He noticed my butt-sweat at the gym and acts weird. So embarrassed :/

[Anonymous]

OMG, Throughout the whole treadmill workout I had NO IDEA WHATSOEVER that I had a large wet patch on my butt area as a result from sweating. I was not wearing sweat proof gym pants, just normal black cotton tights. :/

This fit guy at the counter used to always check me out. This time he looked and leaned over staring at my ass, gullibly and STUPIDLY I thought he was checking me out but once I saw that wet patch as I passed the changing room mirrors? MY GOSH I literally hid myself from everyone and quickly got changed. The guy at the counter now avoids smiling, talking or looking at me, it's ridiculous, because every time he acts that way, it reminds me of that embarrassing moment. He still checks me out but still avoids me.

I was so embarrassed but figured that it was normal, so I didn't bother worrying about it too much. Too bad for him, I don't care.

Please tell me that butt sweating is perfectly normal? Worst humiliation EVER

P.S That was the last time I wore non-sweat proof pants LOL and the guy checked me out the other day because I've lost weight, however that incident still kills me and he, yeah acts weird. :/

OH WHO CARES! lol

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And yes people I have indeed moved on. I'm halfway to my weight loss goal which is ever more important than an idiot at the counter who does not like sweat lol

But thanks for your contribution :)

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Thanks guys for all your input :) I feel better now :)

[aMuse]

He probably acts weird around you because you are self conscious and acting weird when you are around him. You over thought what happened and now it bothers you and shows. He probably doesn't know what is up with you lately, but you seem off. You are acting weird so he's avoiding you. He's avoidance of you is probably due to your on anxious behavior, not the but sweat incident.

[Asker]

Nope, I never act weird around him, HE initiates the behavior . So yeah he's got the issue not me. Too bad haha. It was a one-time natural biological mistake, I ain't taking any regrets. :)

[Guyswillbguys]

Let it go... If that bothers him and keeps him from talking to you...its his loss. What? No one sweats anymore? He's not worth it...move on to someone who appreciates your efforts at taking care of yourself.

[Asker]

Thank you :). And yes I've let it go now, ever since losing weight I'm getting more confident and if he thinks he can check me out again, ummm NO lol

But thank you.

[biancaitian]

That's nothing. You're too young to experience something really humiliating.

If you take it seriously, it's a big deal. If you don't care, it's nothing.

[Asker]

Thanks for this, and yes I've gone past it, honestly. I just go and do my workout, he doesn't matter anymore lol

[princess311]

haha go up to him and be like so you like my butt sweat I seen you looking at me!

[Asker]

haha this answer made me chuckle LOL

yeah he's a prick, oh well, gotta move on :)

[princess311]

haha I thought it would lol that what lifes all about! be happy and fine domeone to share it with!

[marucs254]

Oh yea butt sweat is normal, if your not sweating there is something very wrong. I would say he has the issue if he avoids you because of that. he works at a gym for f*** sake what does he expect?

[Asker]

Thanks for this. And yes I know, it's driving me insane. Perhaps he's the shallow type and expects 'healthy' girls who go to the gym to NOT sweat AT ALL. Ridiculous.

[naturenotfreak]

If he's still is checking you out then he still likes what he sees!

And women sweat in just as awkward of places as men do, so there's no foul there.

Just an unfortunate situation.

(Hope it all works out for you)

[Asker]

Thanks for this, and although it was excruciating at first, I've moved on from it, I don't care, I need to lose weight and its working :)

Poor him to still keep looking. lol

[MrEM4N]

Body sweat on fit chicks is fine, doesn't matter where it's at. Butt sweat on overweight people I don't find attractive is gross.

I don't see why the sweat would matter. You're at the gym, it's supposed to get sweaty.

[Asker]

He probably found it gross because it was my butt area? lol I mean cmon, guys would get grossed out

[MrEM4N]

Nope. I've seen attractive women with sweat going down their pants before. I've never thought it was gross. The gym is the one place you get to look hot and sweaty besides the bedroom.

[Asker]

Wow really? I'm not overweight, I have a sporty build but I do have a big ass in which I am trying to lose. So when THAT happens, sweat from my ASS it is even more humiliating. But yeah its OK, I'm losing weight so I'm happy. I just thought guys found sweat gross.

[MrEM4N]

Nope. Sweat isn't gross to me. I expect you to be sweaty at the gym. If you weren't I'd think you aren't working out hard enough.

[Asker]

Oh I see. ...cool that makes me feel wayyy better lol

[princess311]

i was going to befriend you but I don't know how so you can add me if you would like

[Anonymous]

Haha that's unfortunate, I'd say it's normal though, you were just working so hard!

[Asker]

Thank you :) And yes I was working my 'butt' off lol

[geefor]

Personally I find it natural and beautiful to experience sweat from a girls bum. It's very womanly and erotic.

[BeMuse]

You sound crazy...

[DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999]

Very strange