What is her issue with me?
Me and this girl got really close over these past six months. We work together at a small part time job so I have known of her for the past year and... Show More
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Do move on. You treated her respectfully, kindly, and selflessly. Once she felt insecure a tiny bit, she started showing her true colors. She doesn't have any problem with you, no matter what she says. She's just insecure and needy. She liked the emotional support and the self sacrifice you gave her. But for it to work she needs to sacrifice her selfishness, too, and she's not ready to do that.
Don't blame yourself. You truly didn't do anything terrible to her, but she does want to manipulate you for attention, devotion, and affection. So don't give those to her. Treat her as respectfully as you always have and continue to be kind and wise about interacting with her. But don't pursue her. You've already done that and she let you know that she'll only accept you as long as she can control you. A healthy relationship needs two people willing to give themselves and display honesty, caring, and selflessness. In this situation there's only one of you.
She will make your life more miserable if she suspects she's lost total control of you, and she may come crawling back with what seems like a sweet innocent girl. But it won't last because that's not all of her. Do both of you a favor and find someone who is mature and who will treat you with the respect you must have a good relationship.
What Girls Said 4
She seems like she playing with your feelings and mind, I would say
Move on and ignore her, she seems like the type who's desperate
Hey, you know what your idea sounds better than mine..thats a great idea that's probably what she's needs.. :-) good job see you didn't really need my help... ;-). You know her and you know what she needs...give her some attention positive attention, but I would still let her know what's really good tho eventually, just so she don't take your kindness for weakness in the future you know...but you know when the time is right for that so no rush..just start off slow big hug and kiss for now works.
She likes you and fustrated about your non reciprocating feelings...
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