Its because getting in fights actually hurts, and it sucks.
I do martial arts as well, and what you learn in class is a LOT different from an actual fight, I've sparred with guys who are twice my size (with equipment) and its fun in a controlled environment, but I would not want to fight ANYONE.
Using your wit to disarm a person is a much smarter strategy then getting into a fist fighting them.
Females are attracted to 'protectors' because we make them feel safe.
I think you should stop yourself when in a fight if the other person says they are done, or you've ripped one of their bones out and they are on the ground just screaming in pain.
Here is my theory on fighting, although it isn't mine.
"Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far"
-Theodore Roosevelt
Basically be willing to fight someone, and act like you will f*** them up if they want to fight,
but try to get out of it, and don't go around challenging people to fights.
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Its because girls don't want their boyfriends to get hurt. Sure we want to know that the guy can defend himself and us should he need to, but if it is possible to prevent the guy from getting hurt, we want to prevent it. We don't want to see a guy get injured. Its just nice to know that the guy can protect himself and protect us if it is necessary. If its not necessary, a fight should not happen. A guy should not get into a fight just because he can defend himself. Its immature and if the guy is our boyfriend it puts a lot of stress and worry on us.
we want a guy who can hold his own in a fight, and protect us, but would never want him to actually fight unless he had to. we don't like to see our men get hurt... part of our female instincts...
I would stop someone if it was over something stupid... I mean you gotta pick your battles... I'd try and stop it before someone actually gets hurt... unless someone really needs their ass kicked... haha
honestly it scares me
like what if something bad happens, what's the other guy gonna do, etc.
i do want to have that feeling that you can protect me
but don't get into any unnecessary fights
or any fights if you can help it.
We do like the fact that he's willing to fight but we don't want to actually see anyone get hurt. There's really no fun in that...having to deal with the cops and ambulances and whatnot.
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