sociopaths know how to get what they want...they mimic the emotions to manipulate people and can lie about anything and everything and most likely do for no reason...if there's any truth in what they say its very little...not knowing who you really are could make it difficult to give decent advice...but if I had to form an opinion of you just by the words you've said so far...i would say your are just a tad judgemental...and I would also have to say your the type of guy that would go to far and forget your around a girl...example:a girl playfully splashes you with water...you get a bucket and soak her...she throws a snow ball at you...you throw one purposefully in her face with a ton of strength...I just think you need to pay attention when girls are around...watch other guys interact with them...realize the difference between how girls work and how guys work...human nature...you'd still find a girl without doing any of that...but a girl is only going to take so much...no one wants to be with someone who would be a better match with themselves...but like I said I don't know you and I'm only going off of what you've said so far...
You can't have any game and have very high standards?
In my opinion untrue as you can have any standards you want whether you have game or not. Whether you'll attain those standards are a toss up however likely they can be attained via prostitutes, escorts, and mail order brides.
I have trouble taking this guy seriously because he is a sociopath and a drug abusive loser, but he does get a lot of women somehow. I guess people really are that retarded?
Likely he's attractive, high status, interesting, appealing, or fun to be around and in my opinion most people are inclined to pursue someone with negative traits if the positive traits outweigh or match them.
Well.. I don' tknow how you are as a person.. but if you are socially awkward or NEVER talk to girls well... then your gonna have less chances but still. in your life your gonna come across a lot of females whether by happen stance, work or college so eventually you will meet a girl that you could possibly develop a relationship with..
Its sad that a drug abuser gets woman but usually those are the kind of woman that you may not be missing out on much lol if they're hanging out with this guy .. I mean that's a blanket statement but... yeah
And plus... just be yourself.. keep your standards.. if you wanna lower your standards go ahead... but in the end you may feel empty when things don't go your way and you don't get what you want then you would of wished that you kept those standards and yoru character..
Guys can be hot and still have character... just be yourself honestly... that's all it is.. BE YOURSELF!
Keep your standards! I did and I haven't regretted it. I still haven't found anything near mr. Right but in situations where I've been in doubt and decided not to go with the 'under-my-standards' guy I've later been relieved that I didn't do anything.
You might not want to listen to your brother's friend assessment of you. He may get a lot of girls but that doesn't mean they are the type of girls most guys want in the long run. You don't need a lot of game if you are comfortable with yourself. As far as having high standards I don't know what you're standards are but I would suggest not always judging a book by its cover (i'm not saying you do that but just in case I thought I would add it). Your brothers friend is dating short term girls which yea I'm sure is fun but there is something to be said about finding long term girls. But to really sum up the answer to your question yes people really can be that retarded.
You are judging him for his poor choices, however, what does his poor choices have to do with him getting laid, and you not ? One doesn't have to be a drug-e to get laid. However, He has people skills, which probably is a reason why he knows who to go to for drugs, and can talk them into bed. He has some ability, but not much analytical ability. Try not to be too hard on yourself, although he may have a point, I can't judge him, I don't know him.