Seducing a Male Coworker?

[Anonymous]

Hey, I want to seduce my male coworker. I don't want a relationship, I basically just want to sleep with him. Any ideas?

[mikewnaz]

this could turn into disaster for you. but since you're asking...

does he flirt with you? does he talk about his wife around you? how would you feel if his marriage broke up after you had sex with him?

i think these are questions you need to ask yourself to decide if you want to proceed further,

id go with the less direct route. I would ask him for advice on a dating situation and see what he says. tell him that there is a guy that you're dying to sleep with and that you feel horrible cause you just want to have sex with him.

if he is willing to talk to you then id be like I feel comfortable talking to you because you're an older man and I think you'd have a good opinion for me but if you don't want to discuss it with me then we can just drop it.

if he won't talk with you about it there is a clue to move on. if he does tell him how you want the guy and how you want him to take you. tell him that its been awhile since you got laid good and you need it...if it hasn't lie to him.

if he makes advances or flirts then react to it. but id pick a early point in the conversation to move the conversation outside of work.

once you get him outside of work id make it a really hot conversation. sit at a bar where you can see his pants to see if he has a bulge in his pants. once you have him turned on ask him if he would take you to a motel and f*** you. tell him that you don't want his number or anything, make it clear you don't want to screw up his marriage. tell him that you're in the mood and need it and if he wants you that you're all his. tell him he can take you up on your offer now or later.

if he wants to fire you for this advance, ask for a transfer or beg him to term you as if you quit by just leaving or moving since you're totally embarrased and contrite.

you need to decide if getting f***ed by this guy is worth losing this job. you may decide that you want to f*** another guy somewhere else by just asking. say you see a server for instance and think he is cute. give the server you're number and see if he'll take you to dinner...then make sure he takes you home and f***s you.

what state are you from?

[mikewnaz]

i should note that I don't agree with what you want and think it could harm you or him. I think that if he f***s you so good that you go crazy you might want more. it may make work odd, and if he says yes you may want to see if he wants you to quit and he can do you on the side. I'm just telling you how you can pull it off in my opinion, and by reading his body cues and reactions you can decide to go how far. you may talk with him and decide to not admit that he is who you desire.

[Night4lover]

Defiantly he doesn't want to risk situation, make friends with him and be up front. Sooner or later he will see that you are open to him. Still the best thing is to talk about hookups and stories about sex until he has more will. Now if he does work with you it'll be real. Just say, you need to lay the hammer down over here.

[SugarLeaf]

Well, I was just wandering here but your situation looks quite like mine.
Since you know he is also interested in you, I'd tell you to try things like I did. Go have lunch with him and his colleagues, than wait for a day you two happen to be alone, you can be more direct. Tell him how elegant he is, and see how re reacts, than , even if it's risky, you can tell him you had a dream with him. In my case, *he told me that. He is not my supervisor, through he is almost on his 40's. I don't know if you want it to be just a one night stand or something that lasts longer. When you already have him on your hand, I sugest you to talk via something like dontpad. com, so noone is ever gotta know with whom you are talking.
To tell you the truth, now I'm sex friends with my coworker, but I'm actually seeking for another guy there.

[jellybaby323]

Okay now your main goal is to just sleep with the guy. Now if you suduce him and he really likes you, you could loose your job if you sleep together and just ditch him. Why don't you just flirt with him a lot and see if you can make a relationship out of it. Otherwise just don't bother, you'll just end up hurting him.

[Asker]

He's my supervisor, so I can see how losing my job would be an issue. I don't think he would want a relationship, he's married.

[jellybaby323]

Well him being your superviser clearly poses a major issue, you should probably just let your urges go and maybe try hitting on somebody outside your workplace like maybe a guy that serves you at a cafe or something

[Paris13]

DON'T DO IT!!!
If it Fails... You still have TO FACE HIM ON THE JOB. xx

[Voltaire]

Free, no strings attached sex? Not exactly a hard sell.

[Asker]

I know its not that difficult. And I know he's interested. But he won't make a move and I've never had to make the first move before.

[Voltaire]

Just ask him if he wants to grab something to eat after work. Should be a natural progression from there.

[Ilvmycountryman]

Well...
Does he have a girlfriend or a wife