be a very good room mate and your boyfriend business partner
5. As soon as you and your boyfriend show her how strong your relationship is, she will step back
Just a few things that I can think of, Good luck!
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You should just tell your boyfriend that he needs to talk to her and tell her to back off. Coming from you she'll just feel like she's winning and that you're jealous of her. However that's not the case, you just want her to show some respect to you. Coming from him however, she'll have to get the hint and she'll probably feel a lot stupider about what she's been up to.
Also you should definitely plan on living elsewhere when your lease is up. The less time the two of you spend with her the better.
Unfortunately people are crazy, I had a weird situation with my fiances MOTHER. I would say try to distance yourself as much as possible, and try to be out with your man as much as you can. If you guys are thinking about engagement, you trust him & wouldn't think he'd cheat, and you guys love each other then everything will be okay, and try not to let it bother you so much. Stick in there!
warn your boyfriend and see his reaction...if he plays the friend card, he's gonna cheat on you in the near future...if he doesn't realize what's going on, then you need to get the proof to prove it before things go south
get out of that place and tell her boyfriend that other than business you don't want him seeing her. From sound of this behavior you would not be asking to much
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Lol. My ex’s roommate was into me I guess. We never did anything very bad but I did find her nudes on MY computer once. I think they uploaded by accident. But I’d jackoff to those a lot when I was with my ex. I was attracted to the roommate too. We did end up having a fling after the ex and I broke up. We never actually had sex because she said she could no that to her friend but we’d get naked and fool around. Be careful though! If I was a cheater and that girl was into it I would have cheated. But I’ve never cheated on anyone. But we had some hot nights prior to all that that drove me crazy about this chick. Caught her having sex once. We’d both seen each other nude multiple times... those feels can get going sometimes in that environment...
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Tell your roommate that she needs to back offI think that you should just be straight forward with him.
What are his thoughts on all this?
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