Do you like it when a man takes control?

[danndan6]

I guess there are two questions in this. do you like it when a man takes control, and do you like it when a man takes control of you. I hear so much about womens liberation and "oh, I am a modern woman, I don't want a man making decisions for me" yet women also say that it is so attractive in a man who can take control. so what will it be?

[Anonymous]

I don't know what it would feel like to have a man make decisions for me, but I do not think that I would be able to handle it very well. I do what I want, and, more importantly, I trust in what I want. It's not that I don't want a man telling me what to do. I just don't feel that I need a man to tell me what to do. If I do need help, I'll let him know. This has absolutely nothing to do with me being a woman. It has more to do with me being a person... =)

Having said that, there is a certain level of attraction that I feel towards a man who can take control of a situation. It's a sexy quality. I do not think that there is really a contradiction here. It's all about balance.

[toulouse]

I think its attractive when people are in control of themselves and are mature and open minded about working problems out. I do not think its attractive when they try to control others. I think you may be confusing 'control of yourself & the situation, with 'control over others, over the situations.

Everyone likes to be in control of their environment. Everyone like other people to be in control as well.

[sweet_18]

Yeah I think it's sexy to an extent. I mean, I want to make my own career choices and what-not.

[socalgamehater2006]

ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm that's pretty much why us guys always or usually have to be the ones to initiate

[sikoo31]

its a preference thing man, depends on the girl.

[Yousra]

As long as he's not possessive, it makes me feel safe.