He hasn't answer my question yet?
Do you guys think I was to harsh on him, or was it just enough to make myself clear?
I think that if he was joking it was a stupid joke or if he did that to make you jealous or come off as a ladies man, it was a stupid move, so you were right to get pissed off at a stupid f***ing joke, also, who takes 5 hours to text back anyways? and him saying that sh*t about having sex and then a relationship was a stupid thing to say player or not, this guy if he made his moves right could have sacked you even before a relationship occured, but anyways ask him how serious he wants to be with you and that you don't like playing games and if you find out that he is then you will cut him out completely, then in a relationship and hold off on the sex and see how he reacts, if he gets pissed let him wee his pants about it.
its a joke, understood, but some jokes aren't meant to be said. its like if your boss jokingly said "hey you are fired today" even though he turns around and bes like "haha just joking" anyone would be like, f*** kinda joke is that? if this guy is serious about you why even put doubts into your head like that?
i thnk you guys are after two different things at this point in your lives
No, I don't think you were too harsh on him. You have standards and told him what they were. Regardless of whether he was joking with the other girls' names or not, he should answer your question honestly so you can decide whether he's worth your time or not. If he can't say he's ready for the monogamous commitment of a relationship, that's fine, but you don't have to settle for it if you don't want to.
You made yourself clear. Dating isn't a relationship. I'm in a relationship with a boy who also believes you can't have a relationship without sex. I felt differently and wanted to wait. Unfortunately he pressured me into it sooner then I would have liked. Honestly I would say let him go because I don't see him becoming what you want in your life.
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