What's wrong with you knowing her page?
Sounds fishy. It's sort of in the realm of not knowing her Facebook, ya know? It's not a big deal and every tumblr retard I know tries to tell everyone to follow them cause they're dumbasses who think it's a competition.
I'm normally against online accounts having such an influence on relationships, but this is something you should probably bring up...even if it won't end well. Doesn't sound like it'll end well either way to be honest
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Ewww...snooping like this will not end well.Doing this only bring up trust issues.I don't know mch about Tumbler,but I do know if my boyfriend did that,i might not want to be with him anymore.Youre lacking trust.She is with YOU so what's the problem exactly?Im not sure what to say concerning this only that it may backfire.
I'm sorry, I guess I'm not sure what the problem is with his religion... Could you explain? Is this guy dangerous? If she's happy, then why not just let her be happy with this guy? I can certainly relate to wanting to be with guys from my own faith, since we'd have more in common spiritually.
if she's your girlfriend and she's very trusting, then trust her back and just drop it. They could have been friends in the past or whatever and they were catching up. I would def not anonymously reply because that could eventually blow up in your face. If she keeps posting about this guy, then maybe say something. But for now, just let it be. After all, she is allowed to have her own (male) friends, and at the end of the day, she's is with you, not him.
If I were you I'd really want to know how she feels about this guy. I'd do a little snooping, learn more about this guy about this guy and their past. Then I'd snoop around on her tumblr. But you need to play your cards right and keep from being caught and from her figuring out it's you. If you were sneaky enough you'd figure out this guy's name and make a "temporary' account under his name and she how she reacts with this person. Good Luck!
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Uhm I think you should tell her the truth about you finding her tumblr account and telling her you read all her statuses, she might not talk to you like she used to but she "might" decide to trust you again. It seems that she likes this guy more than she likes you because of his religion.
She's clearly not as into you as you are into her.
I would say start to emotionally detach from her, get ready to dump her or to be dumped, and keep looking at her tumblr. Don't post on it. And start looking for that next girl friend.
Then when the time is right, dump her and walk away. You don't even have to tell her why. Just dump her and walk.
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