Dude don't be a f***ing homo. Life isn't all about happy good fuzzy feelings and running away from sticky situations. It's okay to get humiliated and be the butt of a joke sometimes: as long as the people making the joke don't hate your guts but are your friends. I doubt any of these guys hate you or are doing this with malicious intent. They're checking to see if you're the type of guy that can keep his confidence and chin up when put in a humiliating situation.
It's all about having a good time man. Just relax and don't let the situation turn you into a floppy vagina. Because they'll notice and think you're too girlish and sensitive to join their male organization.
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If your afraid of a video ending up on the Internet then you should really think...is anyone really going to see it. I have never seen such a video or even thought about search for frat initiation videos. None of my friends have mentioned to watch a video like that nor do they watch them.
My advice, don't bring it up to them because it will just make them want to do it. Just go through with it and enjoy it. Don't make it look like your having a bad time or else they'll just keep bothering you throughout the night. Enjoy it but don't enjoy it to much. Go with the flow
I've heard of some pretty bad hazing before, but remember that he could also being telling you this to scare you. Hazing rituals also change a lot over time. At my school, hazing can get the frat kicked off campus, so they keep it pretty hush hush. Only the frat brothers see it. If they were to do that kind of thing in front of 2 different sororities with cameras, it would surely get out. Things have changed since 1999, I doubt it will be anything that serious.
Wear something funny, impress people with your sense of humour, and make light of the situation! Honestly if you don't act like you're embarrassed or self-conscious, NOBODY will care that you're in your undies. If you get a few laughs out of the guests then so much the better. Take it in your stride. You only get to do this once, so don't make it a regret :) Good luck with the initiation!
Gah, I would never humiliate myself in any way for anything or anyone! .. I was never in a sorority before though , what do you gain from this ? is it really worth all this ?
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Personally I would turn it around on them and make a joke out of it. Wear a man thong.
Another reason why I would sarcastically say to someone, "Great group of people you're hanging out with". If its discomforting for you, don't do it.
You'll never hear the end of it now, for the next year or so, but you won't lose jobs in the future because of someone's humiliating twitter, Facebook, YouTube, etc.
i think you should do it! just walk around with confidence and act like its nothing.
big whoop you'll be in your underwear so will others. just don't sweat it, you'll do fine.Will you please take your ridiculous shame fantasies to a p*rn site, or somewhere more appropriate?
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