how many of you were drunk and kissed someone you knew before but have absolutely no feelings for or someone who you just met?also why? just because you were horny or drunk or haven't had someone in a long time?
just curious :D
and did your feelings for this person change afterwards?
DEFINITELY. I kept pretty busy back in college, haha. I had three girls just randomly walk up to me and we just started making out with no words exchanged. probably my top 3 ego-inflating moments, hahaha. I had a few more kiss me while dancing. most of the rest were just at parties and it was part of the trying to get laid process. usually some dumb small talk and you've forgotten each others' names by the time you get to kissing. "hey, let's both pretend this isn't just based on physical attraction even though we don't know each other from a can of paint." but I never saw most of those girls again. just a little excitement for both of us, and then go about our business afterward. I never kissed anyone "just because", personally. I have a pretty high physical standard, so I definitely always "wanted to." but it wasn't usually with any long-sighted intentions either. it was always a play it by ear deal.
I've never initiated it before, never felt like doing it either, but one time this girl tried to make out with me (who was obviously drunk), I wasn't particularly interested so I withdrew myself from her.
wel I've had girls kiss me when there drunk, and yeh changed my opinion of them, I always stupidly think that they like me after kissing me right until the next day when you get a text APOLOGISING for the kiss. that's when you know your in the friend zone lol
Yup..though some girls kissed me like that in clubs sober too LOL. But ya, once you're drunk, you don't really care about anything in the world. So you end up doing stupid things like that. But in general, I try very hard to not make a fool out of myself. In the 3 years that I've occasionally started drinking alcohol, I've not yet passed out/vomited. I've always limited myself. So I personally haven't made ridiculous moves, but I feel like I would if I were in the right situation.
my girlfriend kisses her friends on the cheek mainly when she is drunk and random people at parties and bars only girls if it wasn't for me she'd probably make out with dudes kinda annoying and I do get jealous when she kisses her friends especially in front of me.
Yeah, it happened to me a couple of weeks ago! It was a person I knew for months beforehand and I had absolutely no feelings towards him. I don't know why we kissed, but I guess it was that we were outside, alone, and I thought he's kinda cute and it just happened. I definitely wasn't looking to make out with anyone drunk! And yeah, my feelings did change afterward because I'm totally into him now.
I've only ever kissed one person while drunk, and he was my friend. I did have feelings for him, though. I got pretty thrashed at a college party earlier this semester and he was there and I kissed him. I did not remember it at all the next day, but he drove me home that night and back the next day to get my car. During the drive he told me that I kissed him and I was so shocked. I kept apologizing and apologizing and he kept telling me that it didn't count because I was drunk. I was MORTIFIED. So I'll never get drunk around a guy I like ever again.