Why do good men get trashy ass women and good women get dogs?

yep that's my question. what is going on with people nowadays why they cheat when they found a good bf/ girlfriend ? why ? I don't get it. it makes... Show More

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  • Let's leave aside specific counter-examples for a moment - like one partner cheated because they thought the other partner cheated first, or something.

    In general, exceptions aside... People who cheat, do not need a good or bad partner to cheat.

    The quality of their partner is not usually relevant to the cheater.

    The cheater cheats because they have a problem with monogamy, not with their partner.

    If you don't understand this, then if you're cheated on you may forever question yourself wondering what you did wrong, or what was wrong with you.

    Now sure, there are counter examples - but I think in those cases, the issue is that the person was driven to cheat - for example the wife stops having sex with the husband, won't go to counselling, refuses to admit there's a problem.. and this drives him to cheat and seek sex elsewhere.

    Those cases tend to be rare, but in those cases the women make the man into a dog. (Or vice versa.)