She gives me a lap dance, but doesn't want me to touch her?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend gave me a lap dance yesterday (her idea) and it was hot as hell. She did great, considering she had never done that before (she dances in her free time, but not that kind of dance obviously) The much I loved it, she wouldn't let me touch her. wtf? I know your not allowed to touch when a professional does that, but with your girlfriend? In the end she just gave me blue balls, which was a bit unpleasant, so why is she doing this.

[sarahh_12]

Dude, it's called teasing. That's what us women have when it comes to men. We can tease and tease and make you want more and more, until you really can't control yourself. That's why she did it. The look of pleasure but agony all at the same time, on a guys face, is like eating a piece of delicious candy. She had control, she liked it, and she wanted more of it. It's a good thing. And considering it ended in sex, you got what you wanted, that's all that matters. I don't understand why you're complaining. I don't know any other guy that would bitch about this.

[sexykim17]

i've done that before. its fun to have all the control. just enjoy and know you'll get to touch later!

[stewartdent]

Would let you touch at all, or during?/have you had sex with her before?

[Asker]

no not at all during it and we didn't do it before either. We did have sex afterward but appearently she really enjoyed it so she went on for like 20 min and it was just too long

[Anonymous]

Maybe it was just to rev you up for what's yet to come. Building tension, so to speak.

[Anonymous]

Aww that's cruel lol, I do the same with my boyfriend, and I tell him not to touch me, but he always grabs me and touches me, which I find really hot, and we end up having sex :P