Do you think it is wrong to go to the club without your bf?

virgin_eyes911
Ok I'm 19 I like to have fun...I don't like to be controlled nor do I like being told what to do. I'm not a robot nor am I a dog. A few weeks ago some of my longtime gf's asked me to come with them for a girlsnight. I said yes. and then I told my boyfriend about the girls night and he said something along the lines of well fine I'll go out too, why would you go to the club what else is there to do other then meet other guys. I'm not like that and truthfully the whole night I was there I did nothing but dance and decline dances with guys that were not my boyfriend. Not only that but he texted me every few min with what are you doing "Dancing Duh". Its really my first real relationship and so I now know next time I go out I'm definitely going to tell him that I'm going to a club, tell him when I get there and then my phone is going off.

I just think every girl should have space from her guy and since I'm not a clingy person I make that clear every time I'm with him.

Then his words are "its not that I don't trust you I don't trust other men..." Then I'm just like well damn if I refuse I doubt any of them will try to rape me with a whole group of friends.

Anyway another girlsnights is coming up with one of my co-workers and really I relationship has been fine since then...and even though I don't want anything such as lies to get in the way. I don't want to tell him "Hey I'm going to the club again" but I will end up doing this.

But do you think its wrong to go without him.

In his previous relationship of 2 years his girlfriend cheated on him with his best friend and so I suppose that's why he has jealous tendencies..but like I said I'm going to do what I want when I want and as long as I'm not cheating I don't see a problem with doing so.
Do you think it is wrong to go to the club without your bf?
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