It is becoming a lot more common for people to have a lot of acquaintances, get on well with everyone, be well known etc but have no deeper connection to people. I would have no issue with a guy/girl that has no friends as sometimes things happen in life, like people moving, having families, priorities changing, career focus etc. But for someone to not have any friends because they believe everyone has their own agenda so what's the point in developing a friendship, then I would question how would he develop a relationship with me. I don't need to develop a friendship first with a guy, in fact it has never happened but a relationship requires trust, communication, honesty, mutual respect amongst many things and a guy who sees no point in relationships of any kind is not for me.
I lost my friends when I stopped partying and then I realized that's what our entire friendship was founded on... I got sober and then I became passionate about bettering my life, my health, etc. They were not supportive, and I had to move on, I think once I settle down with my dream job I will make friends and those friends I may not hang out with all the time and go to the movies but they will deeper and more real friendships, anyways I will always be happy by myself... I rather have no friends than fake friends, I am not awkward either, I socialize with people wherever I go, I hang out with my family often that's all.
Honest answer? I don't think it's necessarily weird, but people (mostly a girl's friends or parents etc.) will tell a girl that it's a "red flag" if she doesn't meet, or know of a guys friends. In a lot of cases it IS a red flag, because the guy can't keep friends, is a jerk, etc. However, it sounds like in your case, it's fine. I guess what I'm telling you is the generalization that people tend ot make about it, from a woman's POV
It's usually the crazy ones who have to explain they're not crazy...
jk man lol
I think a lot of girls are going to find that strange. Hell I find it strange. Are you really that skeptical of people you don't want to have a friendship? At the base of it, a relationship is a strong friendship so how can a girl trust you're fine with that when you don't trust people to be your friend?
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I don't keep "friends" and I don't know who any of my family is. I move round too much to find out or keep friends, I made a huge mistake years ago as a child and have never kept friends since I was like...8 years old. I wasn't born but grew up in the military and don't stick round long enough to meet anyone or to have a relationship. I don't want any and that's how it will stay.
as long as your not a geek, quite self confident- no. I mean if you care about your social connections, which really makes sense for you I understand that some people not into that superficial social network thing) your alright^^
I would call you an individual. Nothing wrong with that.
Absolutely not. sometime being a loner is the only way to finding yourself. Maybe he chooses not to associate hinself with people he has met due to barriers he outs up... :) accept him for who he is
Not weird at all. I'm like that and I'm just not interested in most people (and I'm not weird either)
No, I don´t find it strange, actually I´m pretty much the same :)
Not really no. I mean I wouldn't care
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