Hey,
This happened to me a few times in college surprisingly enough. It was with girls from my past and/or girls that did not work out primarily because I got bored with all the games. The "bumping" behavioral pattern implies the girl/guy wants to be around said person. Personally, I originally thought it was very flattering, but after a while it gets bothersome. If I'm not interested, I ignore the girl if she keeps "bumping" into me over and over because I do not want to hurt her feelings. I figured over time she'll find someone new and forget about me (life is short!). If I was interested I would greet her and strike up a conversation. Staring is tricky to deduce primarily because it depends on "how" that person looked at you. Were they angry? Alarmed? Curious? If you want a guys attention, just say something nice. If he's interested he'll respond back. For the most part, women are naturally attuned towards the social arena more so then men are. Trust your intuition girl!
Hope this helped!
- Some random dude
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No would not think she is staking me but I would think that she likes me,and if I liked her I would talk to her ,hug her and touch her hair or smell her hair e.t.c I would not think she is weird I would be most impressed and get a big ego.
IF I I was annoyed and did not like her I would just ask her why she is following me,and still listen to what she has to say.
IF I stare at a girl from a distance and I like her if she looks at me back a will look away straight away,or just smile if she smiles at me.
But just talk talk to him and don't be shy...
you more than likely have sum sort of fasination with her talk to her it never did anyone anyharm just walk up to her and say hey.
makes you feel better if you spot her in the corridor.. like I'm doing a server on school uniform do you agreee with it or what evers but trust me with the sounds of things you should just talk to her ... You never know you may end up friends or find a likeness in each other
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there are plenty of people you bump into at school on sveral occassions but if this one particular person keeps catching ur eye you may be attracted to each other ...
she likes you and is trying to get your attention. its a lame way to do it but still...she is trying.
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I think it depends on
A.) how big is the school
I its a small school (like mine) I can bump into the same people 5 times a day accidently
B.) say anything?
Its possibility that she is trying to make an opening for herself to start a conversation.
depends she not a wierdo tho lol...just possibly really clumsy. That would be the way I would think about it.if I was being followed by a girl, id probably confront her about it, its creepy when a person follows you, not saying anything, ya know?
and why do we stare from afar? just means we think you look good, but we are afraid to approach you, so we keep a good distance as to not be "too close for comfort"Its, not really weird she probably just has feelings for you or accidentally bumped into you. It's the school flirting phrase basically when quiet kids flirt. This happened to me before, it's not really annoying but it flatters me. If I had interest in her I wouldn't move away.
Really, at some point, one of you has got to say something... Like, "Hey!" =D
maybe she likes you and is doing it in a playful way,im assuming you're not reacting so she's probally still doing it in hopes to get your attention.
i would think that mabey she was trying to bump into me because she likes me
id most likely think that its because we go to the same school, unless she interacts with me on every occasion, then I may think that they like me
b/c: maybe she likes me, and I'm not so sure if I like her.
Other: "Maybe she likes me." (Fingers crossed.)
i agree with a lot of people. maybe she like you
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